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Erotic Spanking: Your Comprehensive Guide to the Slap on the Butt

4 Min. Lesezeit “Clapping” isn’t just for the audience; it’s also for spanking. The English term conceals the less charming word “beating.” Since we’re not wildly thrashing each other in a lustful frenzy, we prefer sticking with erotic spanking. This practice is now fairly widespread and provides many gay men with sensual experiences. But who is spanking actually […]

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Common Relationship Problems of Gay Couples: Causes and Solutions

4 Min. Lesezeit Relationship problems of gay couples are not unusual. When it comes to relationships, it’s always true that where joy and happiness exist, crisis and drama may also lurk. An interesting question is, what are the causes of difficulties in gay relationships, and how might solutions look for relationship issues among gay men? Relationships: The Meeting […]

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The 7 Most Common BDSM Myths and Clichés

4 Min. Lesezeit Where there’s a kink, there’s a myth. Today’s topic is BDSM myths. We’ve all encountered clichés and statements surrounding the topic of BDSM. “They’re constantly beating each other,” “They’re incapable of having relationships,” “There’s something wrong with their psychology.” Such statements are not only false but also unnecessary and fall into the category of “kink-shaming.” […]

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Shower vs Grower / blood penis vs flesh penis

4 Min. Lesezeit Do you also glance at the bulges in other men’s tight pants during every walk? Sometimes you wonder if a man really has such an enormous penis that already looks impressive when flaccid, or if he’s just aroused, causing his member to stand out so much. There are men whose penis more than doubles in […]

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History of Fisting

5 Min. Lesezeit As part of the gay community, the topic of fisting has probably crossed your path before—whether in discussions, in porn films, or even on dates. The history of fisting doesn’t stretch too far back, but it is fascinating because it is closely connected to the AIDS crisis of the 1980s and 1990s and the LGBTQIA+ […]

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Ethyl chloride: The most important reasons why you shouldn’t inhale it!

4 Min. Lesezeit Ethyl chloride spray is gaining popularity in the gay scene as a dangerous substitute for poppers – but the risks are far greater than most realize. This blog post dives deep into the life-threatening effects of inhaling ethyl chloride, debunking common myths and offering safer alternatives for your health and pleasure. Stay informed and avoid a high that could be your last.

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Locktober – Merciless Lockdown in Your Underwear!

4 Min. Lesezeit Since the pandemic, most of us are probably tired of the word “lockdown.” So, some of you may raise an eyebrow when hearing about “Locktober” and think twice before reading further. Don’t worry – in Locktober, the lockdown only applies to your dicks, while you yourself are free. We’ll explain what it’s all about, why […]

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Mental Health: What is your banana?

4 Min. Lesezeit Hey, sexy! Do you know the story of how to catch a monkey? Believe me, it has more to do with your life than you think! Discover why you’re holding on to things that hold you back and how you can finally let go. Find your banana and experience true freedom – emotionally and physically.

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Getting into BDSM for couples: A guide

6 Min. Lesezeit Ready to discover the world of BDSM with your partner? Our ultimate guide for couples will show you how to live out your fantasies safely and sensually. Immerse yourself in the exciting world of dominance and devotion. Read now and ignite new passion!

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Wishes in BDSM: Express yourself Sexy!

4 Min. Lesezeit Do you have secret BDSM desires that appear in your wildest dreams? Dive into the exciting world of BDSM and find out how you can live out these desires in a safe and real way. Click here to find out more and discover your fantasies!

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What is a cane (BDSM)?

5 Min. Lesezeit The ultimate thrill! We take you into the world of canes – from sensual tingling to an intense experience. Learn all about the best materials, tips for use and care instructions. Be inspired and take your BDSM play to the next level.

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Tongue fetish

5 Min. Lesezeit Do you get hot at the sight of a tongue? Whether it’s sucking sweets or erotic tongue kisses – discover what makes a real tongue fetish and how you can live it out. Find out more about the exciting world of tongue games and find matching accessories with us!

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How do porn actors stay hard on set?

5 Min. Lesezeit How do porn stars stay hard on set? Discover the secrets of the pros on how they maintain their erections during long days of filming. From healthy eating to supplements and special techniques – find out how you too can last longer!

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Ultimate guide to flirt like a pro

5 Min. Lesezeit Our ultimate guide shows you how to flirt like a pro and make hot dates happen. Discover the secret weapons of seduction, from irresistible self-confidence to seductive compliments. Be inspired and get ready for exciting encounters and unforgettable nights.

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Sex swing – jolt your way to hot orgasms

5 Min. Lesezeit Are you ready for a whole new sex experience? A sex swing takes you to positions you could only dream of before. Discover how you can experience more intense orgasms and exciting adventures with your partner. Click now to find out all about the sling!

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7 good fisting lubes

5 Min. Lesezeit Top 7 fisting lubes! For men who are looking for something special and long for sensual experiences. Discover the ultimate selection now for unforgettable moments of pleasure.

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Top Ten Boyfriend Green Flags

5 Min. Lesezeit Ready for a gay love journey full of passion and connection? Discover the ultimate top ten boyfriend green flags to help you find the perfect partner. From sensual intimacy to emotional stability, these flags will take your love to a whole new level!

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Fisting Bottom Guide

4 Min. Lesezeit Ready to unleash your wildest fantasies? Discover the ultimate guide to fisting bottom! Step by step, you’ll learn how to prepare for intense climaxes and push your limits.

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Vomiting while blowing: What to do?

4 Min. Lesezeit Learn how to master the gag reflex and lose yourself in a firework display of lust. From gentle touches to passionate depths – experience the secrets of an unforgettable blowjob that will send you into ecstasy.

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A kick for your nipples – delightful games with pumps and teats

3 Min. Lesezeit Ready for ecstatic climaxes? Nipple suckers unleash unimagined feelings of pleasure! Don’t ignore the power of your nipples any longer. Experience how every tingle intensifies and every touch goes deeper. Whether alone or as a couple, let nipple suckers revolutionise your pleasure and transform ordinary sex into an explosive experience.

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Your electroplay guide for extra tingling pleasure

3 Min. Lesezeit Exciting experience with electroplay and bring high voltage into your love life with targeted equipment and precautions. E-stimulation enchants with its versatile applications: For sensual pleasures or deep, thrilling sensations. This guide will help you master safe use, choose the right electro toys and vary the intensity of stimulation.

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The BDSM roles

5 Min. Lesezeit Our comprehensive selection offers insights into over 40 exciting play personalities. Immerse yourself in a dense thicket of desire and lust as you explore the variety of sexual possibilities. From playful brat-tamers to sensitive daddies and strict masters – you’ll find everything your heart desires here.

