Objectification is like a game from the realm of BDSM, a role-playing game where someone becomes the object of desire. In the world of seduction, there is nothing more intoxicating than when a man who has caught my attention realises this and starts to work specifically on impressing me. It’s a game of looks and gestures in which he enhances his body, chooses his clothes carefully and presents himself to me as a sexual being – simply irresistible!
The art of making things exciting
In erotic objectification, a submissive man is consensually no longer treated as a living being, but as an inanimate object, be it a seat, a storage surface, or it is given a specific function, such as an ashtray, a lamp or a toy. A living being becomes a thing. Sexual objectification, also known as reification or objectification, is the highest form of depersonalisation. Petplay, i.e. the game of impersonating an animal, is often seen as an entry point, as it initially represents dehumanisation.
It is particularly exciting when he has never been in this role himself, when he discovers what power he has and wants to use it with abandon. Because it’s not just about his body or his lust. It’s about him making himself the object of desire, sending me into a frenzy of passion and encouraging me to see, desire and take him in the same way.
Sometimes he is watched with desire, perhaps standing half-naked in front of you, moving and attracting attention. In these moments, when you start to see him as a pure sex object, you can feel the heat between you as your mind drifts off into a world of lust. He feels the gaze on him and reacts shyly, but also with a touch of pride. He may rarely be aware of his power, but in these moments he really lights up. And then, when he gives that look that says: “I know what you’re thinking, here I am, come and take what you want…“, he silently makes himself available, just as it is endured.
Why is objectification so tempting?
Transforming a bottom from a subject into an object is a common part of many masochistic. Or demotivating sexual fantasies that people of all gender identities and orientations can have. Objectification can be both a source of erotic humiliation and a liberation from social conventions for the person concerned.
Transforming oneself into a thing is a particularly intense form of service. Instead of receiving the usual attention and affection, objects are often left motionless and unnoticed. It is a type of mental bondage that can serve as both proof of submissiveness and can leave days of pride or humility.
Some see objectification as a punishment or a way of showing off. For some, it is an act of self-esteem, while for others it is a particularly humbling experience. In this role, the bottom can be viewed and, if agreed, touched by others. Well-known practices such as forniphilia, in which someone serves as a human model. Or dollification, in which a (sex) doll role is assumed, are popular here. The attraction often lies in the loss of identity and/or passivity. It can take on a certain function, which increases the degree of humiliation. The loss of identity takes away the bottom’s individuality, and this feeling can be reinforced by masks or sensory deprivation. The bottom thus becomes interchangeable and appears like a pure object.
Restricting movement and preventing meaningful communication can also lead to the bottom being forced into a passive role. This often happens through bondage, special clothing, blindfolds, gags or other forms of restraint. In such situations, it is difficult to end the condition on your own. Instead of a safeword, alternative signs such as a small glass or an object that can be dropped can be used to signal the desire to stop.
Gradual levels of enslavement
The transformation to objectification begins in a committed relationship with a dominant partner. The sub becomes a possession, a person, but part of their self-determination is lost. In the next phase, as a pet, the submissive person is also robbed of their humanity. The climax is the complete transformation into an inanimate object, where the sub sheds all their personal characteristics and becomes a complete object.
Which objects are suitable?
As already mentioned, in particular, furniture is ideal for objectification. Whether as a footstool, ashtray, coffee table or buffet top, objects with a passive function are ideal. If the sub is to be a little more active, floor lamps, candlesticks or coat stands are ideal. The possibilities are almost limitless, and many objects can be easily imitated. In extreme cases, the sub can even become a living toilet or a high-tech sex robot that is active but acts as emotionlessly as possible. Due to its diversity and variations, this type of play is suitable for different relationships and always offers new and exciting possibilities.
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