Sucking someone’s cock extensively and intensively is probably one of the most pleasurable activities a gay man can pursue. However, many men feel a gag reflex during a blowjob (also known as the gag reflex) or even vomiting if the cock they are giving orally disappears too deep down their throat. This article will tell you why this is the case. And what you can do if you puke while giving a blowjob.
Puking is not healthy
Fundamentally, it is not healthy to vomit regularly during oral sex. Vomit, and especially the stomach acid it contains, damages not only the stomach lining and the stomach entrance. But also the oesophagus, the mouth, the throat and the teeth. Blowing your nose sometimes is not a bad thing. But you should not indulge in this practice on a regular basis for the sake of your health.
Natural gag reflex
One of the reasons why you have to give in when blowing is the natural gag reflex that everyone has and which is actually a protective mechanism. It is designed to prevent you from choking if you choke on food, for example. By reflexively contracting the throat and pharyngeal muscles, the body tries to expel the swallowed food from your throat. By the way, with a lot of exercise, you can stop the gag reflex so that you can sink your partner’s cock particularly deep into your throat when giving a blowjob.
Deep, deeper, vomit
One of the main causes of vomiting while giving a blowjob is inserting the cock too deep into the throat of the person giving the blowjob. This mainly happens during deepthroat, where the cock disappears particularly deep down your throat on purpose. Which leads to the release of the irritation and often also to vomiting. This is a common fetish, especially in the BDSM scene. Some men like it when their submissive partner has to struggle or even surrender during a blowjob. This is perceived as arousing.
The angle has to be right
If the blowjob taker pushes his cock too far up in your mouth, the strap may come into contact with your upper throat and tongue. However, this is exactly what triggers the urge to cum and vomit. You may be familiar with this if you’ve ever stuck your finger down your throat to relieve the feeling of nausea. And empty your upset stomach after a damp night, for example. Touch your tongue a few times, and you’ll have gone over the drinks’ menu from the previous evening again.
Large & long is not always an advantage
The size of the tail is supposedly not important. This may be true, but the size of the belt being blown does play a role when blowing. This is because the longer and thicker the cock is, the deeper it penetrates into the throat of the blower. And can cause the latter to choke and vomit more quickly. In addition, a long and very thick cock can also rob the person giving the blowjob of the air they need to breathe. This is a desirable effect, especially with deepthroat. But should not go so far that the person giving the blowjob passes out from lack of oxygen. Or worst, perhaps chokes on his vomit. So always take it easy when blowing your huge cock or using it orally.
Loss of control by the active partner
For a classic blowjob without deepthroat or fetish thoughts, it makes sense for the active partner, i.e. the blowjob partner, to have control over what is happening. This is because they can better judge how deep the cock can disappear down their throat without having to struggle or even give in. If the control lies with the passive partner who is being blown, it can quickly happen that they make a mistake when inserting their belt and inadvertently make the boy vomit.
Sperm is (not always) delicious
Many men love cum (like the author of this article) and are eager to get a good load down their throats. However, there are also plenty of men who are at war with the taste and consistency of semen. And have to vomit when the guy giving the blowjob squirts his love juice down their throat. One of the factors here is the flavour of the semen. This is usually influenced by what you have eaten or drunk beforehand.
After consuming alcohol, nicotine or caffeine, semen often tastes bitter. However, if you drink pineapple juice or eat sweet fruit, the sperm can have a sweet flavour. This is of course much more pleasant when it ends up in your throat. There are also variations in consistency. Sometimes the cum is liquid and flows down the throat almost by itself. Sometimes it is very thick so that you have to swallow properly.
Counteracting the urge to vomit
In order to avoid vomiting while blowing, it is advisable for everyone involved to be careful with speed, angle and depth. It’s best to take things slowly and experiment to see what works for both of you and where your limits lie. If you want to try deepthroat, take your time. Simply ramming your cock deep down your partner’s throat won’t give you the pleasure you both want.
With a very large strap, you can control the action as a voyeur by using your hands, for example. Place them all the way under the shaft around his cock, then they form a natural barrier beyond which he can’t shove his penis down your throat.
An effective aid that many men resort to in order to suppress arousal are so-called deepthroat sprays, which are commercially available. These sprays have a slightly numbing effect and if you spray them down your throat just before giving a blowjob, they will numb your tongue and suppress the release of the spurt. With a deepthroat spray, you’ll be able to touch the shaft of his cock with your lips.
Poppers, the famous and popular smelling bottles in the LGBTQIA community, can also make the blowjob easier and prevent vomiting. Poppers have a relaxing effect and make you horny. This can lead to you being able to swallow your partner’s cock deeper, no matter how big it is.
Both of you need to feel comfortable giving a blowjob
A good blowjob is the ultimate discipline in male-to-male sex, and if you master this discipline, the men will offer you their cock in turn for treatment. The art of giving a blowjob is to stimulate your partner orally so that the juice squirts out of his cock, ideally directly into your throat. However, this is only possible if you both feel comfortable, and you are not busy suppressing your desire. That’s why mutual consideration and constant behaviour are the order of the day. And if you really have to vomit while giving a blow job, it’s not the end of the world. Just wipe it off, take a deep breath, rinse your mouth and try again.
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