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Let’s talk about objectification

3 Min. Lesezeit Immerse yourself in the exciting world of objectification! Discover the seductive art of BDSM role-play and experience how power, devotion and passion come together. From transformation into an object of desire to exciting game variations – this article leaves nothing to be desired.

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What is tunnel play? BDSM games

3 Min. Lesezeit The captivating world of BDSM, where time seems to stand still, and every touch ignites a new ecstasy. From burning ointments to icy cold – feel the power of sensuality that holds you captive. No return, no limits. Are you ready to cross the tunnel of lust?

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Would you like a… vibrator?

4 Min. Lesezeit Experience intense fun and pleasure with vibrators! Discover different sizes, materials and types of play for more intense orgasms. Enjoy new pleasurable adventures alone or as a couple. Clean your vibrator thoroughly for carefree pleasure.

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Buy Monster Dildo at Tom Rocket’s

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the monster dildo from Tom Rocket’s: experience intense pleasure and unforgettable moments of ecstasy! With its high-quality material, impressive size and detailed surface, this dildo promises unforgettable moments of pleasure.

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Dating: Safe behaviour at a BDSM rendezvous

7 Min. Lesezeit Safe and exciting dating locations for your BDSM rendezvous. From cosy cafés and intimate bars to active excursions – find out which location suits you and your desires best. Be flexible and open yourself up to new experiences, because the first date can be the start of something unique.

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The Humbler: perfect for your ball torture

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the exciting BDSM toy, the Humbler, which was specially developed for Ball Torture. Find out how you can use this torture tool to inflict pain and dominance on your lover. Immerse yourself in a new world of submission and intensify your sex life with exciting games.

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The hottest gay films with lots of naked skin

5 Min. Lesezeit The hottest gay films full of naked skin! From romantic to sexy, they offer a mix of romance, drama and sensual moments. Be inspired by our selection of films. Experience top-class actors in intense love stories that will bring tears of joy and pain to your eyes. Enjoy a tingling film evening with your best friend, your lover or your cuddly blanket.

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What does kink-shaming mean?

4 Min. Lesezeit Explore the deeper meaning of kink-shaming and its impact on the BDSM community. Recognise the importance of taking decisive action against this harmful behaviour and how the principle of “YKINMKBYKIO” promotes acceptance and tolerance.

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Slay with MR. Riegillio

3 Min. Lesezeit Discover MR. Riegillio: The ultimate brand for fetish fashion. High-quality materials, trendy designs and unique style. Tom Rocket’s – your source for MR. Riegillio and other exciting brands. Live your fetish style with confidence.

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Facesitting for gays – the oral treat for all gourmets

3 Min. Lesezeit Facesitting with gays: experience the ultimate guide and sensual pleasure of an intimate practice. Facesitting gives you absolute control over your lover while you make yourself comfortable on his greedy mouth and spoil him with your cock. From basics to game variations, you’ll learn everything you need to drive him crazy and reach the peak of pleasure. Enjoy the intimate and lustful world of facesitting and broaden your horny horizons.

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Genderfluid (gender) identity

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the fascinating world of genderfluid gender identity and find out how images of masculinity are changing. Immerse yourself in the diversity of gender flexibility in sex and find support in specialised counselling centres.

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Anal bleaching – whitening for your rosette

4 Min. Lesezeit Find out all about anal bleaching to lighten the rosette. Discover why more and more men are following this trend and how the different methods work. Whether it’s worth it and what side effects can occur – we give you all the important information. Get the perfect look for your bum and feel confident during sex!

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Disposing condoms correctly – where to put them?

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover how to dispose of condoms correctly in our blog article. From safe disposal at home to the club toilet and fucking in the forest – we give you tips for correct disposal and how to avoid mistakes. You can also find out how to dispose of condoms in an environmentally friendly way. Read and find out!

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More cum: 4 methods for the bedroom

3 Min. Lesezeit Discover 4 seductive methods to increase your sperm volume in the bedroom and experience intense pleasure. From edging and extensive foreplay to cock rings and pleasure delay – experience explosive climaxes and impressive results that will really fire you and your partner up. Are you ready to take your sex power to a new level? Then let us take you on an intense and wild journey into the world of sensual pleasures.

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Sexkick Creampie – the hot flood of cum straight from the arse

4 Min. Lesezeit Immerse yourself in the fascinating world of the creampie and enjoy the exciting feeling of cum slowly flowing out of your lover’s arse. Learn the differences to a cumdump and discover how to conjure up the perfect creampie. Let yourself be seduced by this intense and erotic experience, and experience the exciting thrill of a flood of cum straight from your arse.

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Everything you need to know about cumdump

4 Min. Lesezeit Learn all about cumdumping – the exciting game of passive sex with several men at the same time. Discover what it means to be a cumdump, how it works and how you can safely live out your fantasies. Immerse yourself in the world of pleasurable use and sexual fulfilment!

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Particularities of sex with FTM

5 Min. Lesezeit Discover the special features and exciting potential of sex with FTMs. Find out everything you need to know to have unforgettable experiences. Openness and communication are the key to an exciting and fulfilling sex life with FTMs.

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Polyamory – When two are at least one too few

4 Min. Lesezeit Polyamory – An alternative form of love in which you love and have relationships with several partners at the same time. Openness, honesty and respect are at the centre of this form of relationship, which is appealing to more and more people and is seen as a possible alternative to monogamous relationships.

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Warning signals in BDSM

10 Min. Lesezeit Discover the warning signs and red flags of BDSM and learn how to protect yourself from unhealthy relationships and manipulation. Get to know the red flags and become an expert in recognising the boundaries and protecting yourself. Read now and navigate the world of BDSM safely.

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FLINTA* – All important information

5 Min. Lesezeit Have you ever come across the term FLINTA* and wondered what it means? Find out everything you need to know about it here! From the beginnings of the FLINTA* movement to the definition and meaning of the term, and who exactly belongs to this group of people. If you are interested in gender diversity and emancipation, you should definitely read on!

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Handjob techniques: The perfect handjob for your journey to orgasm heaven

5 Min. Lesezeit There’s the right technique for every handjob – did you know that? Come on, admit it: a good handjob is definitely not to be underestimated. It doesn’t matter whether you’re doing it yourself in a solo session or want to give your lover a handful of surprises: We’ll show you which handjob techniques are really hot and how you can use your hands alone to make someone fly straight to orgasm heaven.

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Foreplay – How to get your lovemaking off to a pleasurable start

5 Min. Lesezeit In our fast-paced world, everything has to be efficient, take up little time and still bring maximum satisfaction, even during sex. A quickie here, a quickie there – it all gets boring after a while. Do you want more than the “well-rehearsed”, quick sex with (your) partner? Then why not extend the journey to a hot climax? Here you’ll find the most important tips for stimulating foreplay.

