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Fisting is hot, no question – but it can also be incredibly tiring. A key factor is the position of your hand during a steamy fist session. And this brings us straight to the point – does fisting really always mean “fucking with a fist”? Not at all! Among experienced gays, you’ll rarely find someone who will mercilessly shove their fist into your hole right from the start. Fisting can be done in many ways, and a classic fist fuck is seldom what happens. Especially in the beginning, you don’t clench your fingers into a fist but often insert them one by one. Let’s explore the hottest hand positions that will help you last longer.
Hand positions Fisting: Quack Quack – Here Comes the Duck
If you don’t have a rubber duck fetish, you might raise an eyebrow right now, wondering if the cowboys sniffed too much poppers. But in fisting, the duckbill position is actually one of the fundamental techniques you need to know.
Here’s how it works: Place the tips of your pinky, ring, middle, and index fingers together, and touch them to your thumb on the same hand. If you now look at your hand from the side, it resembles a duckbill (with a little imagination).
The advantage of this hand position is that you can gradually stretch your lover’s hole. The tip of the “bill” narrows, and your fingertips penetrate the magical barrier first. The first time, your partner’s ass might be quite tense. This is where relax sprays and lots of lube help. Take enough time to let you both get comfortable with the new situation.
Time for the Fist – When Does It Come Into Play?
Take a look at the typical fisting toys, and you’ll notice duckbills and fists. So, the fist isn’t so out of style; it just doesn’t come into play right from the start. Once you’ve fully inserted the duckbill into their anus, you can clench your hand into a fist. By now, their muscle is stretched enough to handle it.
The benefit of the duckbill is that you can easily transition to a fist without many movements. You simply fold your fingers inward and clench your hand. If your palm has already disappeared into their rectum up to the wrist, their hole won’t need any extra stretching for this. You’ve already crossed that barrier.
Fingers, Fist, or Arm: How Deep Can You Go?
Every gay guy has their own idea of what fisting is. For some, it’s already fisting when the partner has five fingers inside their hole, while for others, the practice only begins when the hand is in up to the wrist. For advanced players, it doesn’t stop at the wrist; it can go all the way up to the forearm.
With deep fisting, you don’t stop at the fist, but push the arm in further, bit by bit. Now it’s important to rotate your hand in the right direction, as the colon doesn’t go straight upward.
The last section of the intestine is called the rectum. From there, from your partner’s perspective, it curves sharply to the left toward the sigmoid colon. Only after this bend does the colon run straight up again, but you won’t reach that far with your forearm.
Tip: If you’re fisting with your left hand, your partner should lie on their back. You then enter with your forearm moving upward (toward their penis) and rotate your hand 90° to the right to follow the natural anatomy of the colon. If you’re fisting with your right hand, it’s best if your partner lies on their stomach. In this case, rotate your hand to the left.
Two Fists for Hallelujah
The ultimate challenge in fisting is the double mode with two hands. What looks easy requires a lot of experience and preparation. If your partner isn’t optimally stretched, it can lead to serious injuries to their hole.
You start with your right hand, forming the familiar duckbill. Once you’ve inserted it to the widest part of your hand and their hole is nicely opened, you follow up with the fingers of your left hand. They rest on your right palm. Now, you slowly move deeper and deeper.
With double fisting, it’s practically impossible to go beyond the sigmoid colon. You’d have to twist at least one of your arms to an uncomfortable degree. Double fisting, therefore, only works up to the wrists, after which it’s game over.
Tip: Regardless of the position you choose, your fingers play an important role. Make sure they always stay close together, and that your fingertips don’t act independently.
Conclusion: The Duckbill is the Starting Point for Fisting
Whether you end up fisting him with a single fist or ramming both hands into his ass – the duckbill is the most important hand position in fisting. It allows you to gently stretch his anus and prevent the fist from causing injuries. If you want to clench a fist, only do so when you’re securely inside his rectum.
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