There are countless ways in which you can sexually stimulate and arouse a partner. Besides your best piece of meat, you can also use sex toys, your hands or fingers, or even your tongue. This brings us to the so-called rimming. Never heard of it? Then you can find out everything you need to know about this extremely horny sexual practice here.
Rimming – what is that?
I’m sure you’ve already spoiled a partner with your tongue, probably by “playing with” his cock, i.e. licking it. But there are other parts of the body that are very sensitive. And can be stimulated with the tongue, including the anus. This is where the term anilingus comes from (derived from the Latin words anus = “anus” and lingere = “lick”). In the English-speaking world, on the other hand, the term rimming or rim job has become established. Which is also used to describe this form of sex practice. Rimming is often also called oroanal contact, tongue anal (abbreviated ZA) or anal licking.
By now you probably understand what it is, namely an oral sexual practice in which you stimulate your sex partner’s anus. Usually including the perineal area, with your lips and especially your tongue. Primary or secondary sexual characteristics are not used, as is the case with kissing. With rimming, you can work on the areas both superficially and by penetrating the anus with your tongue. The reason why you can make your partner totally horny with rimming is that the anal region is filled with countless nerve endings. And is therefore considered an erogenous zone and a place of hidden pleasure centres.
Many men are into rimming
Surveys among homosexual men have shown that this practice has a lot of friends. In a 2021 survey in Australia, more than 38 per cent of respondents said they had received a rim job within the last three months. If you would like to try these exciting tongue games (active or passive), you should talk to your sex partner first. Despite the widespread popularity of tongue play, not all men are into it. This certainly has to do with the region to be stimulated, which many people associate with uncleanliness.
“Clean” or “Dirty” Rimming
If you and your partner want to enjoy a clean rimming, you need to make sure you have proper anal hygiene beforehand. This means that you both clean your anus at least thoroughly. If you intend to go deeper with your tongue, an additional bowel irrigation with an anal douche is a good idea. As it can provide additional health protection. With clean rimming, the risk of infection is very limited. If you don’t want to take any risk at all, you can also use a so-called leakage cloth (rubber dam).
Hygiene is a crucial factor for many men. Because all too often thoughts of “site-specific” impurities prevent them from giving themselves over to their lust. And really letting themselves go during this practice.
A not so widespread variant is “dirty” rimming, in which the partners deliberately refrain from cleaning the anus. If value is placed on an unclean anus, the stimulus is to lick off any possible adhesions. And to virtually clean the anus with the tongue (compare coprophilia). For the active (rimming) partner, there is a greater health risk due to the possible transmission of oral bacteria. Especially if the rimmed partner has an acute infectious disease of the gastrointestinal tract. However, pathogenic germs or viruses do not necessarily have to be present in the intestinal flora.
Species of rimming
In principle, there are no limits to your imagination. Basically, rimming is possible in any position in which you can easily reach your partner’s anus (or he yours) with your mouth and tongue. For example, your partner can kneel down on all fours and thrust his backside towards you. Another option is for him to lie down on his back and stretch his legs upwards, giving you better access to his backside. It’s also nice when you lie on your back and your partner sits on your face (facesitting). Or you can lick each other’s asses, similar to the 69 position in a mutual blowjob.
Positioning can already be a prelude to the coming “tongue pleasures”. Many men also like to have something applied to their anus before they lick i. Such as cream, honey or other “treats” and then lick it off. It is also possible to insert things in preparation for an intense “licking and fucking session”. And rimming itself can also serve as foreplay for horny anal sex.
Another popular method is for the giver to pull his partner’s buttocks wide apart with his hands. And then to put his whole face in his backside (keyword “Eating the ass”). This way you can get to the anus with your lips and tongue. In addition, by pulling your buttocks apart, you stretch your anus and can penetrate better with your tongue.
A positive side effect of rimming is that the rimmed partner relaxes, which also loosens the sphincter muscles, which is of course an advantage during a subsequent fuck. In addition, intense rimming can moisten the anus and the saliva makes it slippery. However, you should always have lube on hand for a fuck after a rim job, because saliva dries quickly and loses its slippery properties.
Lick slowly as a beginner
If you don’t have any experience with rimming, but you really want to try it, find a partner who shares your fantasies. Above all, take it slowly. Start by licking your partner’s scrotum and then work your way down/behind. The area between the scrotum and anus is particularly sensitive for many men. You’ve probably noticed this yourself when you’ve caressed your balls and their surroundings while jerking off.
First, lick your partner’s buttocks, carefully pulling them apart a little so that you can reach the area in front of the anus with your tongue. The skin surrounding the anus, which is often a little wrinkled, is very thin and extremely sensitive to touch because of the nerve endings already mentioned. When you finally see the butt hole in front of you, you can first touch and caress it with your finger and when you are ready, insert the tip of your tongue. You don’t have to lick it hard right away, gentleness is the order of the day. It is much more exciting for your partner if the touch is very gentle.
Even as a beginner, you should only go as far as you want to. Don’t let your partner push you into doing anything, and only do what you feel like doing. You’ll see that the intensity of rimming will increase all by itself, because once you’ve got a taste for it, you won’t be able to get enough of this extremely hot form of play.
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