So far, jerking off has simply been hot and varied and maybe even a little entertaining. Now we want to look at how you can increase your sex feeling and move from pure horniness to a feeling of well-being. On the one hand, it helps that you no longer just focus on your cock alone, but involve your whole body, and on the other hand, that you make the arousal phase more interesting or prolong it with simple means, because this increases the anticipation of the grand finale and is also the best prerequisite for becoming “multi-orgasmic” – I’m also talking about the thicker tears of joy that you’ll shed at the end. Multi-orgasmic? Don’t worry, we’ll get to that later.
From lust to pleasure!
Why should you increase the feeling of sex and prolong the arousal phase? As we’ve written in previous articles, most of us have never learnt to enjoy masturbation because of the wanking taboo, but have always just tried to finish as quickly and quietly as possible so that nobody notices. So if you want to make fundamental changes to your wanking routine, you need to take your time.
Increase sex feeling: Cranial sacral pump
When you repeatedly tense your butt cheeks while jerking off, you activate the craniosacral pump and ensure that the energy that accumulates in the pelvis due to arousal is pumped upwards via the spine. This has the effect that this energy does not want to be discharged so quickly. Last but not least, it is a good reason for the Taoist sex secrets.
Breathing
Breathing is so natural that we often forget how much it affects our experience. Experiment with it! Hold your breath for several seconds every now and then during solo sex! Or breathe deeper than usual! Breathe quickly and then very slowly again. Press the breath or pant superficially. Draw the breath down to the tips of the toes, and then breathe again with the chest only.
Advanced students use the breath to direct the energies. Simply put, if you feel the energy gathering more and more in your abdomen when you jerk off, you can distribute it throughout your body with the help of your breath and thus, on the one hand, postpone or even prevent the cum and, on the other hand, experience not only a genital orgasm, but also a full-body orgasm.
Noises
When you grunt and moan and whine, it naturally does something to your breathing: you are forced to breathe deeper. In itself a source of great pleasure, it feels horny to many men – apart from the artificial »Oh yeah, babe, lick that hole!«. But there is something else that happens when you make sounds: Your body starts to vibrate. Just put your forearm to your lips and growl at it with your mouth open. You will notice that your whole body starts to vibrate.
We haven’t yet found out why vibrators are hot. The fact that they are, however, is proven by the high sales of vibrating sex toys. So: Let the noise happen! Grunt! Moan! Say dirty words (maybe not exactly in the office-toilette, though…). Last but not least, it is a good preparation for horny sex as a couple. But don’t think about it, just let them develop all by themselves. That way, they stay natural and real to increase your sex feeling.
Therearound
Of course, it’s great fun to play around with his things. So much so that many people forget that the body consists of more than just the cock. There are also pleasures slumbering in other body parts or zones. As the beautiful poem by W. M. Faust puts it: “If a song sleeps in all things/that dream away and away/and the world begins to sing/you only find the magic word.” Erm, was that too literary? No, you’ve understood: You just have to find the right touch, the right stimulus, and a beautiful song will emerge even from the kneecap.
Abracadabr…arse
Our biology teachers (ugh, evil people!) have systematically concealed the fact that a lot of nerves end at the rosette, which is why touching it is perceived as very pleasurable. Enough of this! Freedom to the rosettes! Many people only think of fucking when they hear the word “bum”. But you don’t always have to open the door – if you know what we mean. If you’re afraid of the bogeyman, you don’t have to drill deep. Although, he’s missing out on a lot.
In this section (because it deals with quick methods that can be used anywhere), let’s stay in front of the great gate of happiness, moisten the (middle) finger and use it to massage the entire dark side of the moon. The braver ones may enjoy this technique: get naked, put some lubricant on the middle finger of your non-wank hand, and massage your rosette with it until your cock is erect. Grasp it with a grip of your choice, and then move your pelvis as if you were fucking your hand. Every time you move backwards, your slippery finger pushes itself into your arse. The foreskin retracts with each forward movement. In this way, you alternately stimulate your cock and arse and load up your entire lower abdomen. You can also fuck yourself in the office toilet.
Pleasurable pleasure – increase sex feeling
Before we go into the pleasures of other body parts, it should be said that you can not only caress, but also knead, scratch, pinch, rub, tickle, squeeze, hold and touch.
Nuts
That testislike to be rocked is something we have learned from the civil servants who do nothing else all day and get paid for it. Besides fondling them, you can also rub them, pull on them a little, tap them or even squeeze them. Funny variation: Knot the ends of a ribbon (the belt of your kimono or a theraband) on your knees and put your sack in a loop between them. This way, you can change the tension on your balls by moving your legs while you jerk off.
Perineum
The area between the balls and the arse should be made particularly good friends with, because we will need it later when it comes to slowing down imminent ejaculations. Until then, let’s turn to the pleasurable stroking and massaging of this area. For many men, it becomes quite moist during arousal and smells deliciously of earthy tropical air. If you’re into it, you can sniff the slippery fingers (the more senses you involve in lovemaking, the more multiorgasmic the finale will be). But don’t forget the massage. Pressure at this point transmits itself to the prostate, the G-spot of the man. And it can’t be massaged enough.
Nipples
When it comes to nipples, many people initially suffer from a similar shyness as when it comes to playing with their arse. It is considered feminine or at least unmanly. How daft. Why should men be allowed to have less fun than women? Why are these things so highly sensitised if you’re not allowed to enjoy them? So, put myths to one side and try it out! No, it’s certainly not enough to stroke it once and then tick it off because you don’t get a hard boner straight away. Areas of the body that have never been activated or have been neglected for a long time need to be discovered in peace.
It might even turn you off at first, but with proper exploration, the nipples can awaken from their slumber and become real turn-on buttons. If playing with dry fingers doesn’t do the trick, try a little spit. Slippery is also a joy for them – lucky, those who can fall back on their own body fluids.
Feet
Let’s say a word about limbs that are constantly being trampled on. None of us here are foot fetishists, but we can unanimously report that the pleasurable stimulation of the soles of the feet can trigger multiple feelings of well-being. Unfortunately, licking your own toes is reserved for contortionists, but there is little to stop you from caressing the soles of your feet, exploring the spaces between your toes or licking your ankles. Anyone who uses lubricant is a very clever one. Just don’t forget to do this when you get up! Well, and so you can continue to work your magic and keep on singing. The backs of your knees, gently brushed, send shivers all over your body. And if you pamper your flanks at the same time, you can enjoy a very special interplay. And please, don’t forget your armpits and certainly not your neck.
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