Together with the balls, the cock is one of the most sensitive parts of your lover and, of course, of you. But what do we actually mean when we talk about his best part? The whole thing? Just the glans? The good news is that there are no hard and fast rules here. Every man likes it differently. One man will almost squirt into your hand when you rub his glans, while the next needs firm pressure along the entire length of his cock. If your lover isn’t circumcised, you have another area at your disposal that will drive him crazy. We’re talking about the frenulum.
What is the frenulum, and where is it?
Frenu…what? You’ve never heard of this place? You’re not alone, because who talks about their penis in technical terms? The frenulum is the small strap that connects the foreskin to the glans. It is usually only visible in uncircumcised men, as the frenulum is usually removed during circumcision.
Do you have such a cock in your vicinity and are you allowed to touch it? Congratulations, then gently pull back the foreskin and look for the connecting band on the underside. Spot found! This is where ‘man’ is really sensitive, and many people clearly underestimate this spot.
Why is the frenulum so sensitive in men?
There are numerous nerve endings in the frenulum, and even light touch impulses can lead to great horniness. Try it out for yourself: If your cock is hard, moisten your finger, pull back the foreskin with your other hand and gently stroke it with your finger. You will notice how your cock pulsates and the pleasure gathers inside.
Did you know that some men only reach orgasm by stimulating this inconspicuous spot? It is the spot that is also stimulated during sex. The foreskin slides forwards and backwards during sex. The frenulum is stimulated with every thrust until you finally cum. Try out directly whether you are able to cum through your frenulum alone.
How to stimulate your or his frenulum properly
If your lover is not circumcised, you can drive him crazy with a frenulum massage. Before you start, get yourself a high-quality personal lube, preferably silicone-based. It will stay slippery for longer, and you won’t have to top up as often. We have three ways for you to get his frenulum boiling.
Gentle finger massage:
If you use your fingers, make sure you clean them thoroughly beforehand. Dirt under the nails is just as taboo as claws that are too long and could hurt him. Pull back the foreskin with your free hand and apply plenty of lubricant to his best part. Now gently massage the frenulum with your fingertip and watch his reaction. Sometimes the cock starts to twitch as the erectile tissue is filled with blood. This is a clear sign that you are making him really horny.
Use a sex toy:
It doesn’t always have to be your fingers, you can also drive him crazy with a vibrator. Don’t do without a lubricant here, either, otherwise it will rub too much. Start with the lowest vibration level, because it feels very, very intense. If he gets on well with it and ‘gets off’, gradually switch up the levels. Due to the sensitivity of the area, he may not be able to tolerate full power and may cum before then.
Use your tongue:
A massage doesn’t just work with your fingers, but also with your tongue. When your warm, soft tongue glides over his frenulum, the sensation will catapult him to the top very quickly. Play with this spot. Lick it, let your tongue flutter, or even suck your lips on it briefly. Always hold the penis firmly with your second hand so that it can’t escape your stimulation.
Hot aids for even more pleasure during frenulum stimulation
You can energise your frenulum yourself not only during sex play with your lover, but also when jerking off. Just try it out during ‘do-it-yourself sex’ and stimulate just this one spot. You have the option of using a few horny aids to get you even hornier. How about a cock ring, for example, which increases blood flow to your cock. If you wear it correctly, you will feel the touch even more intensely. This works for yourself, but of course also for your partner.
An anal plug also feels great while you softly stimulate your cock. If you use a vibrating plug, the feeling will fill your whole body, and you will only need a few moments of touching your frenulum to spread your cum.
Conclusion: Don’t underestimate the frenulum as an erogenous zone
When you jerk off your cock with your hand, give it a blowjob or let it fuck you, one spot in particular will be particularly stimulated – the frenulum. Nevertheless, this spot is often underestimated or not even noticed. Circumcised cocks are not as irritable here, as the frenulum is often completely or partially removed. However, you can still try massaging the base to arouse his desire. He may react a little less sensitively, but the horniness at the former point of the frenulum will not be completely lost.
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