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Multiple orgasms for gays – just come more often

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the secrets of multiple orgasms for men! Find out how you can bring yourself to multiple exciting climaxes. From the right stimulation of the Jen-Mo point to training the PC muscle – we’ll give you the best tips and tricks. Enjoy unforgettable sexual experiences and experience a whole night of fun and pleasure with your lover.

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From top to bottom – basic terms explained

3 Min. Lesezeit Curious about the exciting world of top and bottom during sex? Learn all about the basic terms, roles and the exciting dynamic between dominant and submissive. Whether you’re already familiar with the terms or just curious about what they mean – we’ve got the answers! Dive in and experience the freedom to explore and accept your own sexual preferences and relationship roles.

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Metaconsensus and CNC: Education on BDSM practices and responsibility

4 Min. Lesezeit In BDSM, everything is based on the clear consent and agreement of all participants. This clearly distinguishes BDSM from violence or assault. It is of the utmost importance that every single person involved fully agrees to the actions. In the BDSM context, the abbreviation CNC is often used, which stands for “Consensual Non-Consent”.

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Pansexual Pride Day – If you are interested in people, not gender

4 Min. Lesezeit Does it matter to you whether your partner is male or female or do your feelings transcend the boundaries of gender binary? If so, Pansexual Pride Day on 8 December is probably important to you. The day is known as Pansexual and Panromantic Pride Day. What exactly does it mean to be pansexual and why is a dedicated Pansexual Pride Day important?

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Ageplay – taboo-breaking fantasy or harmless role-playing game?

4 Min. Lesezeit Ageplay in BDSM refers to roleplay in which one or more men are given or treated as a different age identity. The person can appear either older or younger than in reality. Often the play is centred on mimicking a younger age, with babies, children or teenagers being popular age groups. However, it is important to note that ageplay does not necessarily have to involve sexual aspects.

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Covering in BDSM

3 Min. Lesezeit In the BDSM dating world, “covering” refers to being secured by a trusted third party. In the past, “chaperones” were traditionally used for this, but nowadays informed people who are good friends are favoured. Modern technologies such as mobile phones and clever strategies play an important role here. After all, dating problems can affect anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

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Poppers inhalers – what’s on the market?

3 Min. Lesezeit The use of poppers is widespread in the gay scene. They provide the necessary relaxation, relieve any pain and are simply fun. If you like it simple, you can set up the small bottles or sniff directly from the opening. A poppers’ inhaler is ideal for those who fancy a little bit of luxury. These practical aids help you to enjoy the full flavour of the poppers. According to reports, the effect unfolds even better this way.

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Make a dildo yourself – make bold dreams come true

5 Min. Lesezeit With a dildo, you can really do it yourself and heat up your rosette during a ride. Don’t have one to hand right now? Or do you just fancy a bit of variety, a special dildo? You can actually make your own dildo with a few tools. Here we explain how to do it and what you need to look out for with this awesome DIY.

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BDSM forced ejaculation – prostate & sperm milking made easy

5 Min. Lesezeit Although the term “BDSM forced ejaculation” may sound unpleasant or threatening to some, this BDSM practice of prostate massage is popular among BDSM enthusiasts. The aim of forced ejaculation is to elicit your lover’s hot sperm in a restrained state through BDSM forced ejaculation until it has all been extracted from you while you scream, […]

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Impact Play: Exciting strokes and their many possibilities

9 Min. Lesezeit Have you ever thought about exciting games with spanking? Perhaps you are imagining a scene with a whip and a St Andrew’s cross. It could be that you have similar fantasies to mine. For example, you could imagine lying naked in a dungeon with your arms tied over your head with a rope while your partner decides which spanking instruments to use, such as a paddle, a flogger, a crop or simply his hand.

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The art of the rimjob: 16 positions you should try!

6 Min. Lesezeit A rimjob can be an exciting and intimate experience that enriches the sexual experience. However, before you try out different rimjob positions, it’s important to approach it slowly and pay attention to your partner’s signals. Here are 16 rimjob positions with tips for a sensual experience. Are you ready for new adventures? Let’s go!

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Gays and beards – why gays are so into facial hair

4 Min. Lesezeit The well-known “Have Sex with a Guy with a Moustache Day” is celebrated on 18 November, and many gay men like to take part in it. It is worth noting that gay men often feel a strong attraction to men with beards, which has also attracted the interest of scientists. Researchers now claim to know the reasons for this preference. In this article, we look at what these reasons are and whether you absolutely need to grow a beard now.

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Our favourite Gay party locations – in Berlin and other big cities

5 Min. Lesezeit It’s party time, gays! It’s well known that partying is the best way to meet people, especially in the gay scene. If you know the right venues, you don’t have to spend a Saturday night alone on the sofa, because there’s always something going on. So why not go to a gay club? Here are the hottest clubs, bars and places where you can really party in Berlin, Hamburg and other cities.

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Intersex Day of Remembrance – Inter* – What is it?

4 Min. Lesezeit The Intersex Day of Remembrance, also known as Intersex Solidarity Day, is an international day that aims to raise awareness of the problems faced by intersex people. It has been celebrated every year on 8 November since 2005. The day was originally launched by Joëlle-Circé Laramée, the Canadian spokesperson for the organisation Intersex International at the time.

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Would you like a … dildo? How to find the perfect toy

5 Min. Lesezeit Dildos offer a colourful and exciting world that can greatly enhance your sexual fun, whether you use them alone or with your partner. They are an integral part of a well-equipped gay sex life. However, the wide choice can make decision-making difficult. Should the dildo be small and compact or do you prefer an XXL model? We’ll give you an overview and tell you which dildo is the best model for your or his anus!

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World Men’s Day / World Day of the Man (03 November)

4 Min. Lesezeit Have you ever heard of World Men’s Day or World Men’s Day? If not, that’s not a problem. In this article, we’ll give you all the important information and explain why this day is particularly important for gay men, including in terms of good sex with your partner or a partner. The main topic on World Men’s Day is centred around men’s health.

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Limits and boundaries in BDSM

3 Min. Lesezeit Limits are of great importance in BDSM and refer to the personal boundaries of both the dominant and submissive partner. There are hard and soft limits that define the framework for the game. It is therefore particularly important at the beginning of a relationship to communicate these limits openly in order to ensure safe and consensual play.

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69 Position for double pleasure

3 Min. Lesezeit Let’s immerse ourselves in the sensual and exciting world of the 69 position, an intimate form of oral pleasure that allows you and your partner to indulge yourselves at the same time. In this position, you can fulfil each other’s desires, listening and enjoying, while no one misses out. It’s the perfect balance between give and take for mutual pleasure.

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BDSM Session: Time to Play!

4 Min. Lesezeit In the BDSM scene, the term “session” refers to the period of time during which BDSM activities take place. It can be translated as “session”, “event” or “treatment”. Professional masters/dominas also use this term to refer to their meetings with clients.

