Does it turn you on when your partner? Or some cutie on the street, sucks a sweet with his tongue or licks an ice cream? Does it excite you when your partner licks your armpits or nipples with their tongue during sex? Or caresses your rosette? Then you might have a so-called tongue fetish. This article will tell you exactly what this is and how you can tell that you’re particularly into tongue play.
When do you have a tongue fetish?
There are a few signs that can indicate that you have a tongue fetish. They are barely noticeable to outsiders, but they excite you sexually.
When the look and tongue tricks excite you
Anyone with a real tongue fetish is often aroused by the mere sight of tongues. Gets an erection, and wishes their tongue would glide over their body. There are countless videos on the internet in which people perform so-called “tongue tricks”, i.e. acrobatic tricks with their tongue. For a tongue fetishist, such videos have the effect of porn. Tongue fetishists also like it when they can watch other people show off their tongues. For fetishists, it is highly erotic and extremely stimulating when someone licks their lips, sticks out their tongue or licks things with it.
Sexy tongue games and their effect
Licking, sucking, sucking or even playing with saliva – all of these tongue games are very arousing for many people, even if they don’t have a tongue fetish. Fans of tongue play often particularly enjoy it when their partner licks their fingers or touches their body all over with their tongue. They also find it arousing to put one or more fingers in their partner’s mouth during sex. So that they can suck on them and play around them with their tongue.
Accessories for the tongue: piercings, ice cream and sweets
Accessories play a major role in many fetishes and are an integral part of them. Some tongue fetishists like tongue piercings, for example, or get horny when someone licks an ice cream with their tongue. There are even tongue fetishists who like it when their partner sucks a sweet during sex play. This is comparable to the smoking fetish, where it makes someone horny if their partner smokes during sex. Although, of course, sucking sweets is much healthier than smoking. However, it is important when sucking sweets during sex that your partner doesn’t swallow the sweet out of sheer excitement and, in the worst case, have a choking attack. So always suck carefully.
Length and flexibility are important, after all
There aren’t many people who don’t know Gene Simmons, the bassist of the band Kiss. He should actually have cult status among tongue fetishists because he is known for his extremely long tongue. There are a lot of tongue fetishists who really enjoy such long, very flexible tongues. For them, there is nothing more arousing than a tongue that reaches up to the tip of their nose or chin. A tongue like the one given to Gene Simmons by Mother Nature has an incredible attraction for fans of tongue play and makes for a bulge in the trousers.
Tips on how to live out your tongue fetish
You may now be wondering how best to live out your tongue fetish. Here we give you some tips that can help you give your tongue fetish the space it needs and enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
Oral hygiene is the be-all and end-all
It may sound strange to people without a tongue fetish, but if you have one, you should treat your mouth and tongue as sexual organs and take care of them accordingly. This means that you should ensure good dental and oral health. To ensure arousing tongue and mouth play, brush your teeth and gums thoroughly and clean your tongue. Flossing is also useful to remove residue and present your partner with an inviting place for your tongue play.
French kissing
The easiest way to live out your tongue fetish is to kiss using your tongue. With a skilful French kiss, you can add just the right amount of sexuality and sensuality to the moment. When your partner’s tongue enters your mouth, bite it gently and try to suck on it. He won’t pull it away, but will push it further into your mouth. If he does, respond by sucking on his tongue or working it with gentle bites. An arousing French kiss can be described as a romantic duel between two tongues. Use it as foreplay for what follows. When kissing, pay attention to gentle movements and a good rhythm for both of you. The more intense the French kiss, the better sex you’ll have later.
Practise, practise, practise
No master has yet fallen from the sky, so you shouldn’t expect your partner to become a tongue sex expert overnight. It takes a lot of practice before he can use his tongue in such a way that it licks you into paradise as a tongue fetishist. The tongue is a very versatile organ that can be used for countless, very arousing sexual activities. But it needs training. With patience, anyone can become a tongue virtuoso. At some point, your partner will be able to tongue fuck you for hours and sensually lick every inch of your body. With regular tongue exercises, he’ll become a true superstar when it comes to anilingus.
Invitation to a full-body tongue bath
Let your imagination run wild and imagine you’re a cat in heat who desperately wants to have sex with her cat. It’s a very erotic idea that your partner simply licks you from head to toe with his tongue. He does this very slowly and sensually. He starts at your mouth and then moves towards your neck and earlobes. Not only that, but he kisses your neck and moves his tongue up to your chest, where he licks and sucks your nipples with his tongue.
His tongue then moves further down, playing with your belly button, your pelvis and the tip of your cock, which he circles tenderly with his tongue. Then he licks your entire cock up to the shaft and your balls. He doesn’t linger too long here, however, but continues his journey with his tongue over your thighs, knees and ankles to the tips of your toes. Of course, he won’t forget to pay your bum a visit and give it some extra hot pleasure with his tongue.
Important: Communicate your tongue fetish
One positive aspect of the tongue fetish is that it is a relatively inconspicuous fetish, unlike a preference for latex clothing or puppy play, for example. If sex without excessive use of the tongue excites you, it is not necessary to talk about your fetish. However, if the tongue fetish plays a very important role and is necessary for a fulfilling sex life, it would make sense to talk to your partner about it. A relaxed situation is best suited to this, perhaps over a nice meal, which you can use to talk about your sexual preferences and desires.
Many people like to be pleasured with their tongue or to be pleasured themselves, and perhaps your partner is particularly keen on extensive tongue play. But you’ll only find out if you ask him what he likes. You should avoid such a conversation directly during sex. In principle, it is only possible to live out a tongue fetish if everyone involved likes the tongue being used. This should be clarified beforehand, because only then will everyone really enjoy the tongue, this versatile organ.
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