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When you hear the term “blowjob fetish,” you first think of classic oral sex and a particular preference for it. However, oral preferences often go much further and include very specific kinks. The blowjob itself is appreciated by most men, without them having a fetish for it. It just feels good when the penis disappears into the mouth of another person and is massaged with the tongue. We speak of a kink or a fetish especially when very special varieties are the focus. We present eight of them to you!
1. deepthroat fetish for profound oral pleasure
A deepthroat fuck is a type of blowjob fetish that goes deeper. As the active partner, you not only penetrate your partner’s mouth with your penis, but also deep into their throat. This can quickly trigger a gag reflex in your partner if they don’t know how to do it.
With experience on both sides, a deepthroat is much more successful; the positioning of the head is crucial. If your lover leans his head back over the edge of the bed, his mouth and throat form a straight line. You’ll be amazed how deep your penis will go into his throat like this.
Tip: You can practice taking a cock deeper into your mouth with a dildo. If you find the right holding technique for your head, you’ll suppress your gag reflex.
2. Gagging and choking create a sense of dominance
A preference for gagging and choking is common in the BDSM scene. Choking during a blowjob is a form of humiliation because the active partner has no regard for it. Consent is crucial here, and a stop gesture is very important for this oral fetish.
Choking goes a step further: the penis literally cuts off the air supply to the throat. If that’s not enough, the hands are used to help from the outside. This practice is used by the dominant partner to control their partner. Choking is not without danger and requires experience, trust and absolute sobriety: the blowjob fetish for advanced.
3. Snowballing has nothing to do with a snowball fight
Snowballing is not a blowjob fetish, but a cum play. In this sexual practice, you, as the active blowjob giver, keep your partner’s cum in your mouth and give it back to him with a French kiss. If you are intimate with several men at the same time, you can also pass the cum on to a third person. In the porn industry, this practice is also known as “cum swapping”.
Caution: You should only do snowballing with men whose health status you know. Ingesting semen can cause sexually transmitted diseases to be passed on.
4. Facefucking is often an expression of dominance
“Facefucking” can be combined with many other kinks and is very common among BDSM couples. As the penetrating partner, you take control and use your partner’s mouth as a substitute for anal penetration. In a classic blowjob, your partner moves his head and decides on the pace. With facefucking, on the other hand, you’re the boss. You thrust your penis into your partner’s mouth or even deep down his throat. Face fucking and deep throat are often combined preferences, and gagging is also often combined with a face fuck.
5. the cuckold blowjob with a very special component
With the cuckold blowjob, your “job” depends heavily on your role in the relationship. If you are the cuckold, you watch as your partner orally satisfies another man or is satisfied by him. You gain your pleasure from watching, from the masochistic and emotional pain of jealousy, and from your submissive and passive behavior.
If, on the other hand, you are the cuckold’s partner, you get your pleasure from your lover’s humiliation. He has to watch you being pampered by another guy or giving your blowjob to someone else. There is a third role – that of the man who is being blown. Here you have no (emotional) relationship with either of the other two men, but act as a beneficiary. You get a blowjob, have an audience and can enjoy – the beneficiary of the blowjob fetish, so to speak
6. Humiliation & Degradation popular in the BDSM area
Humiliation and degradation are classics in the BDSM scene and the blowjob is a popular form of dehumanizing your partner. If you are active yourself, your job is to use your partner and thus humiliate them.
You don’t take the other person’s needs into consideration, only your own. Of course, consent is important, you discuss everything in advance and agree on protective gestures (because your lover can’t talk with a penis in his mouth). That way, you’re both on the safe side.
How far you take the blowjob fetish is a personal decision. In some relationships, it is common for the submissive partner to use their mouth as an “anus” and even share it with others. The neighbor is allowed to use it when he is visiting, and at fetish parties, the “mouth cunt” is shared with willing men. Although this fetish is very degrading, everything happens on an equal footing. This is what characterizes a good BDSM relationship and is standard in the scene.
7. gloryhole fetish with the allure of the unknown
The glory hole is widespread and popular in the gay scene. It is a hole in the wall through which you, as the passive part, stick your penis and let the person behind the wall pleasure you.
Depending on the context, you may not know who is on the other side. Originally, the glory hole was developed as a way to have anonymous sex. Today, you can also find such holes in sex clubs, where you may later meet the person on the other side for a drink at the bar.
You can still find glory holes in some public places today. They are typically found in rundown train stations, on highway rest stops, or even at universities. Some adult stores and porn theaters also have an anonymous wall through which you can stick your penis and get pampered.
Whether you get a blowjob or a handjob depends on your generosity. Most glory holes are used by professional gays, whom you pay for their services. Don’t forget the condom at such a hole, it protects you from diseases.
8. Sloppy Blowjob as soft Kink
The sloppy blowjob is not necessarily a blowjob fetish or kink, for some couples it is simply standard. The special thing about it is that this blowjob is given without taboos and in a particularly dirty way. If you see saliva running down the penis from the corners of your mouth and you hear smacking and sucking noises, you are doing everything right.
Incidentally, the term “sloppy” comes from the English-speaking world. Here the word means “negligent” or “sloppy”. So instead of making sure that not a single drop of saliva gets on the bed, you can mess up to your heart’s content.
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