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27 Anal Sex Positions

8 Min. Lesezeit In our second part of the series on anal sex positions, we have put together another 27 exciting positions for you. As always, the same applies here: Communication is the key when trying out these positions.

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Edgeplay – To the limit

3 Min. Lesezeit “Edgeplay” is a BDSM term that refers to practices where there is a certain risk to physical health or psyche. It stands for activities that take place at the limits of what is acceptable and can be described as edge play.

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Gang bang – hot game with others

4 Min. Lesezeit Gangbangs are a special form of group sex in which one man is usually sexually satisfied by several men and covered in sperm. In contrast to group sex, however, the men have no sexual contact with each other. In large gangbangs, passive men may also be present who are only sexually stimulated themselves. In the gay community, a gangbang is often seen as the utilisation of the submissive pleasure slave.

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The pleasures of solo fisting

4 Min. Lesezeit Fisting, derived from the English word “fist”, is particularly well-known among gay men and can lead to intense climaxes. When fisting yourself, you can try out the best techniques without a partner. Find out whether it’s possible and discover tips and tricks for this practice.

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Courageously being yourself: Everything about coming out

5 Min. Lesezeit If you are gay, lesbian or feel that you belong to a non-heterosexual orientation or gender identity but are afraid to come out to yourself or other people, you are not alone. Coming out is not always easy. People who belong to the LGBTQ community still struggle against prejudice and are antagonised and discriminated against by religious or politically conservative forces. Coming Out Day, which takes place every year on 11 October, aims to encourage people to come out about their sexual orientation or gender identity.

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Tied up – Penis bondage positions

4 Min. Lesezeit There’s hardly anything hotter than a tightly bound, hard cock lying in front of you just for you alone. The strangled skin takes on a soft blue colour and his bulging balls are ready to explode. Patience, the right equipment and a comfortable bondage position are particularly important for penis bondage. As this is an extremely sensitive area, some safety precautions must also be observed.

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The Uniform Fetish

4 Min. Lesezeit The “uniform fetish” refers to a sexual preference in which people become sexually aroused when they see people in uniforms. Uniforms are specialised items of clothing that are often used to present a common and representative appearance in public. They symbolise the role or affiliation of the wearer to a particular group or profession. From police officers wielding intimidating batons to doctors performing rectal exams, many gay men have enjoyed the sight of men in uniform for generations.

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The juicy practice of docking

7 Min. Lesezeit If you’ve never heard of docking or have always wanted to try it out with your partner or a lover on your next adventure, read on to find out exactly what it’s all about, as well as tips on preparation and foreskin stretching. But first, what is docking?

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Death grip syndrome and the possible consequences

7 Min. Lesezeit Sex and masturbation have a lot in common. Both activities are pleasurable and contribute to our well-being and sexual health. Although we may talk more openly about sex than masturbation, most of us practise both. If you find it difficult to reach orgasm during sex, but easier when pleasuring yourself, you may be affected by what is known as ‘death grip syndrome’ (DGS).

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Old Time Favourite: the Glory Hole

4 Min. Lesezeit For many gay men, there is hardly a more exciting way of sexual satisfaction than the experience of a glory hole. You may already be familiar with these holes drilled at hip level and have had the experience of enjoying a stiff cock in this way. If not, this article will tell you everything you need to know about this form of anonymous sex.

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Warehouse – Popper Story

23 Min. Lesezeit A few who know about my horny games with Stefan, my foreman at the warehouse, have also heard about Oliver, the nineteen-year-old. He is well over ninety kilograms, maybe just under six feet tall, very muscular and has a classically shaped figure with broad shoulders, chest and a slim waist. He has an adorable girlfriend, is very passionate, attractive and incredibly funny. Furthermore, he is also well-endowed. How do I know this? I have stood with him at the urinal – there are no partitions there – and he is not at all shy when he stands there.

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Everything you need to know about the emotional BDSM drop

7 Min. Lesezeit In BDSM, a “drop” or “crash” can occur after an intense session, in which a person experiences negative emotional or physical effects. There are two main forms of drop: the sub drop for the submissive person and the dom drop for the dominant part. It is important to deal with a drop appropriately to ensure the health and well-being of everyone involved.

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Everything you need to know about Gooning

4 Min. Lesezeit Have you ever heard of gooning? If not, you are now being introduced to a new, experimental world of sex. It’s a trend that takes masturbation to another level and can give you incredible moments. Gooning has some parallels with tantra, but is ideal for solo sex. The aim is to reach a new state through repeated masturbation. In this article, you’ll find out everything you need to know about this exciting trend.

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Safety Philosophy TPE – what does this mean in the BDSM world?

4 Min. Lesezeit In BDSM, which stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism, there are various practices, guiding philosophies and types of relationships. One of these is Total Power Exchange, also known as TPE. TPE refers to a type of power transfer that is often used in D/s (dominance and submission) or M/s (master and serf) relationships. This article will tell you everything you need to know about it.

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Guide: Anal sex mishaps

4 Min. Lesezeit Anal sex can be an exciting experience for both partners, from gentle to intense. But what happens if something unexpected happens? There are many stories about possible mishaps during the passionate act of sex. In this article, we’ll show you which unforeseen events you should expect and how you can best react to them.

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The diversity of love: understanding bisexuality

5 Min. Lesezeit Bi Visibility Day, also known as Celebrate Bisexuality Day, is celebrated annually on 23 September. The LGBTQIA+ community has been campaigning for the visibility and acceptance of bisexual people on this day since 1999. In this article, you can find out what bisexuality means and what important information is associated with it.

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Cum Control: An erotic practice to control the climax

5 Min. Lesezeit For those who know the term “cum control” and are excited about it, you can expect a more in-depth exploration in this article. But for those who have only heard of it, we want to talk about cum control in more detail and show you how you can make your climax even more adventurous, exciting and intense.

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Application for an anal plug for hot fun!

7 Min. Lesezeit The world of sex toys also offers a wide variety for gays. Whether for stimulating the penis or the anus, there is something for everyone. Today we want to focus on the butt plug, which is very popular with gays. Anal plugs come in different designs, sizes and materials. No matter which one you use, they provide a lot of fun when inserted into the anus. Here are some important tips on how you can benefit from this sex toy as a beginner.

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Bondage positions for beginners: Awesome tips for gentle bondage play

6 Min. Lesezeit Imagine your partner helplessly tied up with his arse cheeks spread. The possibilities for pampering, tormenting and stimulating him are endless. The bondage positions offer plenty of room for creativity. Bondage is not only a highlight for BDSM fans, but also a special option for gentle gays. But what is actually so special about BDSM?

