Have you ever been really horny, and almost every touch could have made you cum? But in the end your climax was delayed again and again, and you could hardly stand the excruciating lust? Welcome to the world of Tease & Denial, a hot practice that revolves around endless pleasure and the release of orgasm. Whether as an active or passive part – there are suitable techniques for practically everyone. Find out from us what you need to know for the “first time” and how you can manage not to simply fuck the tip of the sofa out of sheer lust.
No orgasm – power plays a horny role here
Fucking, fumbling, blowing and all that without cumming? What sounds like an unpleasant experience at first has some advantages in practice. As the active part, you take control of your lover, and that makes you pretty horny. Imagine that you’re stroking your palm, and he has to watch with wide eyes, but isn’t allowed to cum.
Are you passive? Even then, Tease & Denial is pretty cool, because your later reward makes the denial worthwhile. Have a look at the following five reasons, and you’ll know why it’s so cool to skip the orgasm.
Your climax will literally knock your socks off
Hold on to your socks, because when you’re finally allowed to cum after a long period of orgasmic abstinence, you’ll be blown away. Your lover has made you horny for hours or even days, but denied you release at the crucial moment. When the big moment comes, it feels like the ultimate release for you. Bet you’ve never cummed so deep before?
You decide when it’s time to squirt
Is your lover always ready faster than you? Are you annoyed that he comes, and you’re left behind? Then turn the game around and take on the dominant role. By acting as a teaser, you decide when he can relieve himself. You’ll have all the time in the world to fuck him and get yourself ready for an orgasm before you even think about his cream.
Tip: Make sure that the little quick squirter doesn’t fuck you. Men with excessive lust will eventually cum at the slightest touch. Maybe a penis will suit you. Cock in, lock closed, and he has no choice.
Share your arousal and increase your libido
How often you feel like having sex depends on numerous circumstances. Not every man has a huge libido, some are satisfied with a Sunday fuck once a week. Are you fed up with not having much sex yourself? Then Tease & Denial could permanently increase your arousal curve and your libido. You know it yourself: What you don’t get, you especially want to have. Of course, orgasms are no different. The more your man denies you it, the harder you’ll get for it.
Fuck yourselves from a distance without squirting
This painful longing for your lover when you’re in a long-distance relationship. Affected men know exactly what we’re talking about. Sure, there are toys for solo pleasure, but they can’t replace your lover. To ensure the anticipation of your next date, simply forbid each other from having an orgasm. Here, you are both victims of your lust and when you finally stand in front of each other, the clothes will be on the floor faster than you said “hello darling”.
Do you still need a few tips on how to make yourselves horny in the meantime? No problem, we’ve got them:
- Have kinky and uninhibited phone sex, just without a climax
- Send each other taboo dick picks to increase the anticipation
- Make up together what you want to do with each other
- Walk in front of the cam together and break it off before someone arrives
Just get a taste of the BDSM world
Have you been sneaking around the topic of BDSM like a snake around a rabbit? But you’re not really that confident? Hey, with Tease & Denial you can gently test whether you like the world of submission and dominance. You can cancel at any time, so there’s nothing wrong with giving it a try.
How to try Tease & Denial with your lover and alone
Got a taste for it? If you’re travelling solo, you can also try the horny orgasm ban on your own. There are different techniques for this, you can learn your favourite variant by “learning by doing”.
Stimulate and stop – good timing is important
Simply “not fucking” would be too boring. With this method, you continue to fuck, you blow him, and he jerks you off, but only until just before the climax. The same applies to solo sex. Instead of cumming, you stop at the latest when your balls contract, and you are about to come. Risk with this act: You’re too late! Sometimes you want to stop, but then you’re overcome by lust and let the cum out. Never mind, tomorrow is another day and then the hot game continues.
One step more – integrate bondage games
If your lover has both hands free, he can quickly jerk himself off to climax if he can’t take it any more. You can prevent this with handcuffs and other hot restraints. Tie his hands behind his back, tie him up as a package, and prevent him from getting to his cock in any way. That way, you’re really the king and have it in your hands if and when he’s allowed to squirt.
A little tip: Is he not behaving or getting mouthy? Then let him fidget even longer.
For professionals amazing– spoil his climax
You won’t get this one right the first time, because you’ll need a lot of finesse. The aim is to tease him past the point of no return, but then ruin his orgasm at the last moment. He may come, but he will not experience any satisfaction and will remain horny. How do you do that? With these tips:
- Stop stimulating him abruptly when his climax is unstoppable
- Slap him on the glans or testicles and interrupt the play with pain (only after consultation)
- Hold his cock closed and prevent his juice from leaking out
The technique takes a lot of practice. Don’t get frustrated if it doesn’t work straight away. At some point, you’ll know exactly when your climax or that of your lover is unstoppable. And then nothing will be able to stop you.
Aftercare – don’t neglect self-care
It’s not only damn cool, but also damn exhausting to walk around with a permanent erection and permanent horniness. When you’ve finished playing, take a little rest. Eat something, drink lots of water and retire to bed to cuddle. Aftercare is completely normal in the BDSM scene. Especially if one of you takes on the dominant role in a committed relationship, this is how you show your affection for each other.
Conclusion: Tease & Denial changes your sex life
Imagine you’re starving and every time you want to bite into a willingly held out roll, it’s pulled away. This is what Tease & Denial feels like for the passive part. As an active teaser, on the other hand, you enjoy the tingling feeling of power that you take on in this case. Whatever you decide to do, consciously preventing the climax can give you completely new experiences in bed.
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