Anal sex is a hot thing that both partners enjoy. From soft to hard, everything that pleases you is allowed. But what if anal sex mishaps happen? There are the wildest stories about what can happen while you’re lustfully making love to each other. We tell you what mishaps you can expect and how you can best react.
Tips for avoiding anal sex mishaps and reacting correctly: broken condom
You hear reports all the time that during anal sex, the condom tears for some reason and sperm gets into the ass of the bottom. Since this is ultimately unprotected sex, there is of course an increased risk of contracting HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases.
Although it is the first thought of those affected, you should refrain from using an anal douche in this situation. Although many believe that this can reduce the risk of infection, it has not yet been clearly proven whether flushing actually increases the risk of infection. Because flushing could possibly spread the pathogens even more widely. What you should do if you have a safer sex accident is to start PEP treatment.
Driving through the “Red Sea”
Seeing blood during anal sex is not normal, but it is not unusual either. Some sexual activities, such as fisting, or being fucked particularly deep and hard by a larger or longer penis, can cause slight tears in the rectal wall. Which can lead to minor bleeding.
For small amounts of blood that stop relatively quickly and do not cause any pain. You can usually stay calm and do not need to worry. However, if you feel pain and there is heavy, unending bleeding with a dark colour, you should see a doctor because you may need medical help.
This is how you can avoid accidents
Yes, the range of possible anal sex mishaps is wide. The condom can break, farts can make their way out and many a time, during anal sex, poo ends up on the cock of the person in the top position. But there are always ways and means to at least reduce the risk of such mishaps.
Don’t forget to douche
A healthy anal canal normally only contains faeces when the bowel is full. If you don’t feel the urge, there is usually no need to defecate. However, if you feel more comfortable or are expecting a deep encounter with a penis or hand (e.g. fisting), you can of course take a shower beforehand. However, you should only ever use clear, clean water at body temperature. Therefore, remember that showering (even just with water) can irritate the mucous membranes, making them more susceptible to infections, including HIV. You should avoid using antiseptics, disinfectants or other cleaning products in the shower. They can irritate the mucous membranes of the buttocks even more.
If you plan to get fucked, make sure you shower at least an hour before you let a cock fuck you. So you can go to the bathroom a few times to get rid of all the water before anal sex if needed.
Get rid of all – toilet before anal sex
If there is faeces in the anal canal, you will normally feel the need to go to the toilet. If anything enters your anal canal from the outside (a cock, a dildo or a finger), it automatically triggers the same sensory response that occurs when you need to go to the toilet for the “number 2”. The cause is the full anal canal, which causes the brain to react as if faeces were present. Even though this is not the case.
You can get used to this feeling and suppress the associated urge. But it can still be useful if you clear the aisle and go to the toilet before anal sex. If you feel a cock entering you, relax and consciously remind yourself that it’s OK. Your anal canal is full, but only with one cock.
Practice tip: If you actually get some poo on your cock as a top, or if you’re the one getting fucked, and you get poo on your partner’s cock, there’s no need to get upset. It’s natural and can happen. Just go to the toilet and clean up the mess. Of course, it is embarrassing and not a very pleasant experience. It often ruins the whole mood. Both partners should try to stay relaxed, take it with humour and, above all, be understanding of each other.
Condoms are a clean thing
Condoms not only prevent infection with sexually transmitted diseases and HIV. Many men also use them for reasons of hygiene. Even if they are in a relationship with the same HIV status, protect themselves with PrEP or are HIV-positive, they do not do without condoms during anal sex. The idea is clear. If you feel that your bowels are not empty, but you still want to be fucked, the condom is the tool that prevents faeces from getting onto your partner’s penis. If faeces gets into your anal canal during anal sex, it usually ends up on the condom, which can be easily removed and thrown away. The dick stays clean, and you don’t have to clean it.
Keyword Shigella: Shigella, or bacterial dysentery, is an infection transmitted through contact with faeces. Often during sexual activities like rimming, fisting, or using shared sex toys or anal showers. To prevent infection, wash hands regularly, use gloves during fisting, and condoms during anal sex. Avoid oral contact after unprotected anal sex. Symptoms include diarrhoea, fever, and abdominal pain, typically appearing within 12 to 96 hours. Seek medical attention if infected; antibiotics may be prescribed for severe cases. Recovery usually occurs within seven to ten days.
Stress/anxiety prevention can prevent anal sex mishaps
It is well known that there is a very close connection between the stomach and the nervous system. During stress, the body makes more water enter the intestines, which naturally stimulates bowel movements. However, this can be bad for sexual activity if the anticipation of exciting anal sex. And the pressure to present your sex partner with an externally and, above all, internally clean buttocks puts you under a lot of stress. The stool then becomes soft and may slide through your bowels more quickly. Which in turn can lead to anal sex accidents.
This is where easy tops are a good idea, because they give you the time you need to be ready for anal sex. They don’t let you get stressed out because of their understanding and even if something happens, like you fart or defecate while fucking, they stay cool and don’t take such mishaps too seriously, but pack them in humorously.
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