Cum Control – Take me to the limit!
If the term “Cum Control” doesn’t just make your eyes water, then you know what this article is about. But for those of you who have only heard about it, we want to explore Cum Control in detail so that you can make the game for your climax even more adventurous, exciting and intense. But first the simple question: What is Cum Control? This comes from the English and means “sperm control”. Which describes a sexual practice in which the ejaculation and the time of the climax are controlled and delayed. In this cruel game, one man usually takes control of the other’s orgasm. Often in a BDSM context or as part of sexual games and activities
Control, in Cum Control, can be exercised in a number of ways. For example, the dominant man can determine the timing of the other partner’s orgasm and either delay or accelerate it. This can be achieved through actions such as stopping stimulation just before orgasm. Or using special aids such as chastity gags to prevent cum. Cum Control can be a form of sexual dominance and submission where the release of orgasm can be seen as a form of reward or punishment, depending on the agreements and preferences of the people involved. It is important to ensure that all parties involved are consensual and comfortable with this practice and set clear boundaries and agreements.
What is edging?
Isn’t it the same as cum control?! No. Edging is also an English term that describes the sexual practice of interrupting physical touch before orgasm in order to prolong sexual pleasure. The term comes from the concept of approaching the “edge” of cum before physically withdrawing. Other terms for this practice are “peaking”, “surfing” and “teasing”. It is both a solo activity and a partner experience in which one man brings the other as close as possible to orgasm before withdrawing.
This sexual method is thus like cum control, but should not be confused with “edgeplay”, which refers to riskier play methods that may be at the limits of safety. Whereas the edging orgasm does not necessarily have to occur, with Cum Control it does. Nevertheless, it is especially appealing to experience him in the submissive position, to be at his mercy and to give his cock and orgasm entirely into your hands.
It also brings many benefits, including increased orgasms and physical sensations, variety in a predictable sex life, or combating premature ejaculation. In an intense sexual moment, it may seem counterintuitive to interrupt stimulation, but many sexologists praise this practice as a way to add variety to a person’s sex life. It also allows couples to engage in more than one type of sexual activity (e.g. oral sex followed by anal sex), rather than a single activity that ends in cum. If you seek sexual pleasure without a partner, this can also prolong masturbation.
Wank: Orgasm control
You may find Cum Control challenging at first, but the results are rewarding. That’s why we recommend you start slowly. As soon as you feel an orgasm coming on, but you’re still a long way from cuming, take a break. Repeat this process several times, preferably four or five times. This can take 15-30 minutes. So take your time to make it worth your while, to get your orgasm flowing and your hot load flying through the air!
Step further with Cum Control
After that:
- This time you only stop wanking yourself when you are already very aroused and close to climax.
- At this point, most men find it hard to stop. It takes a lot of self-control and discipline to calm down in this situation.
- The suppression takes place mainly in your mind. But if you want to experience the ultimate orgasm, you must now use all your willpower and give your hand the command to stop.
- You will probably already feel the sperm building up in your penis and your cock twitching with pleasure.
- If you have stopped in time, you may feel some anticipation or even some semen dripping from your penis (this can also be arousing for some men)
- Your heart will be extremely hard, throbbing and you will be breathing fast.
- But if your will was strong enough and you timed it right, you will have prevented the orgasm.
Now wait until your arousal has calmed down, your heartbeat slows down and your breathing returns to normal. Your penis may even become flaccid again. Then you start all over again – and again you stop just before the climax! You can repeat this process as often as you like. To have a particularly intense orgasm experience, it is usually enough to stop two or three times just before the climax. Some men who have a lot of time, experience and willpower even practice cum control for several hours – where it then goes to the topic of gooning. When they finally reach climax, they feel an intense explosion of pleasure.
BDSM: Tease and Denial – Game Elements
Tease and Denial, also known as Orgasm Denial, describes a variety of sexual activities that aim to increase a man’s sexual arousal without reaching a climax – another term for Cum Control – but again with its own elements and nuances. The duration of arousal and how often orgasm is denied varies from couple to couple. This technique is often associated with BDSM and in this context is part of orgasm control, chastity or CBT. A collective term, then, for various erotic practices and types of play based on the power dynamic between consensual sexual partners. “BDSM” is a combination of acronyms that stand for three similar but distinct communities that use the imbalance of power for sexual pleasure. Bondage and Discipline (B/D), Domination and Submission (D/S), and Sadism and Masochism (S/M).
An essential element here is the play with power and powerlessness in order to make the imbalance between the stimulating, controlling man and the passive man physically tangible. However, T&D is also used in relationships without reference to sadomasochistic practices for intense pleasure enhancement. T&D sessions can sometimes lead to a so-called incomplete or ruined orgasm. In which men can ejaculate but feel no sexual release. The ensuing sexual frustration and increased excitability can then be exploited for further T&D play. Again, a man can ejaculate but not feel sexually relaxed.
Orgasm Denial: Nasty BDSM Game
So, Tease & Denial is another form of Cum Control to deny orgasm. If you want to try this out, you can increase the feeling of orgasm in your lover (or your body) with this step-by-step guide:
- Emphasize consent and communication about intentions, boundaries, and comfort levels before trying cum control.
- Use sex toys or manual techniques like the squeeze method for stimulation and control.
- Engage in foreplay with kisses, caresses, and attention to erogenous zones.
- Ask your partner for preferred foreplay and use lube and varied paces for excitement.
- Monitor your partner’s reactions during deeper penetration to prevent early orgasm.
- Pause stimulation before climax to maintain intimacy and avoid triggering orgasm.
- After a break, check if your partner is ready to continue and let them guide the next steps towards orgasm or further delay.
Conclusion
Experience heightened pleasure with Cum Control techniques, delaying orgasm for added satisfaction. Maintain a firm erection even after climax by countering the refractory phase effects. Explore stimulation and denial games with your partner for enhanced sexual experiences. Here are some tips to get started:
- Be gentle: Especially in the beginning, it is important not to overdo it. This can be painful for your cock. Find out how far you can go and agree on a safeword. This can be used to stop the partner if it gets too much. This does not mean that the lovemaking is completely stopped, but that the longed-for orgasm is finally allowed.
- Like to use toys: There are various sextoys that you can wear in your underwear. For example, and that are controlled by remote control. This way you can heat up the excitement again and again without having to stay in bed all the time. Alternatively, love balls or anal plugs can be very effective. This way you can integrate cum control into your everyday life.
- Include orgasm control in foreplay: Don’t just start with control during the actual fucking. But many possibilities can also be used during foreplay. For example, oral sex can be used as an indicator of desire.
Before we release you into the world of Cum Control, we would like to point out: If you have difficulties with orgasm, you should refrain from this practice. As it can aggravate your suffering. Otherwise, we wish you lots of fun trying it out and enjoying it.
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