What is still a taboo subject in the heterosexual sphere is a common practice in the homosexual world. For gay men “sex through the back door” is, so to speak, everyday sexual life. There is a difference between advanced anal sex and beginner anal sex. For men with experience with anal sex, it is easier in practice than for newcomers. Find out why this is so in this article.
Advanced anal intercourse: What do experts say?
Two widespread prejudices often prevail among beginners, namely that anal sex is firstly painful and secondly unhygienic. Neither of these is true with proper preparation. In terms of hygiene, it is important to know that excrement collects relatively far back in the intestine. No penis of at least normal size could reach these regions.
Nevertheless, experienced men who like anal intercourse and take the passive part in anal intercourse take care of internal cleanliness. For example, you can use anal showers to rinse yourself and get rid of any impurities in the front area. As for the pain of anal intercourse between men, this can be avoided relatively well by stretching the anus first. Those who practice anal intercourse frequently know how pleasurable it can be. Advanced anal dildos can turn this stretching into foreplay. Stretch yourself with your fingers. Or use dildos of different sizes and materials (e.g. rubber, silicone, glass, metal) to prepare your sphincter muscles.
In advanced anal sex, poppers are also very often used. This odorant has several effects. It increases the heartbeat, dilates the blood vessels, increases your desire and relaxes the muscles. All this makes it easier for the passive to take the cock and gives him a much stronger sensation. Many advanced users go for poppers, especially when they want to really get down to the business of fucking.
Anal sex – Not a sprint, but a marathon
Anyone who often practices anal sex knows that this type of play cannot be completed at a sprinting pace. Especially at the beginning of the adventure. Rather, it makes sense to treat anal sex with your lover as a kind of marathon and take your time.
Even with long foreplay, where you can use anal toys, the sphincter muscles should not be overcome in one go. Experienced men know that they need to penetrate their partner carefully and slowly. As soon as they feel resistance, they should take a break and wait for the sphincter to relax. When the cock can be “let through”, experienced anal sex fans become really active. Penetration starts slowly at first and then gets faster and faster and deeper. Long-standing couples know their partner and know exactly how the other likes it.
Analsex for “Profis” – Giant Dildos & Double Penetration
Whereas beginners experiment with smaller dildos, anal sex professionals like to reach for bigger sex toys. Use giant dildos or monster plugs, use prostate stimulation. Or let themselves be ravished by two cocks at the same time. However, this practice really belongs to advanced anal intercourse because it requires the anus to be stretched particularly far.
Of course, you need a third man, because double penetration is most fun in a threesome. If there are only two of you, you can also use a dildo. This can then be inserted into the anus together with the real flesh and blood cock. Double penetration is not very far from fisting. A type of play in which the passive is not penetrated with the hand, fist or a whole. To make this successful, lovers of this sexual practice use special fist lubricants. That make the entrance into the cave of pleasure especially slippery.
How “anal sex professionals” massage the prostate to climax: Stimulating the G-spot!
Men also have a G-spot, namely the prostate. If you’ve ever experienced your partner massaging this point, which (when you’re lying on your back) is about an index finger’s length behind the top of your anus, you know how sensitive it is and how it reacts when you come to orgasm. Just before the climax, a kind of bar of muscle fibres is formed by contraction, showing that you are about ready to release your ejaculate into the world.
Prostate stimulation is of course not only possible with the finger, but also with the cock. Anal intercourse-experienced to stimulate the prostate of the passive partner not only by just pulling in and out their best rod, but also by changing position. Positional changes alter the angle of the penetrating penis, stimulating the prostate in different ways.
Analsex for connoisseurs: Why is the doggy style so popular?
When you hear gay men talking about anal sex, the term doggy style almost always comes up and a smile flits across the faces of those involved.
This is explained by the position, because as a passive partner you kneel in front of the active partner and stretch your butt out towards him with pleasure. Your partner kneels behind you between your legs and can penetrate you very deeply in this way. He controls the intensity of the thrust and also the depth of his penetration, and thus the overall intensity of the penetration. This is why this position is recommended for experienced couples and should only be practised by beginners if there is a lot of trust and the active partner knows approximately what the passive partner is capable of during fucking.
Why do experienced anal sex fans cum in the passive partner?
Many passive men who often have anal sex with their steady partner are into anal sex without condoms and love it when their partner jerks off while he fucks them deep and hard. It’s not just the natural sensation of not wearing a rubber that plays a role, but also the sensation of cuming deep inside you.
For a long time, this practice of bareback was condemned because of the risk of HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases and was considered a high risk to health. Due to advances in HIV medicine, attitudes have changed and more and more men are protecting themselves through PreP. In addition, the motto “Protection through therapy” applies today, because HIV-infected people cannot pass on the virus even during unprotected anal sex if they are treated with appropriate medication.
Despite this, experts recommend the use of condoms, if only to protect against other diseases such as hepatitis, syphilis or gonorrhoea. Men with frequently changing anal sex partners forgo the sensations associated with bareback sex and use condoms to protect their health.
Anal-professionals: hygiene also for anal toys
Whoever uses tools for even more passionate and horny anal sex should always remember that when fucking, foreign bodies are introduced into the body that do not normally belong there. The anus and intestines are delicate systems with mucous membranes and therefore must be kept clean at all costs. Since bacteria and germs always collect on anal showers, dildos, plugs or other toys, experienced anal sex lovers take great care to clean them thoroughly after each use. There is a whole range of special cleaners for sex toys.
Communication before fucking – anal sex professionals know what the other wants
Of course, you can just fuck away, but that is often very unpleasant for both or all parties involved and certainly not fully satisfying. Well, it can work for a one-night stand with a club friend, but usually a horny and satisfying anal sex session requires that you know from each other how to satisfy your partner, what positions he likes, whether he prefers to be fucked softly or hard, or whether he likes pure meat or sex toys.
So communication and exchange are needed. The longer partners practise anal sex together, the better they get to know each other’s preferences and know exactly how to stimulate them and finally bring them to a horny, wet climax. Even if it sounds stupid, but talking to each other contributes to even better anal sex.
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