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Have you ever been standing in a crowded subway or a packed bus, unintentionally rubbing against your neighbor due to the tight space and feeling sexual arousal as a result? What happened to you unintentionally on the bus or train is something that many do quite consciously. This rubbing against other people for the purpose of sexual stimulation is called frotting. If you want to learn more, just read on.
What is frotting?
A frotteur (French: se frotter, “to rub”) is someone who is sexually stimulated by rubbing against other people. Frotting works when you’re fully clothed, through your clothes, but it can also be done naked. Frotteurism is also known as frottage. If two men rub their penises and/or testicles together, this sexual practice is also referred to by the abbreviation “Frot”. Do you like holding your cock and someone else’s together in your hand and rubbing them against each other? Then you might be a frotting fan.
Frotting is a gay community fetish. The term was coined by gay activist Bill Weintraub, who described this type of play as “true” gay sex. He put forward this thesis because this fetish involves so-called genital-to-genital contact and Weintraub saw it as the opposite of heterosexual intercourse.
What makes frottage so arousing?
It’s easy to explain. When you rub body parts or areas together that are occupied by many nerve endings, it causes intense sexual arousal. As is well known, the penis is permeated by a great many nerves. An uncircumcised penis has about 30,000 nerve endings, of which about 20,000 are located on the foreskin. A circumcised man still has about 10,000 nerve endings that can provide sexual arousal.
In this case, the front side of the cock takes over the function of the missing foreskin, and rubbing the shaft and tip of the penis mimics the feeling of having a foreskin. With or without foreskin nerves, when you rub your cock against someone, you can imagine the fireworks of stimuli that reach the pleasure center of your brain.
Why men practice frotting
Frotting is used, for example, when anal sex or oral sex is out of the question for partners. This can have religious or cultural motives, arise from a certain degree of inhibition, or simply be due to the fact that, for example, men who have sex with men (MSM) are still at the very beginning of their homosexual activities and are not yet ready for more.
It often starts with looking at each other, touching and comparing. The cocks come close and touch each other at some point. It’s like a game that naturally sexually charges the participants. It’s like rubbing your cock harder and harder against the bed sheet during the night until you have an orgasm. With frotting, the participants also usually reach a climax, either dressed or naked.
Frottage is particularly suitable for bisexuals. The reason for this is that, at the molecular level, penis frottage is much more similar to penis-vaginal intercourse than to penis-anal intercourse. This is due to the similarity of the many nerve endings and the male and female genital tissue present there.
Possible positions for frottage
Now that the theoretical aspects have been explained, you are probably interested in which positions you can use for frotting. For a hot frotting session, it is advisable for you and your partner to sit or stand opposite each other. It is best if you and your partner stand close together so that the undersides of your erect penises touch. You can create the necessary friction by moving in opposite directions. Of course, you can also use your hands to caress your genitals. The most important thing to remember when frotting is to only do what you feel comfortable with. To protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases, it is advisable to use a condom on first contact.
Secret or public: the special kick of frottage
Many people find rubbing against someone highly erotic, and more than a few make a game out of practicing this form of play in public places. Rubbing against your partner in a crowded bus or subway and ideally doing so until you inconspicuously cum can be a real kick. The risk of being looked at strangely or even being reported is accepted for the sake of the horny experience.
But frotting is more widespread as a private experience between men. Nowadays, not only are there small, hot aids (e.g. a so-called CockBlock), but also more and more porn films that allow you to watch couples frotting, get ideas for your own experiences or just get it yourself while watching, maybe with a fleshlight. There is hardly anything more erotic than two hard, oiled cocks rubbing against each other. Who wouldn’t want to watch two hot men face to face, naked or with their trousers open (or even kneeling)? What could be more delicious than to see them shoot their fountains of hot cum into the air, only to see them splashing down on their joined hard cocks?
The art of frotting needs to be learned
Many people dismiss frotting as foreplay, mainly because it is not so easy for many men to orgasm during frotting. But there is good news. Basically, anyone can learn to achieve a hot orgasm using this arousing method. The main thing here is to find the right pressure with which you rub your penis and that of your frotting partner together. It is also important not to let the two cocks slip out of your hand and thereby interrupt the “workflow”, so to speak.
Try it calmly and patiently. With a little practice, you’ll quickly get the hang of it and be able to cum during frotting. What applies to every new sexual technique also applies to this one: you have to throw your preconceived notions overboard and give yourself over to it completely.
Health risks of frotting
If you practice this method, you should always be aware that it can also pose health risks. Frotting can lead to an infection with HIV if you and your partner have an ejaculation during it. Through the smallest injuries, the pathogens could enter the bloodstream. Experts estimate the risk to be different (low to medium). Ultimately, the only real protection is condoms or sexual abstinence. Since the latter is rather unattractive, the former is the solution for hot and safe frolicking fun.
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