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There’s a saying that there’s nothing that doesn’t exist — and this applies to the realm of sexual pleasure as well. Have you ever been asked on a dating platform if you’re into caviar (KV), Nutella, nougat, or chocolate? If so, the person wasn’t inquiring about your dietary habits. Instead, they were checking to see if you have a coprophilia fetish and are sexually aroused by excrement. Similarly, if someone asks whether you’re into dirty or scat sex, they’re referring to the same idea. But what exactly does coprophilia entail?
Coprophilia or the Excrement Fetish
The term “coprophilia” (from the ancient Greek κόπρος = dung, manure, feces) refers to sexual arousal derived from human feces. This could involve observing defecation, viewing feces, or direct physical contact with excrement. Sexual arousal may also stem from the sensation of holding bowel movements to the point of losing control. Such fecal play can be performed alone (autoerotically) or with a partner. In some cases, the feces of oneself or another person are smeared on one’s own body or that of a partner.
Some individuals take their coprophilia fetish to the extreme by engaging in coprophagy, which involves consuming excrement. Given that feces typically contain high concentrations of bacteria and fungi, this practice poses significant health risks, especially for individuals with weakened immune systems. While there’s a thematic connection between the preference for bodily excretions and urine play, having a coprophilia fetish doesn’t necessarily imply an interest in urophilia, and vice versa.
Coprophilia is considered by experts to be a deviation from normative sexual behavior. However, there is little scientific data on the prevalence of coprophilic tendencies. Scat pornography, also known as “scat porn,” has emerged as a niche market in the broader pornography industry.
Note on the Term “Dirty”: The term “dirty” is often used to describe various sexual practices, positions, or toys as “naughty” or “messy.” However, it’s important to note that a practice should only be labeled as “dirty” if it explicitly involves feces and/or urine.
Coprophilia & Coprophagy in BDSM
The excrement fetish is commonly found within the BDSM scene. Here, the consumption of excrement by the submissive partner is often viewed as an act of total submission and devotion to the dominant partner (the Top). Conversely, the act of “giving” feces by the Top holds its own significance, as it is an intimate gesture that requires a high level of trust and connection with the submissive partner.
In BDSM, scat play, also referred to as “caviar play,” is often part of a training regimen for “toilet slaves.” This training is divided into stages, with coprophagic behavior — the oral consumption and swallowing of feces — as the ultimate goal. The dominant partner can present feces on a plate, deliberately denying the submissive any direct participation in the defecation process. A common method involves acclimating the submissive to the smell and taste of feces by having them clean the dominant’s anus after defecation. Once accustomed, the dominant partner may allow the submissive to lick their anus, relax their sphincter, and directly expel feces into the submissive’s mouth.
The extreme form of caviar training is the objectification of the submissive partner, transforming them into a “human toilet.” This practice often involves specially designed furniture, such as a “toilet chair,” where the dominant sits while the submissive lies beneath, ready to receive the excrement.
Finding the Right Partner for an Excrement Fetish
The preference for scat is a very niche fetish that many people neither understand nor accept. If you wish to indulge your passion for caviar sex and are seeking a compatible partner, scat pornography might serve as an outlet until you find someone suitable. To connect with like-minded individuals, consider engaging in online chats.
When exploring chat rooms, keep in mind that many people misunderstand the term “dirty sex,” associating it with something other than feces or urine. To avoid confusion, it’s best to be upfront about your preferences from the start. If you find a suitable partner, it’s important to approach this practice gradually, especially if one or both of you are new to it. Experiment to discover what works for both of you and communicate openly about boundaries and preferences.
The excrement fetish requires a deep level of mutual trust and understanding. Scat play involves sharing an intimate act that most people would typically avoid, such as being observed while using the bathroom. Often, the fetish is explored within specific BDSM communities. Fans of this unique practice frequently maintain open relationships or avoid committed partnerships with individuals who don’t share their fetish.
Awakening a Scat Fetish in a Relationship
Sometimes, sexual desires evolve within a relationship. If you notice a developing interest in coprophilia, it’s important to discuss it openly with your partner. This provides an opportunity to explore solutions that work for both of you. While your partner may not share your newfound passion, they may still wish to support you.
Honest communication is essential. Seek information together, and consider consulting an expert if necessary. Ideally, your partner might allow you to explore the fetish outside your relationship. This arrangement could be mutually beneficial, especially if your partner has preferences you don’t share. However, such agreements require strong love and a high level of trust.
Under no circumstances should you act on your scat fetish without your partner’s knowledge. The potential health risks, including the transmission of bacteria or pathogens, could endanger your partner. This is especially true if you take the submissive role and engage in practices involving the ingestion of excrement. For partners with weakened immune systems due to conditions like HIV or other autoimmune diseases, these risks are particularly severe.
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