Your arsehole is there to be fucked? Not only that, you can also do a lot with it on your own. When you masturbate, do you usually just hold your cock in your hand and shake it until you cum? How about a bit of variety with solo sex? For many gays, anal masturbation is a real highlight because it gets your prostate going. We’ll tell you what hot little aids are available and how you can really get your money’s worth with anal masturbation.
The three basic rules for Anal masturbation
There are rules everywhere, and they are also part of anal pleasure. They are not a must if you want to have a horny experience, but they will help you immensely. Here are the three basics to bear in mind:
- Hygiene: Cleanliness is the be-all and end-all when having fun through the back door. You simply feel more comfortable if you don’t end up with a stinky surprise on your finger.
- Lube: Nothing works without the right amount of lube. Not only does it make you more slippery, but it also reduces the risk of intercourse.
- Patience: First time anal? Then don’t be so hard on yourself if you clench your cheeks at the beginning and nothing works. With patience, you too will manage to tighten your anus and work your way up to the prostate.
Hot in 7 steps: How to get it really good anally
Have you only ever shaken the butt, but never dived in the back? Then it’s time to change that. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, anal masturbation will broaden your sexual horizons and also break down any lingering inhibitions about backdoor sex. With the following guide, you’ll reach a hot climax in seven steps, we bet?
1. preparation in the bathroom – before your date with yourself
Hey man, you have a date with yourself? Prepare for your masturbation session as if you were going to meet up with the hottest guy from the student bar. What’s the most important rule when it comes to the back door? That’s right: your fingernails have to come off. Well-groomed, short and clean, they prevent you from hurting yourself during wild fun. Cut them, even if you’re getting it on with a toy.
If you want to feel completely clean and hygienic, rinse your darkroom with an anal shower. This works very easily with water and ensures that faeces are rinsed out. It doesn’t hurt at all, but makes you feel more comfortable during masturbation.
2. peace and comfort – here you make yourself comfortable
Jerking off quickly between door and rod is nothing special. When anal masturbating, you need a little peace and quiet, especially if you’re keen on a prostate orgasm. It doesn’t lurk around every corner and takes a little time. Whether it’s the bathroom, sofa in the living room or bed is up to you. In any case, make sure that there isn’t suddenly a nosy flatmate in the room or mum asking what kind of noises you’re making.
3. find the right personal lubricant – silicone, water or oil?
Don’t spill the beans, go big! Saving on lubricant would be the biggest mistake you could make. As soon as you have to overcome your sphincter muscle, it has to flow. Unfortunately, it won’t get wet at the back by itself, and saliva alone is not enough. Basically, you have the choice between water-based, oil-based and silicone-based lubes. The latter probably offer the best “slipperiness”, but are not compatible with rubbers and many toys. You can use them with a metal or glass dildo, but a silicone toy needs water-based lubricant.
A little tip: There are numbing and relaxing lubes if you need to gently stretch your rosette.
4. take a sniff – intoxication with poppers
Do you cramp up at the back while masturbating and can’t even get your finger halfway in? How about an extra dose of intoxication and relaxation? Gays love poppers and there are good reasons for this. Just one “sniff” of the bottle is usually enough to transport you to completely different spheres. You may not be classically high, but the relaxation ensures less anxiety and muscle spasms back there. Remember to follow the usual rules when using poppers.
5. toy-joy – choose the right aids
Fingering may be quite cool at first, but in view of the wide variety of toys, it would be a shame to do without it. For your anal stimulation, you have a whole armada of dildos, vibrators and plugs at your disposal, which are available in every conceivable variety. As a beginner, you are very well served with an anal plug. You insert it and simply enjoy the sensation. At the same time, you have both hands free and can work on your balls or your cock.
Do you need a real fuck with an (almost) real dick? Check out the expertise of suction cup dildos. Press them onto a smooth surface, and they’ll be hard and firm for you. Sit on them or let them penetrate you from behind and twist your cock in the process.
6. Practical preparatory work – on the way to your arse
You’re still a bit nervous and have never been up your own arse? Don’t worry, there’s no time limit you have to adhere to. Give yourself all the time in the world and take care of all the details first. Your perineum, for example, is a real hotspot that is looking forward to a little tenderness. Whether with a vibrator or the classic way with your fingers, you can release real feelings of pleasure here. Remember to use a personal lubricant here too, as the perineum is covered in sensitive skin and likes it moist.
If you then venture a little further out, you can challenge the nerve endings on your rosette. Why do you think rimming is so hot? It’s because of the sensitive area around your backside, of course. Moisten your fingers and immerse yourself in a wonderful massage, which is more than enough to get you started. Whether you already “dare” or not is up to you.
7. combination pleasure – without cock and prostate
Want the orgasm of your life and squirt like a big man? Many gays report that prostate massages not only increase the amount of sperm. The climax is said to be hotter, deeper and longer lasting. Luckily, you have two hands, so you can use the prostate dildo at the back and your hand at the front at the same time. If you need two hands for your cock, a prostate plug is also an option here!
Conclusion: anal masturbation expands your solo sex life “profoundly”
Who says your arse was only created for your lover’s pleasure? Just find out for yourself at the back and find out how you can make your anal masturbation even hornier. There are no limits to your imagination. Combine an anal dildo and masturbator, get it on with a prostate vibrator, or make yourself come with a fisting dildo.
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