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You lucky devil! Your lover is a real swallower and loves deep throat just as much as you do? Jackpot! Enjoy the deep journey with your cock down his throat. You can find countless guides and tips on how to give an amazing deep blow job. But did you know that, as the receiver, you can also do a lot of things right? If not, then you’ve come to the right place. We know how to make it hot and how to make your eager blower’s deep throat job easier.
Take care of him – safety comes first
Of course, you’re eager, and you’d love nothing more than to shove your cock deep into his mouth without holding back. It just feels way too good when his warm cheeks, tongue, and throat wrap around your best asset.
But caution is key for you as the deep throat receiver as well. If he’s not relaxed enough or starts gagging uncontrollably, it can get dangerous.
That’s why a few clear rules apply:
- He sets the pace
- You only hold him in place if he wants you to
- You let him take the lead
- If he wants to stop, you stop
Basically the same rules as with a regular blowjob, but they’re even more important for deep throat. The popular position (with his head hanging over the edge of the bed) already puts him in a vulnerable position. That makes it all the more important that he can trust you 100%.
Time isn’t just money – it’s also the key to deep throat
Sometimes, when you’re fucking or getting blown, speed is everything. But save the rush for your next quickie—deep throat requires all the time in the world. Even if he’s super into it, not every guy masters deep throat right away.
If he’s up for it, give him enough time to get used to having your cock in his throat.
The biggest challenge is the gag reflex, which can instantly kill the mood. So before he ends up puking his lunch all over your cock, take it slow and celebrate every bit of progress. At first, he might not be able to take it all, but over time, he’ll get deeper.
Pro tip: Watching him practice can be insanely hot. Train with dildos and large sex toys—this way, he can control the pace himself and trick his gag reflex.
Be flexible with positions
As mentioned earlier, the classic position is your lover lying on his back with his head hanging off the bed. This straightens his throat, making it easier. But there are plenty of other hot alternatives, and once again, it’s best if he chooses what works for him. Want to try a new position? Here are three exciting options:
1. Standing works too
As the receiver, all you have to do is stand upright and let your partner take control. The advantage of this position is that he can regulate the depth himself. If he pushes your hips away or pulls you in, he’s navigating the deep throat on his own terms.
Tip: Tilting his head to the side can help with the gag reflex. Some guys can take a cock even deeper this way.
2. Classic blowjob position
There’s hardly anything hotter than a man on his knees in front of you. For deep throat beginners, this position is only partially ideal, as the throat closes off at a certain point. But if he has experience, this position has its perks.
On one hand, he has full control over how deep he takes you; on the other, he can look up at you while doing it. Another bonus: as the receiver, your hands are free. Massage his neck, grab his hair, or use your phone to control the remote buttplug in his ass.
3. The stable side position
In this position, you’re not just the deep throat receiver but also his headrest. You lie on your side with your legs in a “frog position.” Your lover positions himself in front of you from the side, using your thigh for support. This helps him fully relax and reduces the risk of neck strain.
He can move in closer, adjust his head, and find the best angle for him. If he needs a break, he can simply pull back, keeping control the whole time.
Our tip: Try different positions—every throat is different. And just as a reminder: He decides how, when, and where he blows. If a position doesn’t feel good for him, switch it up.
Payback time – show your gratitude and give something back
As the receiver of a deep throat, you’re the king of pleasure. But it’s never something to take for granted when your lover treats you to this experience. Even if he’s mastered it, deep throat usually takes a lot of training. Do you have any idea how many vibrators he’s sucked on just to stop gagging when taking a deep dick?
And deep throat itself is exhausting. He’s horny, but at the same time, he has to focus on not choking and breathing properly.
If he’s given you this luxury, show your appreciation. You don’t have to deep throat him in return if you’re not into it. But how about a small thank-you gesture, like a relaxing massage, a passionate ass fuck, or a classic blowjob?
One thing’s for sure: His orgasm is a must if he’s “treated” you. Take your time and make sure his effort was worth it—pleasure him thoroughly.
Conclusion: As a deep throat receiver, you have a lot to give
As the receiver of a deep throat, you’re not just a passive cock disappearing into a mouth. You can do a lot to make sure your lover feels good. A freshly washed dick, condoms, and ideally a clean shave—do we even need to mention those? Obviously, you don’t want him choking on your pubes while he’s trying his best not to gag.
Aftercare is your responsibility too—and it’s super important for both of you. Deep throat can be insanely intense, so make sure he’s comfortable afterward.
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