Thanks to the Internet, messenger services and chat rooms, it is now very easy to make contact. Many hope that such chats are the prelude to hot dates, so to speak. And spare no effort to impress their chat partners, be it through hot texts (sexting) or explicit pictures in the form of dick pics. Find out what sexting and dick pics are all about. How you can best use them, and what you should watch out for here.
Sexting & Dickpic – Make your chat partner hot
You may have come across the term sexting before. It describes sending sexually explicit messages, photos or videos via messaging. Because the term is actually derived from texting, it’s basically dirty talk designed to get each other excited and horny. Sexting can be divided into two phases. The first phase is called teasing, in the second phase the actual sexting takes place. In the first phase, you determine whether your chat partner is actually interested in sexting by sending a few pleasant but not too explicit messages.
If you notice that he doesn’t react with explicit enthusiasm, don’t even start the second phase. You can look as good as you want and have a delicious cock, but if your partner isn’t in the mood, no sexy photos will help. Confronting someone with body or dick pics without being asked, just because you are horny yourself, is often not very helpful if you want to have a hot adventure.
One element of sexting is the sending of dick pics, which are shots of your (usually) erect cock. You can make quite an impression with such dick pics, which are highly desired by many. In fact, many men want a dick pic of their chat partner before a date. And make it quite clear that there will be no sex date without a dick pic. The reason for this is that bottoms in particular want big cocks that they can get off on during analplay.
Sexting makes you want to and keeps the relationship alive
Basically, sexting works like phone sex, except that pictures, videos or even audio recordings are used. You can easily share your sexual fantasies using text messages and supplement them with so-called nelfies. This means that you send pictures of yourself naked, either in full or in part. This can be a shot of your deliciously hairy armpit (we think that you don’t have to be clean-shaven everywhere), your six-pack or even a dick pic.
A popular approach to sexting is to increase the number. Ideally, you start off with fairly casual messages and when you realise that he is interested, the messages and pics can increase. When sexting, you can also give your chat partner commands, such as that he should get it himself and how. You can also tell them what you would like to do to them. A matching audio file with your horny cock will make him completely horny.
Sexting is also a great way to spice up your relationship. Just send your lover short, horny messages on his smartphone during his working hours. Additionally spiced up with a sexy pic of you reaching into your open trousers. You’ll see how much he looks forward to the end of the day and a relaxed but erotic game with you.
Stay “realistic”
One unbeatable advantage of sexting is that everything you or your chat partner write takes place exclusively in your imagination. Rules and laws that otherwise apply are out of force because everything is just fantasy. Especially fetish lovers get their money’s worth with sexting. If you like to wear varnish or leather, you can present yourself in a latex uniform or bodysuit during sexting. If you like whipping, fucking without a condom or want to be humiliated to the hilt, you can live out these fetishes without limits in sexting. But beware, as soon as it comes to a real meeting, all laws and rules have to be observed again, of course.
This is also the reason why you should only talk and write about preferences that you really find pleasurable. And that you are willing to try out on a real sex date. If this is not the case, it will quickly lead to disappointment during a real date. Because the sexting does not match the reality. If you are writing about practices that you like in your imagination and that turn you on, but that you don’t want to do in real life, you should make that clear when you are sexting.
Dickpics – Lure or deterrent
If you ask men about attractive parts of their body, the first thing that comes to mind is their cock. The best piece of meat therefore plays a central role in terms of self-esteem and self-confidence. And a nicely shaped, big cock with plenty of cum in the sack is admittedly something that people really look forward to. This is probably one of the reasons why bodypics are usually not enough for chats that are supposed to end in a sex date. If you don’t send a bodypic, you’ll quickly fall through the cracks.
In 2016, as is well known, naked pictures of Justin Bieber and Orlando Bloom appeared on the internet and Prince Harry also showed himself “nude”. As a result, “dick pic” became the most searched term on Google. Especially when it comes to otherwise unattainable men, one is naturally especially curious about the “plaything” between the legs.
Admittedly, there are penises that are less attractive, may curl, are slightly smaller than average or have a very long foreskin. The tastes are also different in the dick. But the appearance of the cock is really only a minor matter (at least for the author). It is always said that the eye eats with the dog, but if you like a person, the outer appearance of the best piece of meat should really take a back seat.
Dickpic – Well photographed is half the fucking
If you want to show off your best assets in an impressive way, first take photos in different positions. Ideally, you should use the self-timer so that you don’t have the camera or smartphone in your hand when taking photos. If you really want nice dick pics, just find a nude photographer, he will know how to show off your dick to its best advantage.
But you can also take nice dick photos at home. Lie down on the couch, position your camera or smartphone so that the best part of your dick is in full view, and shoot yourself until you’re ashamed. Most mobile phones or cameras have a video function. With the help of software, you can later select individual images and copy them out as dickpics so to speak.
Here are 10 tips to take successful photos:
- Take it slow. Don’t show your hard cock immediately, but start with silhouettes and varying degrees of stiffness. In other words, mimic what your penis would look like during the sexual act.
- Do not record your face at the same time. This protects you from having your (dick) pictures shown around by the receiving person, which is not appropriate. You never know.
- But don’t just show your penis, either. Show your cock in the context of your body to get a better size ratio.
- Try different perspectives/angles. With selfie cameras, you can do and try out a lot to put your horny cock in the best scene to make other guys’ mouths water.
- Light is everything. Right and good lighting of your photos and your cock are the be-all and end-all. No too dark rooms, but also no glaring, fluorescent light. Warm and flattering, please.
- Don’t forget the background. Nobody wants to see an uncluttered room, or even a loo – it only distracts from or spoils the sexual, ala “Eww, I don’t want to have sex in this bed”.
- Get consent/consent first. Timing is everything. Then, before you send the chosen masterpiece of your magnificence, ask the other person if they want this picture. Better safe than sorry!
Conclusion
Dr David Ley, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist, says in an article for Psychology Today, men send dick pics because they like getting such pictures themselves. They apply this logic to other people as well. Dr Ley explains: “Men love the idea of receiving such pictures from strangers, and they assume that women (author’s note: and of course men) do too”.
So if you are one of those men who like to send and receive dick pics, go ahead. Although not everyone likes to get dick pics from chat partners, they can be a door opener for your next horny sex date.
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