your hands will feel a pleasant tingling heat. Do you already know what we’re getting at? If we know that friction generates heat, how can we make the most of this when fucking? Let us introduce you to dry humping, a technique that doesn’t require you to take your clothes off, but still allows you to climax.
What’s behind the term dry humping?
This technique is designed to make you cum without taking your cock out or undressing yourself and it. It works through friction, usually on his clothes.
We know several terms, but they all describe the same technique. ‘Outercourse’ is just as ‘dry’ as ‘frottage’, although with the latter you don’t necessarily have to do without your clothes.
Is dry humping the same as sex?
There is a lively debate about whether dry humping is the same as sex. Are you cheating on your lover if you rub yourself against someone else’s clothes until you come? You should clarify this in the partnership beforehand, otherwise it’s simply a matter of personal opinion. There are many such discussions, including whether a hamburger is also a sandwich.
We are of the opinion that dry humping is sex, or at least a subspecies of it. Jerking off is somehow sex too, even if you only do it with your hand.
Why dry humping has many advantages
Fucking makes a mess – we all know that. You can clean toys afterwards with your toy cleaner and a rubber prevents cum stains everywhere. Nevertheless, sweat remains on your body at the end, body fluids dry slowly and there’s not always enough time to take a quick shower. What’s more, you can’t just shag anywhere just because you’re horny.
With dry humping, you’re clothed and at least you won’t cause a public nuisance! But let’s have a look at what other advantages dry humping has.
- Safer sex differently: There is a lot to suggest that clothes (even pants) offer good protection against semen and other bodily fluids. Of course, leaving your pants on is no substitute for safer sex, but if you don’t have any rubber to hand, dry humping can be a great alternative.
- It feels great: Have you ever rubbed yourself against the sofa, a cushion or even a soft toy until the cream squirts out of your cock? Then you know how hot direct and indirect friction feels.
- You stay a virgin: In some cultures, sex before marriage is a taboo and that’s something you have to accept. Dry humping is a type of sex, but it is not sexual intercourse. Your arsehole remains a virgin. So if you want to wait until marriage, for whatever reason, you can indulge in this creamy and authorised pleasure.
- Dry humping is a hot foreplay: dry fucking doesn’t have to go all the way to the ‘shot’. It’s also a great way to prepare yourself for a fuck. Friction generates heat, and what’s hotter than rubbing against each other in the club and then going down on each other naked at home?
The hottest positions for dry fucking
Basically, any position is suitable for horny rubbing. You can also simply press your lover against the wall of the club toilet and then rub against him until you squirt in your trousers. If you want to try it out in bed or at home, there are a few really hot positions that you absolutely have to check out.
The missionary position is the classic
This position is of course perfect if you want to rub your cocks against each other through your clothes. You meet ‘man on man’ and experience particularly intense vibes. For a little variation, turn your lover onto his stomach and rub yourself against his arse. If you exert enough pressure, he will feel the mattress against his cock.
The riding position is fun for both of you
Sit on Cowboy, because you can rub your cock perfectly against him in a sitting position and take full control. He has the best view in the supine position and can look you straight in the eye as you get hotter and hotter. Did you know that dry humping also works with toys? Instead of rubbing yourself against your lover, scrub your body over your dildo again and again. It’s best to attach it directly to the bed so that it doesn’t roll away.
The scissor position
You both spread your legs and then move your balls together. Be careful here as the testicles are known to be super sensitive. Start with gentle pressure and rubbing and build up to the intensity you are comfortable with. You probably won’t cum with this technique, but that doesn’t make dry humping any less hot as foreplay.
How to stay on the safe side during dry humping
Some items of clothing reliably keep body fluids out, others do not. When choosing your clothes, you should therefore avoid permeable materials. Soft fabrics are very comfortable on the skin and can further increase your pleasure. However, if you are wearing patent leather and leather, lube is essential in your clothes, otherwise you will rub each other ‘hot’.
Tip: Before you rub yourself against someone you may have just been flirting with on the dance floor, ask them! Consent is mandatory, even if it’s ‘only’ dry sex. The advantage is that if you both agree, you can get started straight away.
Conclusion: Dry fucking is a great alternative to ‘wet’ sex
No time to change your clothes or do a real number in bed? Dry sex works at any time and is a hot alternative to classic fucking. Does it still sound boring to you? Try it out and be amazed, because this indirect sex can make for some pretty hot heads. If you then realise that your clothes are just getting in the way, you can always rip them off and have a proper shag.
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