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Once you reach the point of no return, you can’t hold back your ejaculation, right? Actually, many men can do just that by stopping at the right moment and delaying orgasm. This variation is well known in BDSM, but it works on a mental level. A sperm stopper is not a mind game, but a physical sex toy that traps your ejaculation. It prevents you from ejaculating and is worn by slaves. Find out how the sperm stopper works and how it is used.
What is a semen stopper and how does it work?
The sperm stopper is often available in stores as a urethral plug. It works similarly to a classic anal plug, but in the urethra. Visually, a sperm stopper consists of a ring that is pulled over the glans and a ball. You insert this directly into the urethra to hold back the semen.
There are two versions. A sperm stopper with an opening allows ejaculation, as the stopper opens slightly under the pressure of the semen. A closed plug keeps the semen in place and does not let it out. Since the urethra is blocked, urine is also retained.
This toy is primarily used in BDSM sessions to prevent slaves from ejaculating or to intensify ejaculation. If the opening of the urethra is blocked, retrograde ejaculation can be achieved. The retained sperm does not flow out of the penis, but enters the bladder via the urethra. This triggers a special form of pressure that can be perceived as painful but also stimulating. The next time you urinate, you will lose the semen along with the urine.
How do I find the right semen stopper for me?
When buying a urethral plug, you will be faced with different sizes. If you have no experience with this toy, start with a small product. The length is important, but so is the diameter. Dilators with a diameter of 12 mm are more suitable for experienced users, whereas toys with a diameter of 4 mm can also be used by beginners.
If you are just starting out, you can also buy a multi-pack. This has the advantage that you can try out different sizes and use them gradually.
If you opt for a model with a ring around the glans, you should also consider the diameter. The sperm stopper must fit well and securely. Check it for sharp edges and corners before using it for the first time to avoid injury.
Tip: You will also need lubricant for use. You can buy this directly so that nothing stands in the way of your fun.
How to use the sperm stopper correctly and safely
Anyone who has ever had a urethral infection knows how sensitive the urinary tract is. Men in particular are at risk of such an infection spreading from the prostate to the epididymis. Not a pleasant thought, which is why hygiene is the most important rule when using a sperm stopper.
In addition to lubricant, always get a toy cleaner so you can clean your toy and use it hygienically. Lubricant is not only intended to make play more enjoyable, but also to prevent injuries. The urethra is sensitive, and if you start off with toys that are too large, you risk tearing, which can then become a gateway for bacteria.
These are the basic rules for using a sperm blocker:
● Always use lubricant
● Clean the toy after use and before the next use
● Pay attention to hygiene in your genital area
● Wear gloves if necessary, as dirt under your fingernails is also a breeding ground for bacteria
● If it hurts, bleeds, or doesn’t work, stop immediately
Risks associated with using a sperm blocker
Before playing with a sperm blocker, it is essential that all parties are familiar with how it works and are willing to participate. If you are using the toy on another person, talk to them first. Your partner should let you know immediately if they experience any discomfort or if something feels unpleasant. As with all BDSM activities, it is important to have a safe word.
The biggest risks include:
● Germs spreading and causing urethritis
● Faulty workmanship resulting in a ball getting lost in the urethra
● Injuries caused by sharp edges or defective toys
Important: Only use sperm stoppers that are designed for this purpose and not “household items” such as screwdrivers. Even if they have the same shape, they are not suitable as sex toys.
Can I also wear the sperm stopper during sex?
Sex without semen sounds like the perfect method of contraception, as semen carries the highest risk of disease transmission. However, if you think you can simply wear the stopper during sex, you are mistaken. You risk serious injury as you cannot control the dilator. It could slip out of place if you penetrate yourself while wearing a sperm stopper. Furthermore, the stopper is not a sensible or safe substitute for contraception.
If you are the passive partner, you can wear the sperm stopper during intercourse. Your partner can penetrate you and even stimulate you with their hand (or orally) and the flow of semen will remain blocked. Just make sure that the toy fits well and does not slip out, even during vigorous movements.
Why can a sperm stopper be fun?
Sperm stoppers are used almost exclusively in BDSM. By using one, you as the dom exercise a form of control over your partner’s orgasm. Especially in combination with bondage games, you alone decide when the other person is allowed to ejaculate and when not. The sperm still makes its way through the stopper, but ends up in the urethra.
Depending on the length of the dilator, the pressure of the retrograde semen triggers additional stimulation in the prostate area. This can intensify your partner’s orgasm.
If you are more submissive yourself, you can also use the sperm stopper during masturbation. The feeling during masturbation is different and you have full control over where your semen ends up.
Conclusion: Sperm stoppers are interesting toys
Sperm stoppers are popular toys for submissive lovers who like to submit to their partner. They are used to prevent or hinder the other person’s ejaculation. As long as everything is hygienic and no acute or severe pain occurs during use, you can use the toy without hesitation.
However, please note that different rules apply if you have urethral diseases or narrowing. In this case, the sex toy is not suitable for you. If you are unsure, consult your doctor beforehand.
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