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Anal Training Guide for Anal Pleasure

4 Min. Lesezeit Your body is an amazing instrument of pleasure and experience, but sometimes it takes some training to discover the many possibilities of anal play. Welcome to our guide where we explore the mystery of anal pleasures together. Whether you’re looking for more intimacy, new sensations or a more intense love life, anal training can be an exciting way to expand your sexual experiences even further.

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Why use alternative objects as dildos?

5 Min. Lesezeit Sometimes you might want to try something new and use a dildo substitute. There are many options such as fruit, vegetables and household items. But safety is important, not all items are safe or appropriate. As well as specially made vibrators and dildos, there are other options.

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Safety Philosophy RACK – what does that mean in the BDSM world?

4 Min. Lesezeit BDSM is about more than just letters. There are various concepts designed to ensure that everyone involved has fun and no one is harmed. Over time, the BDSM community has developed different guiding philosophies. There is no fixed number, as different groups and individuals may have their own principles and values. Nevertheless, there are well-known guiding philosophies that are often discussed in the BDSM context.

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Safety Philosophy SSC – what does this mean in the BDSM world?

4 Min. Lesezeit There is more to BDSM than just letters and there are good reasons for this. There are guiding philosophies that have been developed by the BDSM community to ensure that no one is harmed in the game and that everyone has fun. There is no exact number, as different groups and individuals may have their own principles and values. However, there are widespread and recognised guiding philosophies that are often discussed in the BDSM context.

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The role of the BDSM slave: lust, submission and surrender

7 Min. Lesezeit BDSM has been making its way into more and more bedrooms since the sexy adventures of Mr Grey. And for us gays, too, it has become a fetish that is anything but swept under the carpet. On the contrary: thanks to the right forums and partners, those who are into it can now really live it out – both in bed and in everyday life; as a BDSM slave or master.

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Poppers – the self-care afterwards for more enjoyment

4 Min. Lesezeit If you use poppers, the mood is fuelled and relaxed at the same time. But you probably know that poppers are not a toy and that they have an effect on your body. Your pulse changes, you feel relaxed and almost a little “high”. Some gays feel a slight dizziness, their blood pressure drops and everything becomes a little “different”.

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Magnus Hirschfeld – pioneer of the gay rights movement and sexology

4 Min. Lesezeit The gay rights movement has a fascinating history. Many people immediately think of the events on Christopher Street and at the Stonewall Inn. But the fight for gay and transgender rights began much earlier. One important pioneer was Dr Magnus Hirschfeld, a German doctor and sexologist. Find out more about his groundbreaking contributions and the beginning of the scientific debate on homosexuality and gender.

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Plan your sex orgy properly

4 Min. Lesezeit Fuck with friends? Sometimes an uninhibited fuck with several people can be a real highlight. The prerequisite is that everything is well planned. There’s nothing worse than the neighbours suddenly knocking in the middle of the hottest action or the rubbers running out. We have the best plan for turning your orgy into a fantastic experience with plenty of splashing action.

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BDSM: What does submission mean?

3 Min. Lesezeit The term submission comes from the English, with various meanings including “presentation”, “delivery”, “sending in”, “application”, “registration” and “submission”. In the BDSM context, submission refers to the voluntary giving up of control to one or more persons. Together with sadism, submission forms the “S” in BDSM and is an umbrella term for relinquishing control, trusting someone else and/or submission.

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Wanking: intact & circumcised

4 Min. Lesezeit Jerking off is undoubtedly one of the hottest ways to milk your best piece and give you pleasure. However, you can also give your lover a really hot time if you spoil his cock to your heart’s content with your hand.

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Dangerous sex toy materials

5 Min. Lesezeit Sex toys are used in many bedrooms during sex, and many men like them because they provide additional stimulation and can add variety to lovemaking that has sometimes become routine. However, if you want to buy these helpful, pleasurable toys, you should always choose a material that is safe for your health. Dildos, plugs and other love toys are made from many different materials, some of which can be quite dangerous. In this article, you can find out which materials for sex toys you should be careful with.

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Queer destinations

4 Min. Lesezeit Are you in the mood for a holiday and looking for queer travel destinations or queer-friendly countries where you can feel safe and enjoy yourself as a gay man? Then we have just the right destinations for your well-deserved break from everyday stress. You can find all the important information about where you can travel in this article.

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Safeword: How to use it correctly during BDSM sex

5 Min. Lesezeit Safeword: The safety measure for sexual encounters and BDSM! Learn more about the importance and use of a safeword to keep sessions or relationships safe at all times. Gain the knowledge to enjoy playful and exciting experiences with your partner while staying safe and protected at all times. Find out now how to use a safeword to ensure a safe and pleasurable sexual journey of discovery!

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Anal positions for fulfilling sex

5 Min. Lesezeit Experience intense anal sex with the best anal positions! Whether sensual and cosy or powerful and hard – find the perfect anal sex position to deeply satisfy yourself or your partner. Discover the pleasure of being filled or being filled and enjoy exciting sexual experiences. Awaken your lust with first-class anal sex that will give you an unforgettable climax. Discover now and explore new horizons!

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Follow-up care through PEP as protection against HIV

5 Min. Lesezeit Safe sex: How you can manage risky contacts! Whether it’s a forgotten condom, a broken condom or unexpected ejaculate during sex – there are always solutions to minimise the risk of HIV infection. Discover the possibilities of post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) and learn how to act correctly to prevent a possible HIV infection. Find all the important information in our informative article!

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The perfect handjob – this is how you do it!

5 Min. Lesezeit Experience intense sexual experiences in many different variations! It doesn’t always have to be anal sex or a blowjob to reach climaxes. Discover the art of sensitive handjobs, whether from your partner or yourself, and enjoy an unforgettable orgasm that will send you into ecstasy. Explore new possibilities and experience tingling pleasure!

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BDSM: What is Dominance?

4 Min. Lesezeit Dominance denotes a higher status or power of an individual, group or thing compared to others. The term comes from the Latin word “dominus”, which means “owner of a house or dominion”.

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6 signs that you are avoiding relationships

3 Min. Lesezeit Some people feel the desire for intimacy and closeness, but still avoid relationships. There can be various reasons for this, such as fear of hurt or loss, negative experiences in the past, a lack of trust in others or themselves, career goals or simply a preference for freedom and independence. In this article, we will take a closer look at the reasons why some men avoid relationships out of fear.

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BDSM: What is bondage and what do I have to watch out for when tying up!

4 Min. Lesezeit Bondage is an aspect of BDSM where a person is restrained in some way to restrict their freedom of movement. These bondage games can include various psychological elements, such as obedience bondage, where a person assumes a certain position after receiving a command from their dominant partner, without the use of physical restraints.

