“Matching” we all know from Grindr – but “Mudding” is about a damn hot fetish, where it may get dirty. Professionally, it is called Salirophilia, but it is simply a passion for mud. (Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salirophilia)
Many people are disgusted by unintentionally getting mud on themselves in the garden. Salirophilists, on the other hand, can’t get enough of it. We tell you everything you ever wanted to know about this fetish.
Salirophilia or Mud Fetish: Sploshing, Wet & Messy (WAM) or Mud?
You’ve always wanted to wet yourself in the mud and live out your desire to do so? This cool interactive map shows you the hottest spots where it gets really dirty. Whether it’s WAM or sploshing, these are all variations on the mud fetish, which is also quite widespread in the gay scene.
And what if you don’t have the time (or the inclination) to go to a public place? Mud fetishists don’t always have to literally roll in the mud, but also make do with other (sticky, greasy) substances. A cake fight, for example, is an erotic highlight and rubbing with slime or molasses serves as sexy foreplay. If you opt for cakes, you can simply eat the slush during lovemaking. It’s pretty creamy when you lick the cake slush off his best piece!
Where does the horniness for dirt come from? Is it the incredible liberation?
If you are not a mud fetishist, the idea of mud on your body might even be repulsive to you. Why is it that gays get excited when they feel the mud between their bare toes, when they rub it on their bodies and throw it at each other? We learn from an early age that getting dirty is a bad thing. It soils the clothes, and we also have to conform to social norms.
Theories suggest that the mud fetish is a release from these constricting patterns, because when do you get to roll in the mud to your heart’s content? Just don’t think about dirty clothes, but mess around and maybe even make love to your lover. Many gay muddy men are buzzing about how they felt free and uninhibited during their first muddy session.
The mud fetish as part of BDSM – why dirty play can also be degrading
Why do you think there are so many pads and pools for the bed? Because it can get filthy, especially during BDSM sex. If the submissive partner has no preference for dirt, it is humiliating and therefore horny when the Dom rubs him with mud, slime or food. It is not uncommon for the little mud piglet to be presented by the Dom in a humiliating manner at parties or even taken outside.
Also, common is the crush fetish, which in the broadest sense also has to do with mud and mud. Your lover crushes fruit or other soft parts before your eyes. The material slowly squeezes through his toes, and then you kneel on the floor and lick his feet clean. That makes you hot? Then you are most likely one of the Muddys!
How does sploshing work in your own four walls?
You don’t need much equipment if you want to get filthy. Maybe you enjoy some poppers to let your ecstasy run free. Pick a horny substance to get soaked in. Here you are completely free. Cream? Honey? Cake? Or even gooey and slippery slime?
Slather your lover, spread the sticky stuff all over his body and watch it run down all his orifices. If your mud is edible, use your tongue and lick it all off from top to bottom. There are bound to be a few parts of your body that you’re particularly devoted to, aren’t there?
No desire to get your clothes soaked? A hot lacquer look is perfect to be washed off again afterwards. Or you can go straight for the nude, it doesn’t get much better than that! Be a wild rebel and unleash your lover into the world of dirty games. Forget everything you have learned so far about “cleanliness” and “mud”. Because only when it drips and drips everywhere have you done everything right.
Safety when playing mud – this is what you have to pay attention to
Just mess around without worrying about it? No problem, but you should still take a few precautions. Especially if you’re going to soak yourself with food, that’s important. If you want it to be not only messy but also a bit nasty, spicy foods play a role. Ginger, chilli, pepper – these will get you going. Be careful not to put such substances in acorns, as they can cause lasting irritation to the skin.
Also think about whether one of you might have an allergy. This is especially important when food is used. Luckily, a mud allergy is not an issue. However, if you are messing around outside, you should not necessarily eat the mud.
No more lectures! If you’ve always wanted to get stuck in quicksand or soak your partner from head to toe in slippery substances, welcome to the world of mud lovers!
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