I’m sure you know the situation too: You’re really taken with the cream slice at the bar! His grey-melted lips and the occasional grey hairs in his beard get you going? My dear, you seem to have a thing for daddies. No wonder, they’re pretty hot and have certain advantages!
But what exactly is behind the term DILF? Which men are real daddy types, and why are they so desirable? Find out here!
The DILF / Daddy in check: hot guy with young lover
In the gay scene, we call men daddies who are already a few years old. The special thing about them is that they don’t surround themselves with gays of the same age, but go for young guys. But is it purely about age? It depends on how you look at it. If you are 25 and your lover is 50, most gays will probably accuse you of having daddy-issues. There’s nothing wrong with that. Sex with daddies is just cool, age difference or not!
To be more precise, the term daddy doesn’t just refer to age, but rather to the way of life and love. Daddies are considered considerate, caring and like to take the leading role in the partnership. The daddy has a sense of responsibility towards his younger partner and shows him where to go, not only in bed, but also in everyday life!
Daddy vs. Sugar-Daddy: Where are the differences?
Not all relationships with an age difference are based on it, but they do exist: Sugar-Daddy and Toyboy. Sugar daddies are not only good in bed (usually), but also very generous. If you are the toyboy of a sugar daddy, you can not only hope for hot sex. Instead, your hot lover also sponsors a part of your life. Whether it’s tuition fees, luxurious holidays or the latest fashion trends – sugar daddies like to dig deep into their pockets to spoil their sexy young lovers.
Daddies can also be generous, but the focus here is not on that. The daddy takes his young lover by the hand and introduces him to the world of gay love. The primary (visual) feature is the age difference, but the central element of the later relationship is the acceptance of the different levels of experience.
Daddy Issues – what makes older gays so horny?
You are completely into daddies and don’t know why? That’s easy to explain. The daddy is usually a dominant type who takes you by the hand and leads you. He loves your naïve naivety and rides you in. Usually between 40 and 60 years old, he is a born seducer and only too happy to show you his leading role.
Many daddies don’t just want to get in the sack with you once, but know how to value a lasting connection. Even year-long celebrity relationships with age differences are a good example of this kind of relationship. In fact, the age difference does not have to be massive
There are daddy relationships with a 20-year difference and more, but ultimately the character of your connection also plays a role. If you are 35 and your more dominant partner is five or ten years older, you can still consider him your daddy.
By the way: The often feared fuck problems due to lack of stamina are not real problems at all. There are plenty of ingenious potencies with which the Daddy guy can easily satisfy your insanity. And one thing is for sure: with his life experience, he knows exactly how to fuck you to cloud nine!
DILF: Dad, I’d like to fuck
Behind the four letters DILF is a hot older guy who brings your sexual fantasies to the boil. Whether he is “Dad” or not, doesn’t matter at all. If you tell your friends about a horny DILF, all you are saying is that you would like to get laid. By the way, a well-known acronym is the Silver Fox (erotic, older man who looks very hot with his grey hair).
When you use your sex toys, do you always think of the horny guy who could easily be your father in terms of age? Congratulations – this guy is a guaranteed DILF for you!
DILFS and daddies – gays with special charisma
The hetero counterpart to the DILF is by the way the MILF (Mommy I’d like…). There is a heated debate among straights whether every woman over 30 is simply a MILF, or whether she has to have that certain something. And also among us gays this very discussion has been sparked off. Who can become a DILF at all? The guy definitely doesn’t have to be a father!
His age ranges between 30 and 50, anything above that could (almost) be called GILF (Grand-Dad I’d like…) again.
Among the celebrities, Hansi Flick, for example, is one of the symbols of the DILFS. And why do we like the DILF or Daddy type so much? That can have several reasons. The vibe when you’re with a DILF is particularly hot. You can just let go of the responsibility and let yourself drift.
Conclusion: The term Daddy has been established in the gay scene for a long time, but it says nothing about the family status (real father). You have a few years under your belt and your grey hair is getting on your nerves? Don’t worry about it, in the gay community, daddies are known and sought after as extremely hot studs!
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