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The marvellous Prostate

4 Min. Lesezeit Anal sex is undoubtedly hot, but why exactly? One crucial factor is the male prostate, which is a hazelnut-sized nucleus located inside the rectum. Whilst the existence and possibilities of the G-spot are often debated in women, we can be sure about men: The prostate is real!

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My First Threesome – Poppers Story

12 Min. Lesezeit I explored my bisexual side with a mate and later with Daniel, the friend of a gay landlord in my local pub. But then I was lucky enough to have a horny adventure with Daniel and his partner John, which is now my first threesome story.

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Guide: All info on the topic of sex toy material

5 Min. Lesezeit Enjoy maximum pleasure with sex toys: A comprehensive guide to the best materials! Whether you want to experiment with anal sex or spice up your solo play, this guide will take you through the most important materials for fulfilling toys. Find out everything you need to know about safe handling and proper care of your sex toys. Experience carefree pleasure and discover the variety of high-quality materials for your ultimate experience!

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23 anal sex positions to try

7 Min. Lesezeit Ready to try something new and discover new sex positions? This can be an exciting journey that can be very rewarding with the right approach. Here are some tips on how to approach new sex positions.

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Why is aftercare so important after sex?

4 Min. Lesezeit The art of aftercare: the overlooked but essential component of a BDSM session. Learn how loving care and attention after play can take the experience to the next level. Discover the importance of aftercare and learn how to optimally round off the shiny centre of a BDSM session. Immerse yourself in the quiet and captivating world of aftercare now!

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Want to produce a lot of semen?

4 Min. Lesezeit Would you like to increase your sperm production? Sperm, the delicious cream, the full load or the love juice – whatever you want to call it, often plays an important role in gay sex. Cumming is one of the most exciting moments for many – whether it’s in your partner’s mouth, in their arse or simply on their face.

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Do’s and Don’ts of anal douching

7 Min. Lesezeit So, anal lavage isn’t actually dirty, it’s a preparatory measure to avoid unpleasant surprises later on. Let’s explore the depths of anal lavage together and explain how you can turn your bum into a gleaming temple of cleanliness before an anal adventure. So, grab the shower head and get ready for an internal cleanse.

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Semen taste: What’s it like?

5 Min. Lesezeit If you’ve ended up here, chances are you haven’t had the pleasure of tasting semen yet. But you’re probably curious. You may have tasted a few drops of pre-cum during a blowjob, but always pulled back right before your partner ejaculated and used your hands instead. There’s a lot of talk about semen, but one important question is often left unanswered: what does it taste like? In truth, it’s not an easy thing to describe.

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All about the hot Mud-Play-Fetish

3 Min. Lesezeit We all know “Matching” from Grindr – “mud”, on the other hand, is about a damn hot fetish where it’s allowed to get dirty. Professionally, the talk is of salirophilia, behind it is simply the passion for mud.

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Power imbalance in BDSM – Do I prefer to be submissive or the master?

4 Min. Lesezeit Learn all about the essential feature of BDSM – the power imbalance! This concept is about one person having control over one or more others. It is at the core of BDSM and distinguishes it from general fetishes and kinks. Discover the different forms of power imbalance and how it plays a role in relationships. We explain to you exactly what power means and how it is applied in BDSM activities. Dive into the world of BDSM now!

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Stonewall Riots of 1969 – queer history

5 Min. Lesezeit Are you part of the CSD parade every year? Are you familiar with the history of Christopher Street Day? Every year, CSD parades through the streets of many major cities around the world, and just as many spectators watch the parades and demonstrations from the side of the road. In this article, you will find out what it is all about and where its roots lie.

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Which cock piercings do gays really go for?

4 Min. Lesezeit It looks pretty hot when your lover unpacks his cock and a silver ball sparkles invitingly towards you. Provided, of course, you like pierced cocks. According to experience, many gays find the jewellery in the intimate area quite hot, as it invites extensive tongue play.

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Poppers – small bottle, big history

7 Min. Lesezeit For some people, poppers is a familiar term and its use and the details associated with it are taken for granted. It has become indispensable in some areas. Others, however, have little to no knowledge of it, but have heard about it and have come across this document. The aim of this document is to fill gaps in knowledge or provide additional information in order to educate and inform.

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Let everything dangle loosely

5 Min. Lesezeit Do you like to wear underwear, or are you one of those who give the “go commando” and allow your best piece plus appendix more freedom of movement? Freeballing is an increasingly popular trend among men. Find out what it’s all about and why it could also have health benefits by reading this article.

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10 hot gay Kama Sutra poses for even more pleasure in bed

5 Min. Lesezeit 21 June is World Kamasutra Day: reason enough to take a closer look at this hot topic! The Kamasutra is an ancient textbook for sensual eroticism that contains far more than just a catalogue of positions. Although the original version is all about sexuality between a man and a woman, you’ll also find numerous hot positions that will make things even more intense in bed if you’re gay. Do you want to spoil your lover in a very special way and dive even deeper into him? Then don’t miss out on the following 10 positions.

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Fisting – What it is all about it

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the exciting and intense world of fisting. Find out what fisting is and what possibilities and variations there are. Immerse yourself in the technical and stimulating aspects of fisting and expand your sexual experiences. Experience intense orgasms beyond the usual cumming.

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Seven reasons why your online date didn’t turn into anything more!

4 Min. Lesezeit Find out why your messages go unanswered when dating online and how you can deal with it. From too much desperation to boring conversations – possible reasons for ghosting are explained here. Learn to deal with it and don’t get discouraged. Focus on your personal development and stay optimistic in your search for a fulfilling relationship.

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Latex – What you need to know about this second skin sex fetish!

5 Min. Lesezeit Discover the fascinating latex fetish and experience a world full of sensuality and aesthetics. Immerse yourself in the tight and elastic material that emphasises the contours of the body and enables an exciting game of touch and sensitivity. Find out more about the many uses of latex clothing and discover a new dimension of eroticism. Enjoy the sensual feeling of latex on your skin and experience the special flair of the latex fetish.

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The good thing about nudism

4 Min. Lesezeit Experience a liberating naturist holiday. Enjoy the freedom to show your body without shame. Experience tolerance, respect and openness on the nude beach and get to know friendly people. Tan your body without streaks and experience moments of joy and ecstasy. Pack your suitcase and enjoy an authentic gay holiday on a nudist beach.

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Am I a pervert, or what exactly does this term mean?

3 Min. Lesezeit Live free from shame, follow your sexual preferences, and don’t let yourself be restricted by social norms. The term “kinky” is subjective and should be used with caution. Make sure you engage in consensual acts where no one is harmed, and be proud of your preferences as long as they are respectful and consensual.

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Kinks: Everything you need to know!

