There are many different ways to turn yourself or your partner on sexually. Besides an extensive hand job or blow job, intensive fingering can also make a gay man horny. If you haven’t tried it yet, you’re definitely missing out. Why fingering can be very stimulating. And how you can best do it and what you should watch out for when fingering, we explain in this article.
What is fingering?
Fingering is basically nothing more than inserting (a) finger(s) into the anus. You can enjoy this kind of play by letting your partner spoil you or by doing it yourself. When fingering, you don’t use your whole hand, but at most individual fingers. If the whole hand is used, this is called fisting.
Fingering is great for those who want to try anal play. But don’t feel ready for a hard cock fuck or a big sex toy.
Loose is hotter – How fingering feels
When you are fingered for the first time or when you finger yourself, stay loose and relax. The first sensations are unusual, because you often feel a sensation of pleasure and pressure. Very soon, however, you will feel an intense arousal. When inserting the finger(s), don’t be put off by the perfectly normal contraction of the anus.
It’s the high concentration of nerve endings in the anus that makes you feel horny after just a few fingers. As I said, this actually inaccessible pleasure zone is hypersensitive. In addition to the nerve endings, the so-called P-spot (the prostate) also plays a big role.
Is orgasm possible by fingering alone?
Of course, it is possible. Due to the high level of sensitivity, it is possible with a little practice to induce an orgasm through fingers alone. But you can also coax cum out of your cock or your partner’s by combining fingering with other sexual play. Such as additional wanking.
When you insert your finger into your or your partner’s hole and explore the area by touching it, you will feel a muscle cord that becomes more and more tense as you get hornier. Massaging this area with your finger can lead to an intense, squirting orgasm. In combination with sliding the finger in and out, this type of play is incredibly exciting.
Tips for hot, intense fingering
To make it easier for you to get started with this very hot form of play, we would like to give you a few tips on the way to your first finger orgasm. This way you’ll have a lot of fun that you probably won’t forget in a hurry. And that you should experience again and again.
Experiment and test
Finding out what you or your partner likes is also crucial when it comes to fingering, so that everyone gets what turns them on and makes them feel good. Fingering is also called anal masturbation, and you can practice it with your own fingers or with toys like dildos or butt plugs. Fingers offer more possibilities, though, because you can feel better with them. However you do it, fingering helps you to exercise your anus and relax properly. It also helps you to get to know your body or your partner’s body better, and to get a feel for what works and what doesn’t work. Take your time to find the fingering technique that is most pleasurable and arousing for you.
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