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Whether it’s your first time or “just another time,” with the right anal sex preparation, the experience will simply be better. Admittedly, it sounds a bit stuffy to have to prepare for anal sex before you can enjoy it. In theory, a quickie in the club toilet works, but not as well. A hand job or blow job is a much better option here. This is even more true if you’re not yet an anal acrobat with a medal, but are just taking your first steps. And don’t panic, preparing for anal sex doesn’t have to be boring.
Preparing for anal sex: It doesn’t take much to be fresh…
… and when you’re fresh, you’re a king! At least that’s true for anal sex. A freshly washed anal area is not only more fun for your partner, but also gives you more confidence. And the good news is that it doesn’t have to take long. A quick “I need to take a leak” is all it takes to do some quick “before and after care.”
If you’re on the go and want to pick up or seduce someone outdoors, a little preparation is a must. Wet wipes in the glove compartment, a bar of soap and a damp washcloth in a plastic bag, and a good lubricant will equip you perfectly.
If you don’t have any of these items to hand and don’t have the opportunity to quickly wipe yourself with a wet wipe, you don’t have to call off the anal event straight away. However, be aware that there is a possibility of contact with faeces. But that’s no big deal, because the anal canal is not only the entrance for your partner’s penis, but also the exit for digestion. The only important thing is that the penis does not enter the anus and then the mouth, as there are too many bacteria there.
The more, the better: When it comes to lubricant, the motto is
If you are planning an erotic adventure, get some lubricant. You are now faced with a wide range of different options, which we would like to explain briefly:
- Silicone lubricant: You can enjoy long-lasting lubrication with a silicone-based lubricant. The advantage is that you can use it for hours and hardly need to reapply it. Just make sure that silicone does not work in combination with sex toys made of the same material and that not all lubricants are condom-friendly.
- Water-based lubricant: This type of lubricant is not only condom-friendly, but also ideal for use with sex toys. The gels are not quite as slippery as silicone-based products, but are perfect for anal sex. Just add a little more in between and you’re good to go.
- Hybrid lubricant: Want the best of both worlds? Then go for double the pleasure with a hybrid lubricant. The silicone content ensures that it stays slippery for a long time, yet these lubes can still be used with toys and condoms. The best solution for anal sex with contraception.
- Oil-based lubricant: Oil-based lubricants are not the first choice for classic anal sex; they are primarily used for fisting. However, if you don’t have anything else to hand, this type of lubricant will also work. Just make sure that the gel is compatible with condoms.
- Numbing lubricants: If you are afraid of pain during anal sex, a numbing lubricant may be the solution. The big advantage is that penetration causes less pain because the surface of the anal canal is gently numbed. You can enjoy sex with all your senses, but you’ll be more relaxed because your entrance is numb.
The most important precaution is to use a lubricant that is compatible with your condoms. Safe sex is also important during anal intercourse, as sexually transmitted diseases can also be transmitted through anal intercourse.
Prepare yourself for anal sex
The first time you have anal sex is a challenge, but the subsequent times are often just as challenging. You are not yet used to it and hold your breath every time your lover wants to penetrate you. Your sphincter muscle cramps up and your nervousness plays tricks on you.
Don’t panic, you’re not alone – even experienced men often feel this way when they change partners. Regular practice with yourself will help you relax. Who says masturbation always has to involve your penis? If you feel like it, use anal toys such as a butt plug to slowly get used to the size.
Caution: Before you start thinking that this will cause your entrance to become loose, here’s a quick note. In a healthy man, neither anal sex nor the use of anal toys causes incontinence or sphincter dysfunction. This muscle returns to its normal position when relaxed and resumes its function. To prevent tears and other painful incidents, you should never start with XL-sized plugs and other toys, but work your way up slowly.
Anal sex preparation: Don’t forget the bed
Anal sex preparation works best when you know your partner is coming over. You can take a shower, use an anal douche, and shave in peace if you feel like it. But even if you’re perfectly prepared, there’s still the place to be! Anal sex isn’t just wet and slippery, it can also be messy. Yes, it can happen that residue sticks to the condom and small smears end up on the bed sheets.
If you can’t stand that, there are many other practices that have nothing to do with “backdoor” sex. As a man, you don’t have to be ashamed of your bodily functions – they are part of who you are.
To avoid having to change your bedding every time after sex, an extra sex sheet or a thick sex blanket is the perfect solution. Simply place it over the bed, stretch it over your standard mattress, or place it on the sofa. When it gets wet, sticky, and smeary, just throw the blanket in the washing machine after use and your bed will be like new.
Anal sex preparation: extra tips for romantics
When it comes to wild sex, it often doesn’t matter what the surroundings look like. If you’re taking it slow or it’s with someone you like to cuddle with, a comfortable environment is important. If you invite your date to your place, tidy up, vacuum before the fun begins, and dim the lights. This boosts many men’s self-confidence. If you’re tense and nervous anyway, candlelight or even a scented candle with calming fragrances can be a real game changer. This is also part of anal sex preparation!
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