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the exciting world of kink and find out more about sexual preferences outside social norms. Immerse yourself in the kink community, respect boundaries and use safewords. Expand your understanding of sexual diversity, but don’t forget that kink is just one part of your sexuality. Enjoy the exciting side of kink, but always keep your wellbeing in mind.

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The fantastic world of fetish

4 Min. Lesezeit Explore the diverse forms of expression of sexual preferences in the field of fetishism. Immerse yourself in the world of fetishes and kinks and broaden your understanding of sexual diversity. Learn more about the boundaries between fetish and disorder, and always emphasise consensuality and respect.

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Take it deep! What to do so that I get the cock really deep when blowing!

5 Min. Lesezeit Immerse yourself in the world of deep throat and learn how to control the gag reflex and enjoy intense pleasure. With practical tips and exercises, you will learn how to overcome the gag reflex during oral sex. Experience a deep throat masterclass and increase the pleasure for you and your partner. Discover now how you can fully enjoy deep stimulation.

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Is it true, great love? Shakespeare has the answer!

4 Min. Lesezeit Whether it is real, genuine, true love is something we have certainly all asked ourselves more than once and yet have mostly remained at a loss.
Let’s ask Shakespeare, he must know; after all, the word “love” appears over 2000 times in his works. So why ramble on about it when you have no idea?

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The 10 worst sex mistakes

5 Min. Lesezeit Avoid the worst mistakes in (gay) sex and have a hot and fulfilling experience. From lack of communication to lack of preparation – discover how to avoid these mistakes and build a healthy sexual relationship. Enjoy sensual and fulfilling sex with your partner without embarrassing or awkward situations. Free yourself from the mistakes and experience intimate pleasures to the fullest.

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Colourful cocktail recipes for an awesome summer

3 Min. Lesezeit Immerse yourself in summer Pride fun with our colourful and tempting cocktail recipes! Celebrate love, freedom and summer with a mix of stunning flavours and sparkling vibes. Toast with us and enjoy life to the fullest! Cheers to an unforgettable summer full of flavour explosions! Cheers!

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Feminist director – Erika Lust

3 Min. Lesezeit Discover feminist gay porn with Erika Lust: High-quality and ethically impeccable films that show women’s lust and gay passion. Find out why feminist porn is also important for gays and enjoy sophisticated eroticism. Immerse yourself in the world of respectful fucking and experience new moments of pleasure. Discover Erika Lust now and get new inspiration for your sexual fantasies.

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CSD dates 2023

8 Min. Lesezeit CSD stands for Christopher Street Day. It is an event that takes place in many cities around the world as a demonstration and celebration of the LGBTQ+ community. CSD commemorates the Stonewall Uprising that took place on Christopher Street in New York City in June 1969. At that time, LGBTQ+ people publicly resisted police discrimination and violence for the first time.

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Gay Tribes – Edition: #Otter

4 Min. Lesezeit All about otters: explanation of gay subculture categorisation. Find out what makes an otter and explore the diverse sexual preferences within this classification. However, remember that personal identity and attraction cannot be easily categorised. Explore the world of otters and bears and celebrate the diversity of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Trichomonas infection – What are the symptoms, and how is the infection treated?

4 Min. Lesezeit Trichomonads are single-celled parasites that are sexually transmitted and can affect both men and women. Discover the typical symptoms such as vaginal discharge, itching and pain when urinating. Find out how the infection is diagnosed and what treatment options are available. Find out all you need to know about trichomonas infections and protect yourself and your partner.

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Pansexual & Panromantic Awareness Day

3 Min. Lesezeit Celebrate Pansexual & Panromantic Awareness Day on 24 May! Learn all about pansexuality and panromanticism and learn how to break down prejudices and create more acceptance. The day serves to raise awareness of people with pansexual and panromantic orientations and to celebrate their diversity. Set an example for love and acceptance and discover our shop!

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Know-how about the Christopher Street Day

5 Min. Lesezeit Celebrate Christopher Street Day – a sign of pride and history! Learn all about the origins of CSD, its fight for LGBTQ+ rights and its significance in Germany. Be part of this unique movement that fights for acceptance and visibility. Become part of CSD and celebrate diversity and love for all people!

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Gay Tribes – Edition: #Twink

3 Min. Lesezeit Twinks in the gay scene: discover the slim, young and hairless type of man. Find out more about their preferences and the diversity beyond categorisation. Find out if you’re a twink yourself and how this categorisation can help with dating.

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Gay Tribes – Edition: #Jock

4 Min. Lesezeit Discover the hottest trend for gays! Discover the fascinating origins and huge popularity of jockstraps. Explore the seductive look, comfort and statement they offer. Find your perfect jockstraps and celebrate International Jockstrap Day in style.

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Sounds for hot sex – which music fits in bed?

4 Min. Lesezeit The perfect fuck music: discover which genre really gets you going in bed. From rap and pop to electro and rock – find the ideal soundtrack for your sexual adventures. Be inspired by different sounds and enjoy unique sex experiments with the right musical accompaniment. Find the genre that best unleashes your lust.

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Gay Tribes – Edition: #DILF / Daddy

4 Min. Lesezeit Find out what makes a daddy and why they are so attractive. Differences to sugar daddies, dominant charisma and preferences. Let yourself be seduced by their charm and discover our hot harnesses for an even more intense daddy experience.

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Bottom Training – What you can do as a passive to make him go even deeper!

4 Min. Lesezeit As a gay man, you’ve probably already heard the term “bottom”, which is often used in connection with the question of your sexual role as a “top” or “bottom”. In gay chats, you may even have the option to indicate in your profile whether you are a “bottom”. Here you can find out what it means to be a bottom and how you can ensure that you have just as much fun during sex as your top partner.

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Gay Quickie: That’s what’s behind the quick fuck!

3 Min. Lesezeit When it comes to quickly releasing pressure without a lot of foreplay and time, a quickie is the perfect choice. The term comes from the English word “quick” and refers to quick, uncomplicated sex without long preparation. German men find quickies particularly appealing, 92% of them like them!

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Wild Sex – Popper Story

14 Min. Lesezeit I grew up in a small suburb where there is a state university. On the outskirts of town there is a fairly large urban wilderness park with miles of densely wooded trails. Of course, this is a great place to have anonymous sex with men.

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Sexting and Dickpic – 10 tips on how to photograph your cock at its “biggest”

5 Min. Lesezeit Thanks to the internet and messenger services, making new contacts is now child’s play. Many people see chats as a kind of foreplay for exciting dates and do everything they can to impress their chat partner. Whether it’s sending erotic texts (sexting) or explicit images such as dickpics, here you can find out what it’s all about and how you can make the best use of it – including important tips.

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How do I give the best blowjob? Everything about oral sex!

