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Twinkle, twinkle, little star…! An intimate piercing often looks hot and arouses the curiosity of many men. Whether you wear it yourself or discover it by surprise on your new partner, it changes lovemaking. Piercing enthusiasts often claim that sex is no longer as satisfying without a ring or ball.
We personally think this is wrong, because it’s not just about the jewelry. And on closer inspection, an intimate piercing can even have disadvantages. We take a look at the pros and cons of piercings for men in the genital area and what types are available.
These are the most popular types of intimate piercings for men
The difficult decision starts with choosing the right intimate piercing. We all know the good old Prince Albert, but there is much more than just the classic. If you haven’t heard of the Prince, don’t worry. It is a piercing that goes through the urethra and comes out below the tip of the glans. Many men wear it with a ring; it is eye-catching and feels intensely sexual.
Contrary to popular belief, the Prince also works on circumcised men. So if you want to show off your buddy, this is a classic option.
But there is more, as you will now discover:
● Reverse Prince Albert: The reverse version goes into the urethra from above and comes out at the tip of the glans. This piercing is less common, but an attractive alternative if you want something more than the classic.
● Apadravya: This piercing with the complicated name goes vertically through the glans, entering at the top and exiting at the bottom. The placement ensures intense moments during penetration.
● Ampallang: The horizontal sister of the Apadravya piercing crosses your glans from the side. This can be quite painful when piercing, so you should choose carefully.
● Frenum: The name of this piercing is derived from the term frenulum. The ring or ball is pierced directly through the frenulum. To create a frenum “ladder,” several piercings are made in a row. It is important that the frenulum is not overstretched and does not tear.
● Hafada: This is not a penis piercing, but a ring through the skin of the testicles. The advantage is that the piercing is less painful, but the disadvantage is that it has no effect during sex. This piercing is primarily for visual appeal and does not change much during sex.
● Guiche: This rarer piercing is located between the scrotum and the anus and has intense stimulating potential. It is often combined with a hafada or a so-called hafada ladder. The latter is created when you have at least three hafadas on top of each other.
Very important: Whichever variant you choose, always have it done by a professional piercer. Especially in the genital area, it is important that your piercing is done properly and that you let it heal before having sex again. To tide you over, there are also exciting sex toys and masturbators for your lover to keep him entertained.
Advantages during sex: What can an intimate piercing do for you?
A well-done intimate piercing can really enhance your sex life, and not just in a visual way. Many men report that the jewelry gives them a new kind of stimulation, especially with piercings that come into direct contact with the tip or shaft of the penis during thrusting or rubbing. This makes you more sensitive, but can also provide more intense stimulation for your partner.
Another advantage: your mindfulness during sex increases. As a piercing wearer, you often move more consciously, slowly, and enjoyably because your body reacts more strongly to even the slightest impulses. However, this effect diminishes over time as your best asset gradually gets used to the piercing.
A ring in the glans or testicles can even have a mental effect. For example, if you suffer from a lack of self-confidence because you are not 100% happy with your penis, a piece of jewelry can help. The important thing is that you like it, because that’s what you radiate!
However, keep in mind that the piercing alone will not make sex better. It can noticeably change intimacy, and sometimes that is exactly what turns eternal routine into an adventure.
Disadvantages and risks – what you should know beforehand!
As hot as an intimate piercing may seem, there are a few things you should know beforehand. First and foremost is the healing time, which takes longer than just a few days. It can take weeks before your penis is fully functional again. During this time, wild sauna sessions, hot parties with happy endings, and sexual games with your penis are absolutely taboo.
Another issue is condoms. Depending on the jewelry, tears may occur that you don’t notice right away. If you want to practice safe sex, you should seek advice and check your jewelry for unwanted corners and edges. The location of the piercing also plays a role. A ring on the scrotum does not affect the fit of a condom, but one on the glans may. However, a hafada can increase the likelihood of bacterial infection. After all, you have a hole there, and when you are in “combat” with another man, germs can get in.
If your piercing is sharp, pointed, or angular, remove it before sex or cover it with a special plaster. If you are in a relationship with regular STIs or if you are both tested and healthy, sex is fine with piercings.
Hygiene and healing of your intimate piercing after piercing and sex
If the piercing has been in place for a long time, it is a fashion accessory in a sensitive area. Freshly pierced, it is initially just a wound, usually swollen and quite painful. In the first few weeks, your body needs rest, time, and a little attention so that everything heals well.
The healing time varies depending on the type of piercing. A hafada often heals after three to five weeks, while an apadravya can take up to three months. You should be aware of this, because this is a sex-free period! This can be harder than the piercing itself, especially if you are in a new relationship and can’t stop thinking about it. But in the end, you’ll be grateful when your piercing has healed properly.
Good care is also important afterwards. Jewelry is best cleaned in an ultrasonic bath, and you can take care of the piercing channel while showering by washing it normally. Once the piercing has completely healed, you no longer need any special care; the piercing channel is then like an ear piercing.
When an intimate piercing is not right for you
As appealing as the idea of Intimate piercings for men may be, it is not for everyone. That doesn’t mean you’re a wimp or have no sense of style, but sometimes it just doesn’t suit you.
If you have had infections on your penis or know that your skin heals poorly, avoid the additional stress of a piercing. Piercings are also not the best idea if you have excessive scarring, allergies, or adhesions from previous illnesses.
And then there’s the relationship situation. As a general rule, you decide what you do with your body. Nevertheless, there are men who want to involve their partner, and if their lover isn’t into metal between the sheets, things can get tricky.
One last factor comes from the pragmatic side. If you are constantly physically active at work and wear tight clothing, an intimate piercing can simply be uncomfortable.
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