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8 Blowjob Tips – Many people, including the quiet neighbour, believe that they can give excellent blowjobs. Even though we support this confidence, we have to admit that this is often an illusion. If everyone is so good at it, why have we seen so many mediocre blowjobs? We say “mediocre” because we’ve never had an awful blowjob. Some were toothy, and some we wanted them to stop without telling them. Still, we wouldn’t call any of those experiences bad, just not great.
Sex, much like a preference for art, men and certain drinks, is subjective. That’s why it’s important not just to perfect one technique, but to develop a whole repertoire of different techniques that you can adapt depending on your penis. That’s why we don’t want to withhold our 8 tried and tested blowjob tips from you.
1. DEALING WITH DRY MOUTH
Before we talk about technique, we should address the issue of dryness. There are few things worse than giving a blowjob with a dry mouth. A glass of water on the bedside table is helpful, but often not enough. Chewing gum, sucking sour candy or gargling with a mouthwash containing xylitol, such as Biotene, can stimulate saliva production.
2. LEAD WITH LUBE
Is saliva enough? Sometimes, but lube is the real hero when your mouth is dry. It reduces friction and increases pleasure, especially when using your hands. If you don’t like the taste of lube or penis lube, there are flavoured lubes available in many flavours. A silicone lube can be perceived as better and last about 10–15 minutes.
3. JUST THE TIP
The head of the penis has the most nerve endings, and the nerves running along the top of the shaft enhance the sensation of the entire organ. The frenulum, a small fold of skin on the underside of the shaft, is also very sensitive. It is recommended to use techniques that create gentle friction along the shaft while orally stimulating the glans and frenulum.
4. A QUICK STUDY
The technique should be adapted to the shape of the penis. Straight and upward curved penises are easier to take deep into the mouth in the 69 position, with other shapes you have to find the right angle. On first contact, try to recognise the shape and adjust your body accordingly. It helps if you have seen your partner masturbate and then imitate their hand movements with your mouth. The difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises is also important.
With a circumcised penis, it should be made very wet as there is no extra skin. Be careful and gentle. With uncircumcised penises, you have to be careful with the foreskin. Some like it when the glans is exposed, others find it uncomfortable. Observe the reactions or ask. Some also prefer a light nibble on the foreskin. Note that uncircumcised penises are often tighter when erect. Be careful, or ask.
5. BE VERSE
A blowjob is not just about achieving the goal, it’s also about having fun. Instead of focussing on bringing your partner to orgasm, try out different techniques and experiment. Often people are too fast and too hard, so it’s important to change the pace and angle occasionally to create different sensations. A varied technique can be achieved by applying different amounts of pressure with the mouth.
Try making the lips firm and then soft again, speeding up and slowing down, changing the rhythm and trying out different positions. For example, start on your knees and make eye contact, then turn round to show your bum and try it from the side while sitting next to your partner. You’ll find that some positions are more comfortable for you, too.
Once your partner is approaching climax, the chosen technique should be maintained. Hands can also be involved by making a twisting motion similar to opening a jar and running it along the shaft. In addition, the perineum, the area between the testicles and anus, can be massaged or stimulated. Vibrating toys can also help, especially in sensitive areas of the penis when the jaw needs a break.
6. PLAYING WITH TESTICLES
As the testicles are very sensitive, gentle massaging, pulling, tugging or involving them in the mouth can work wonders. A gentle tug around the testicles can increase the sensation while stimulating the penis. It’s important to use your hands, as you can’t apply much pressure to the shaft with your mouth alone. Alternate between firm pressure and a gentle touch.
However, not everyone likes playing with the testicles. Some men have more tension in the pelvic area, which makes this area more sensitive. It’s similar to tickling – some like it, some don’t.
7 DEEPTHROAT
To take the penis deep into your mouth, you should open your mouth as wide as possible, work down the shaft and close your lips around the base to avoid teeth contact. It’s important to find the right angle to slide the penis down the throat rather than forcing it in, which can be painful.
If gagging is a problem, pressing the thumb into the palm of the hand can help prevent the gag reflex. A position where the head is down on the bed and the partner is standing can encourage salivation and reduce the gag reflex. The partner can also play with the giver’s whole body. If gagging still occurs, it is not a problem, but a sign of devotion and gives the receiver the feeling of being particularly well-equipped.
8 WIN-WIN
The best blowjobs are pleasurable for both parties. The giver should have as much fun as the receiver, which means that the receiver also takes some responsibility. Positive feedback is important so that the giver knows they are doing a good job. Verbal affirmations, moans and compliments can enhance the experience for both parties.
There are many factors to consider when giving a blowjob, and the tips given here should help make the experience more enjoyable. The most important thing is to have fun with it, because you can’t fake real excitement.
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