A XXL cock looks absolutely awesome in porn and gives you wet dreams? Once you have such a magnificent specimen live in front of you, a little “fear” is quite normal. As the passive part, you not only have a lot to swallow, but also a few centimetres more than usual in your arse. The biggest mistake is to go to work without preparation. Funnily enough, the length is not the main problem, but the circumference.
On your first colonoscopy at the latest, you will notice that there are quite a few centimetres (or metres) at the back. The biggest challenge is the width, because the wider it is, the more stretch for the sphincter muscle. With the following tips, it works without fear and without pain.
Prepare yourself with the right toys
No pain, no gain? What works in the gym is more likely to put you in a bad mood in bed during sex. Pain is cool if you want it. Relaxed fucking requires more preparatory work. Pain during anal sex with a thick cock always occurs when your sphincter muscle has not been stretched sufficiently. The muscles in your rosette are impressive because this little ring prevents you from literally wetting your pants and ensures that you can control your excretions.
What do all muscles have in common? Right, you can relax and train them. This works best with the right toys. If your lover has a considerable girth, there’s nothing you can do about it. So the starting point is your rosette. A range of toys are available for stretching:
- Butt plugs, for a long-lasting stretch
- Dildos in different sizes
- Fisting dildos that stretch your arse almost limitlessly
When searching for the appropriate plug, you will realise that there are different sizes. They differ in length, but above all in width. And that’s crucial, because this way you can prepare yourself for sex with the Mr XXL cock without any problems. Don’t just wear the plug just beforehand, but regularly. After all, athletes don’t just train when a match is coming up.
Dildos are also suitable, and here too it depends on the increase in size. In the beginning, a mini is hot and horny, but later you can really get your rosette going with an XL fisting dildo. His XXL cock looks like an orphan in comparison, bet?
Use poppers when the going gets tough
As already mentioned, the biggest challenge is the sphincter muscle. If you are tense, every stretch will be painful. There are various aids that can give you a pleasant rush and make you more relaxed. In the gay scene, poppers are the insider tip for anyone who wants to relax their rosette. Shortly after sniffing, you’ll notice how your muscles relax and his XXL cock can penetrate you more easily.
Poppers don’t replace all the other aids, but they are a good way to reduce your nervousness and prepare yourself. In combination with a numbing lubricant, they reduce the pain to almost zero.
Lube, lube, lube – not in moderation, but in masses
It has to slide, and for that you need lube. Your arse doesn’t produce moisture, no matter how horny you are. The best solution is a silicone lubricant, because it slips much longer than water-based aids. But remember that silicone and rubbers are often not compatible. If they do not harmonise, a water-based gel will also do the job. It’s important that you don’t skimp on lube – it’s better to use too much than too little. When applying it, make sure that you don’t just rub it into your rosette. Let your finger slide inside you so that the first few centimetres of your rectum are already moistened and ready for him. Last but not least, rub his cock thoroughly with the moist lubricant. This will make him slide into you more easily and the pain will disappear.
Stretch out your clasp muscle before sex
You’re about to have sex and the size of his monster cock is taking your breath away again? Remember, preparation is key. This applies in the days, weeks and months beforehand, but also just in time when the time comes. Give him a blowjob to tease him while you stretch your anus with the plug. Don’t want to wait any longer? Then use the “clock” to prepare yourself. No, not the ticking thing on the wall, we’re talking about the “clockwise” direction in which you move your fingers in your rectum. It works like this:
- Lubricate your finger with plenty of lube.
- Push halfway into your anus.
- Widen your sphincter now in a clockwise direction.
- Push your finger upwards to 12 o’clock.
- Walk to three o’clock, continue towards six o’clock until you are back at the starting point.
Repeat the procedure until you feel ready and want to take his XXL cock inside you.
Take control with the riding position
One jerk and he’s in? That’s the moment when you’re probably losing the fun of sex. For your safety, it makes sense to take command first. The riding position or reverse cowboy is perfect for this. He lies on his back and holds his giant cock with his hand to stabilise it. Now you’re in control and decide when you’re ready to lie down on him completely. Does it hurt or not slide properly? Load up on lubricant until you’re ready for the first time. Once it’s in, you can change positions at will and fuck your way through every conceivable position.
Take your time to fully absorb him
The miracle of time will be of great help to you when you’re ass-fucking a huge cock. Only when you are ready will you be able to take it inside you without pain. A good position can also be the romantic little rock. Your arse cheeks will prevent him from coming into you too quickly and too deeply at the beginning. However, you should also bear in mind that width is the main issue here. How much length he then pushes in is actually irrelevant. Once his thickest part has overcome your anus, the rest is just a matter of the last bit.
Conclusion: Trust and the right tools are the key to success
Your arse is incredibly flexible, and you too can take monster cocks inside you. The “peck” is less of a challenge, but you don’t have to miss out on a hot fuck with a well-hung gentleman. The be-all and end-all is the right preparation. If you are mentally ready, there are enough tools to make your fuck with the “Big Dick” a highlight. By the way: If you are the owner of the big dick yourself, you can take away your lover’s fear with all these tips. Listen to him and take him seriously. If he doesn’t trust you, he won’t give you his arse.
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