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No, the Sissy fetish or Sissification has nothing to do with the Austrian Empress Elisabeth (known as Sisi) – unfortunately, your brain is taking a wrong turn here. It is actually a form of role play from the BDSM scene. In this article, we will explain what lies behind the term, what exactly a Sissy fetish or Sissy sex is, and how Sissification is practiced.
Sissification – what is it?
The word “sissy,” which is part of “sissification,” comes from the English word “sister.” Today, “sissy,” similar to “pussy,” is used as an insult for men. It implies cowardice and suggests that the person being insulted behaves like a little girl. The sissy fetish developed from this insult, which also has sexual connotations.
So if someone wants to explain the term “sissification” to you, they will also tell you that it refers to a type of BDSM in which someone is subjected to forced feminization as part of a role play. This role play (also called age play when there is a large age difference between the participants) is also known to insiders as the sissy fetish or sissy play. It is a form of gender play in which the submissive partner takes on the role of a woman or girl. They wear women’s clothing and also display typically feminine behavior. You will find all the usual clichés here, from the cleaning lady to the naive bimbo. It is important to note that sissy fetish or sissification refers to the kink, while sissy refers to the specific role.
The goal of sissification is the emasculation, feminization, and associated humiliation of the person who is the sissy. A sissy fetish therefore involves much more than just wearing women’s clothing. The role of a sissy is submissive, but that is not enough. Only with the humiliation, undermining, and ridicule of masculinity does the sissy fetish unfold its full appeal.
Role distribution in sissification
Sissy play consists of two players. On one side is the submissive sissy. They are a male person and, contrary to popular belief, do not have to be gay. On the other side is the dominant partner, who can be of any gender. In the LGBTQIA+ community, both roles are usually played by gay men. Because the dominant partner is interested in feminization, they are also called feminizers. Sissification is also popular in the heterosexual community, in which case the role play is performed with a dominatrix or a femdom.
Possible course of sissification
There are, of course, endless variations. The basic question is how long sissification should last. Would you like a one-time session or are you thinking about being a sissy for a longer period of time? The answer is essential because forced feminization by your dom can be limited to one session or extend over a longer period of time. If you want, you can also integrate the sissy fetish into your everyday life (secretly or openly) if you both want to. If you are aiming for permanent emasculation, the appeal of sissification can be much stronger.
Although there is no “basic recipe for sissification,” feminization always proceeds in roughly the same way. First, the future sissy is emasculated. To do this, they must take off their men’s clothing and are asked to shave their beard and other body parts (armpits, pubic area, legs, chest). Then they slip into women’s clothes, wear high heels, put on makeup, and often fake breasts are used.
In the next step, male behaviors are replaced by stereotypically feminine ones. The sissy’s task is to present these in a very exaggerated manner. An integral part of this type of play is that the dom humiliates and trains the sissy through BDSM practices such as punishment, verbal abuse, humiliation, ridicule, beatings, and often sexual acts.
What makes a sissy
In order to live out the sissy fetish, it is necessary for there to be someone who takes on the role of the sissy. The active partner then has the task of educating the sissy with the help of sissy training or sissy education so that they look and behave like a woman who conforms to common stereotypes. All aspects are exaggerated in the process. It is not uncommon for the sissy to develop a second identity that they also live out in everyday life.
There are, of course, certain characteristics that distinguish the role of the sissy in sissification. This starts with clothing. In addition to dresses, a sissy also wears corsets and high heels, often with a preference for frills and tulle and the color pink. But their own bodies are also trimmed to fit the sissy image. A good sissy wears makeup and a wig, shaves their legs, and uses fake breasts to enhance their feminine charms.
To complete the image of a sissy, they act in a highly exaggerated manner, fulfill prevailing stereotypes, and present themselves as childish, cute, or even stupid, in accordance with their role. So if you want to take on the role of a sissy in sissification, you’ll be very busy and your acting skills will be put to the test.
Different types of sissies
Depending on the age of the sissy, there can be different types of punishment. If the sissy takes on the role of a girl, the feminizer often uses educational measures. If the sissy is a teenager and is rebellious, appropriate punishments are needed. If the sissy slips into the role of a young housewife, corporal punishment may be necessary if the food does not taste good or the apartment is not cleaned properly. If the sissy plays a cheeky grandmother, she needs appropriate reprimands.
Is sissy sex part of sissification?
Whether and in what form a sissy is allowed to have sex during sissification is determined individually by the participants. In principle, sissy sex is possible, but the sissy is not allowed to have active sex, as she has been emasculated. Passive anal intercourse by the dominant partner is very often part of role play. A popular means of punishment in sissy fetishism is chastity. This often further enhances the fetish. If sissy sex and masturbation are prohibited, the feminizer often punishes violations very severely.
Choosing a partner is important
The question of what fans of this type of play, and sissies in particular, find appealing about it is also important when looking for like-minded people. Ultimately, it is the feeling of being at someone’s mercy and giving up control that a sissy seeks and finds satisfying. Added to this is the desire for humiliation. Do you recognize yourself in these descriptions? Then please be careful who you allow to train you and play with you.
Why is this particularly important here? Because BDSM is about power games, humiliation, and age play, and there are sometimes people who do not respect boundaries. That’s why you should only play with a partner who respects your boundaries. They should also be familiar with the rules of sissy play. For example, filming a sissy session is a no-go (unless you explicitly ask for it). You should also agree on a safe word for emergencies.
Conclusion: Live your sissy fetish and enjoy it
Everyone has their own preferences that they don’t need to be ashamed of and that are perfectly valid. So if you want to be a sissy, if you need sissification for your well-being, then play to the fullest. Let yourself be trained once or for longer as a little girl, a cheeky teenage girl, a submissive housewife, or even a grumpy grandmother. With a dom who respects your boundaries and subjects you to sissification according to your role, you will become the sissy you’ve always been inside and wanted to be.
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