Delay orgasm? How is that supposed to work? In this article, we’ll show you what you can do to experience hot climaxes. To do this, we’ll look at different techniques. Practising these techniques on your back is the easiest way. Lie down and relax completely. Then jerk off slowly and gently, but enough to arouse you and keep you aroused. Every time you feel yourself tensing a muscle, consciously release it and concentrate on your arousal. It takes a while, but the soup will boil up inside you. And now comes the exciting moment: Stay relaxed even when you’re cumming. Just keep up the jerking speed and still keep your whole body relaxed. If you can manage this, you’ll experience a completely different kind of orgasm.
Alternatively, you can also try the opposite: Jerk off normally, and just before you come, tense all your muscles as hard as you can, including those in your face. When you release after cumming, you’ll be overcome with a rush of heat that will make you see stars.
Delaying orgasm – the different techniques
You have learned how to increase arousal by playing with your body. Now we’re going to tell you how to protect yourself so that she doesn’t just quickly spill all over you. After all, orgasm and ejaculation are not independent creatures that unexpectedly jump out at you, but body reactions that you can influence, steer and control.
The Point of 1 Million Gold
This technique originates from Tantra and prevents ejaculation by interrupting the reflex. Master Lu discovered the point that allows orgasm but stops ejaculation. His pupils tried to keep it a secret, but it spread. A wealthy individual sought to learn this doctrine over a hundred years ago.
Most of the teachers he met gave only vague hints, but one gave him a riddle with the following metaphor: »As long as the cobra lies ringed, it is in balance. But when it sets itself up to strike, it becomes vulnerable. « You too can think about that. At the latest, when you have read the section on Taoism, you will realise what is meant.
The Yank, of course, didn’t get it and got pissed off: »Damn it, isn’t there just a button I can press?« Whereupon an old man who had been sitting in the corner all the time «chuckled. »If you give me a million dollars, I will show it to you.«
The secret of Master Lu has spread worldwide, with a grand temple built in his honor. In the past, this technique was used to prevent conception and was known as saxonian coitus. To locate the point, feel your perineum, the area between the sac and the rosette, where you’ll find a slight indentation. Its exact location may vary among individuals.
Applying firm pressure on this point before orgasm can prevent ejaculation. Ideally, you’ll experience an orgasm without ejaculation, keeping your erection. Squeezing too hard may cause the sperm to go into the bladder, while squeezing too late or with insufficient pressure may result in discomfort.
The nut-pull
Many men are kept from ejaculating by pulling on their testicles. For others, it’s the pulling that makes them really horny. And for others, both things happen at the same time: they get hornier but can’t ejaculate. Perfect. Try it out!
The tennis ball
Hardcore squirters can also jerk off by sitting with their perineum on a tennis ball or something similar. This constant pinching should delay ejaculation for quite a long time.
The squeezing technique
The squeeze technique is excellent for jerking off, because all you have to do is squeeze the glans firmly – preferably at the transition from the glans to the shaft –, and poof, the arousal is stopped.
Spread your legs
A similar thing applies to the spread legs. In S&M, this knowledge is used to deliberately prevent the submissive from ejaculating. Tied to the St. Andrew’s cross, it is difficult to shoot. But this doesn’t apply to everyone, either.
Ice cubes
This technique is supposedly used by Arabs, at least that’s what the film „A Goldfish Falls in the Water“ with Goldie Hawn would have us believe. Arouse her until just before orgasm, then immerse her hands up to the joints in a bowl of ice water (a champagne flute would be appropriate). If this is not available, there is another method to cool down your body (also from Tantra): Form a »U« with your tongue. When you inhale, the air feels much cooler. Try it right now! It will cool your arousal without draining it away.
Breathing
Not least, you can bring on or push away orgasm by consciously controlling your breathing rate. When you are approaching climax, your heart starts to race, heat rises in your head and your breathing becomes faster and shallower. But if you consciously reduce your breathing rate, if you breathe deeply and calmly instead of quickly and shallowly, you can delay the orgasm.
Noises
As much as instinctual grunting and making noises help to make the sex act horny, avoiding grunting, moaning and growling helps to slow down the process.
Thoughts
Learn to control your thoughts. They say thinking about ejaculation helps bring it on. So if you think, »Shit, I’m about to come!«, it’s already too late. Therefore, do not think about them! And don’t think negative thoughts either – they distract you from the eroticism of the moment.
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