There are dos, don’ts and certain rules in the darkroom that are often overlooked. A guide can help to make the darkroom experience even more exciting. The darkroom etiquette guide offers tips for a successful visit, from the choice of clothing to communication with other guests. It is important to pay attention to and respect signals, while also sending clear signals yourself. Safety should always come first, both in terms of safer sex practices and the protection of personal belongings. The darkroom allows for unique encounters, and with the right knowledge, an even more intense experience can be created.
Darkroom Etiquette: The question of clothes
Maybe there is a certain dress code that should be followed. After all, a darkroom is not just a swingers’ club where less is more, but usually a separate room of a bar or club where there is usually a motto or dress code for different occasions. And: even if it is dark, there are other senses that want to be stimulated. It makes a difference whether you’re wearing rubber, leather or just a boring shirt. After all, not all cats are grey in the dark.
The signal question
In the darkroom, people with the most diverse desires and fantasies meet. One person wants to be sucked off by as many people as possible, while the other perhaps prefers to stand quietly in the corner and just watch. In any case, it is important to pay attention to the body signals of the other guests and to respect them. This also includes formulating a rejection in a friendly way and accepting in return if you don’t fit into someone’s pattern.
On the other hand, you should also send out clear signals. If you are extremely shy and look like a scared deer, but actually have the inner desire to be really roughed up by one (or more) strangers, you have to make this known verbally or through body language. A friendly face with a smile not only opens the heart, but also perhaps one or the other pair of trousers.
The communication issue
If it is not a question of talking about the current occasion, for example about sexual preferences, or if you want to change positions, you should reduce the chatter to the essentials. The darkroom is not meant for exchanging the latest gossip. There is plenty of time for that before or after at the bar. And even those who prefer to spend all their time on their mobile phones should perhaps think about why they are in a darkroom and not at home on the couch.
The security question in darkroom etiquette
For your own safety and the safety of others, you should always wear a rubber! Unfortunately, you can’t tell if the other person is carrying anything around. Especially not in such a sparsely lit room. And even if the other person assures you that they are wearing a condom, you’d better check again. It should be a point of honour to take care of yourself and others and to be considerate. Better safe than sorry.
Protect not only yourself, but also your belongings. It’s not only good to be in the dark, it’s also particularly easy for thieves. On the one hand, the lighting is more than sparse, and on the other hand, you are distracted by various physical activities anyway and don’t notice whether the hand on your trousers is trying to get at your arse or your purse. So always make sure that your things are safely stored at the counter or in the cloakroom. Valuable, useless items such as expensive watches or designer clothes are best left at home.
We wish you lots of fun on your next dark adventure!
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