6 Min. Lesezeit Discover the ultimate blowjob guide to perfect oral sex! Learn how to give your partner unforgettable pleasure with your lips, tongue and hands. Find out how to use the right technique, control your gag reflex and ensure varied pleasure. Communicate with your partner and discover together what particularly excites them.

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What is watersports / golden shower / piss play?

5 Min. Lesezeit Discover the excitement of urine play! Whether known as golden showers, wet games or golden fists, many men love to urinate on or in someone, get wet or even drink urine. In this article, you’ll learn the most important facts about this fascinating fetish. Venture into the world of golden showers!

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When and what exactly is Sex Worker Rights Day?

3 Min. Lesezeit Find out more about International Sex Worker Rights Day on 3 March! Originally established in India, this day is now celebrated by sex worker groups worldwide. Read on to discover the background to this important day and the efforts of sex workers to defend their rights.

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What exactly is bodyshaming?

4 Min. Lesezeit No question: The internet is the mirror of society. Most of us probably use dating apps like Grindr, Scruff, Hornet, Romeo and Co. today to make contact with other gays, for hook-ups or even to find the love of our lives. What is unfortunately a reality of this is often encountered on many profiles.

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Breathplay: You take my breath away!

8 Min. Lesezeit Discover the exciting world of BDSM breathplay! Get to know the meaning, risks and different practices. Find out why people enjoy this fetish and which safety aspects should be taken into account. Immerse yourself in a fascinating form of play that evokes both euphoria and fear. Click here to find out more!

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10 things to watch out for during sex!

7 Min. Lesezeit Passionate, hot sex between men is a great experience and there are an infinite number of ways you can try it out. However, despite all the lust, there are various things you should pay attention to during sex. You can find 10 important tips in the following article.

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What penis shapes are there?

7 Min. Lesezeit Discover the exciting world of different penis types! Find out more about lengths, girths and shapes that can enrich your sexual pleasure. Click on the article now and be inspired by the variety of gay pleasure!

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How do I use sextoys properly for gay sex!

5 Min. Lesezeit Sex toys are now available in abundance, in all imaginable colours, shapes, textures and features. Making the right choice with such a wide range, especially if you’re brand new, can be overwhelming. If you are still at the beginning of your sex toy career, there is a lot to know beforehand and a lot of suitable sex toys for you.

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What is vanilla sex, and should you really have it?

4 Min. Lesezeit When you think of vanilla, the first thing you probably think of is ice cream. And that’s exactly what the pun is supposedly based on, because vanilla ice cream is the standard, a delicious classic whose popularity is widespread. What is accepted without difficulty at the ice cream shop can lead to discrepancies in bed. “Vanilla lovers” are often called boring or even prudes.

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Which erogenous zones does the man have?

6 Min. Lesezeit You probably know your own erogenous zones, i.e. the very special places on your body where you are particularly sensitive and highly sexually aroused when someone caresses, kisses, tongues or otherwise stimulates them. They are so sensitive because there are numerous sensitive nerve endings under the skin.

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What are the relationship types of gay men?

6 Min. Lesezeit Of course, homosexual men, just like heterosexually oriented people, can live together in many different ways. Perhaps you have been confronted with the often-heard prejudice that gay men are only horny all the time and want to have sex, but can’t have a real and, above all, long-lasting relationship. But gay life doesn’t just consist of a string of horny sex adventures with constantly changing partners who satisfy your lust.

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What are the best sex resolutions for the New Year?

6 Min. Lesezeit You can make good resolutions for the next year not only at work or with your family. You can do the same for sex. If you look back at last year, you will quickly notice where things might have gone wrong when it comes to sex and where things might not have gone as you had imagined. To have even more fun next year and to get your money’s worth, just make a few good sex resolutions. Make a list of things you’d like to do differently during sex or things you’d like to try. Here are a few “stimulating” ideas.

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The first time in anal sex. What do I have to consider?

6 Min. Lesezeit Are you interested in anal sex but have never enjoyed it? Then first be aware that there is no universal manual for problem-free, pleasurable anal sex. There are simply too many different men and too many ideas about what is pleasurable and what is not. In this article, you will learn what is important for anal sex for beginners and what you should pay special attention to so that it is a really pleasurable experience for you.

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What can I do if I have blue balls?

5 Min. Lesezeit Holidays should actually contribute to relaxation and not cause stress. But when family or friends have announced themselves, and you have to go shopping, cook or prepare something else, pressure can build up that you have to relieve. How about a little or a lot of sex? This article will give you some ideas on how to relieve pressure and stress with sex!

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I want to have anal sex! What do I have to keep in mind?

5 Min. Lesezeit As the saying goes, preparation is everything! What is true in many other areas also proves to be important when it comes to anal sex planning, because only with the right “preparation” will you have a lot of fun during anal sex, regardless of whether you take on the passive part or are involved as an active partner.

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Who was Tom of Finland?

2 Min. Lesezeit The Finnish artist Touko Laaksonen, who introduced his pornographic and homoerotic drawings of moustachioed men with swelling cocks to the world under the alias “Tom of Finland”, not only caused quite a stir, he also soon became an icon of the gay movement.

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Why use a butt plug for sex?

3 Min. Lesezeit Butt plugs are one of our absolute gay basics and an absolute enrichment for a balanced sex life. They are suitable for a variety of purposes, including as a warm-up before the actual anal session, for secret stimulation in everyday life, for anal stretching exercises or even directly as a toy during a hot adventure.

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What do I have to consider in the darkroom?

3 Min. Lesezeit “A gentleman enjoys and keeps quiet”, and what happens in secret remains in the dark. But that’s no reason to misbehave. Because even in the twilight, a certain decency, respectful and careful behaviour applies. Here you can learn a few tricks for your next trip to the darkroom.

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Experience: Poppers during sex

2 Min. Lesezeit Poppers are said to have a pleasure-increasing effect, which makes them an attractive option for gays, bisexuals, but also for heterosexuals. In any case, please follow the instructions on the product. Also, never combine poppers with Viagra.

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Can I do anything wrong jerking off?

4 Min. Lesezeit You surely know numerous wisdoms from grandma, such as “don’t sit on cold stones, otherwise you’ll get haemorrhoids”. There are also false wisdoms about jerking off, which we’ll clear up here. Do you know all the synonyms for wanking? You’ll find them here!

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Wanking basics

16 Min. Lesezeit In this article, we describe the positions in which you jerk off most lustfully, the best technique and which holds will bring you to the hottest orgasm.

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I want to have anal sex for the first time. What do I have to consider?

6 Min. Lesezeit Are you interested in anal sex but have never enjoyed it? Then first of all be aware that there is no universal manual for problem-free, pleasurable anal sex. There are simply too many different men and too many ideas about what is pleasurable and what is not. In this article you will learn what is important for anal sex for beginners and what you should pay special attention to so that it is a really pleasurable experience for you.

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