Have you ever watched a wrestling fight on TV (or even live)? Then you’ve probably noticed how much you go toe to toe with your opponent. So it’s no wonder that in the course of this increasingly popular contact sport, a fetish subculture has developed with its very own code of conduct. What is meant by gay wrestling, why it is a fetish all of its own and how you can also get your money’s worth sexually, you will find out when you read on.
What is gay wrestling?
Everybody knows the official wrestling clubs and associations, for example the US-American NWA (National Wrestling Alliance) or the WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment Inc.). Besides these, there are wrestling fight clubs for fetish men. This variation is very similar to non-fetish wrestling but has a sexual dimension, a so-called kink element. Some gays see the goal in the fight itself. Others see wrestling as a prelude to the sex that follows between the opponents. What happens during sex is usually determined by whoever wins the wrestling match. So if you are the one who likes to decide what happens during sex, you should train properly.
In principle, gay or fetish wrestling is possible wherever there is an improvised ring or fighting area. There are also very different fighting styles that use elements from boxing or judo. You can also fight freestyle or as a tag team (a group of at least 2 fighters). Many gays create special fetish wrestling personas, appear under an artist name, and usually show personality traits for which they are not necessarily known in reality. In order to better empathise with the chosen character, some use specially selected equipment. For fetish wrestlers, the clothing is often a deliciously tight suspender made of lycra or rubber, now and then a vest covers the sexy body. All accessories should underline the personality of the fetish wrestler.
Friends of fetish wrestling connect online and prepare for fights. Dedicated fans travel long distances for competitions. Are you part of this community, competing internationally in this exciting sport? Like official wrestling, fetish wrestling follows rules but can be flexible. Matches require months of preparation with online banter and trash talk, leading to intense and often heated battles.
Wrestling as a fetish among gays
Although fetish wrestling matches sometimes (or more often) end in a horny, splashy sex session, the matches beforehand are taken absolutely seriously by most. So wrestling can be quite aggressive and intense. Quite a few men feel that a wrestling match is a physical release. The fight becomes an expression of one’s own strength, flexibility and masculinity. Fetish wrestling can therefore be used in two ways. On the one hand, it is an opportunity for you to get some exercise together with a comrade. There is also plenty of room for a body-positive pick-up line.
BDSM elements in gay wrestling
Gay wrestling is a mixture of fighting and fetish play. But there are also quite explicit BDSM elements. You are trying to subjugate your opponent, at least if you prefer the dominant role in real life. Many fighters therefore compete with the conscious intention of either winning or losing. It all depends on what role they want to play overall.
Fetish wrestlers fight for the right to be a dom or a sub. To this end, during the fight, they try to demoralise the other fighter and to assert their own dominance. It is a power play, as it is known from the BDSM area. In fetish or gay wrestling, by the way, the cult of the body always plays an important role. Doms often fight for the honour of being admired by the defeated wrestler for their sexy physique.
Social aspect of gay wrestling
Maybe you know this from other sports: If you are part of a team, a club or an association, it is primarily about the respective sport, but the social aspect also comes into play. It’s no different in the gay wrestling community. Even if your fights in the ring and the games together afterwards take place in togetherness, the fetish wrestling community is a sworn community that also has a social aspect. At the group meetings there will probably be a number of fights first, then your horny wrestling guys will spend time talking, partying and having fun in every way imaginable. After the wrestling it is often called: Ring free for hot sex with clamps, grabbing and sweating.
Popular turn-on – Gay wrestling porn
Gay wrestling is a fetish that has long since arrived in the porn film industry. There are now extremely hot porn films from almost all the big studios in which guys compete with each other first on the mat and then during sex. By the way, oil is often used, because glistening men’s bodies are extremely attractive. What’s more, the oil spread everywhere makes sex much easier later on, because you don’t have to resort to lube to give your inferior wrestling mate a good fuck.
Porn performers are not always young and clean-shaven. Often you’ll see seasoned, hairy guys who first wrestle and then have sex with each other. So there’s definitely something for you, no matter what kind of man you’re into.
Lively scene for fetish wrestling
Would you like to check out or even join the fetish wrestling community? No problem, because there are many men who just want to dive into the scene and watch it. Watching hot, well-toned guys with big cocks in skimpy underwear can also be really stimulating. You also have the option of joining in just for fun or getting serious about the whole thing.
Through the community, you will surely find like-minded opponents who fit your style of wrestling, also concerning the allowed techniques. Also keep in mind that accidents can always happen. For the best protection, choose an opponent who is at your level.
You should also keep this rule in mind after the fight when it comes to a possible sex adventure. Clarify beforehand what rights you have after the fight and what willingness your opponent has for a lustful, second fight. In fact, not everyone in the fetish wrestling scene wants sex after the competition. However, most gay wrestlers know what they are looking for. So it shouldn’t be a big problem for you to find someone with the right skills.
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