Gay sex is widespread. Many men are into tenderness during sex, love gentle massages or strokes for body, cock, balls or butt. But that doesn’t apply to everyone, because hardcore sex also has many fans. Have you ever had sex yourself where you got a good pounding? Or where you pushed your hard cock really hard and deep into your partner’s hole? Then you have already had some experience with hardcore sex. Gay porn often uses hardcore scenarios. So the viewer doesn’t get vanilla sex with cuddling and stroking, but horny sex where things get real and very often hard.
What is hardcore sex anyway?
You have probably heard the term mainly in connection with sex and/or corresponding sex films with reference to BDSM & Fetish. In which hardcore is now part of the normal linguistic usage. At first, it is only used to describe one extreme. For example, when one speaks of hardcore fans or hardcore athletes. This simply describes the fact that a fan or sportsman pursues his passion particularly intensively. In this respect, you can interpret hardcore sex as sex that is practised particularly passionately.
Normally, explicit sexual content is classified as “hardcore” while implied acts are called “softcore”. This rating also includes, for example, websites that feature models in sexually seductive or arousing poses. Considered by some to be a prime example of so-called soft-core pornography, such as Calvin Klein’s underwear commercials or some Abercrombie & Fitch ad campaigns.
Hardcore sex – pleasure & pain or dominance & submission
The passion for hardcore sex is very often found in men who are into BDSM. Those who prefer hardcore sex are not primarily interested in expressing deep feelings. But mostly in taking their sex partner hard and often dirty. An important element in this type of play is dominating the sex partner. Showing someone the ropes during sex, subduing them, playing with their boundaries between pleasure and pain. If you enjoy these things, you can live them out in hardcore sex.
If you have already had the pleasure of any kind of penetration, whether with a finger or a whole hand while fingering or fisting, with nice toys or even a hard cock, you have made acquaintance with the main criteria for hardcore sex.
In addition, the practice of hardcore sex is often much rougher than a classic sex date. It’s all about dominance, so it’s quite normal and desirable in this kind of sex that it doesn’t just remain a gentle slap on the passive partner’s bottom. Rather, toys from the S&M area, such as riding crops, paddles or even a belt are used to really spank a partner.
In the field of hardcore sex, demeaning of various kinds is also common practice. Putting your hands around your partner’s neck during a fuck or grabbing his hair during a doggystyle fuck are just as popular as slapping him or spitting on him. All these are signs that the other person has to submit. It is not his will that counts in sex, but only that of the one who takes the dominant role. In this way, the actors often live out the role play as master and serf.
Bareback – part of hardcore sex
Where sex is rough, it is not uncommon for condoms to be left out when fucking. Squirting cum in your partner’s face, throat or ass is practised as a form of sexual humiliation. At Chems or gangbang parties, it is not uncommon for the “bubble wrap” to be omitted. If you have a passion for hot, horny cum and love getting cum in your mouth or ass from different men, you should at least use PrEP prophylaxis to protect yourself
Also, not using lube and using spit as a substitute is common in hardcore sex among gays. Salivating all over the rosette is considered a derogatory act and is meant to show the passive sex partner who is the boss during sex. The saliva, however, is usually only used to stretch the most defenceless part with the tongue or fingers. Whether the hard fuck of an ass made slippery only with spit hurts the fucked person depends mainly on the amount of spit.
The best positions for hardcore fucking
Hardcore sex usually means that the active partner fucks the passive part not only for a long time, but also hard and deep. As you may remember, certain positions allow for extra deep penetration. These positions include, above all, fucking in:
- animalistic Doggystyle
- Missionary
- Spooning
- Cowboy/Reverse Cowboy
- Standing
- Pirate’s Bounty
- Bumper Cars
- Peach Parade
The first two positions are especially suitable for hardcore sex, because as a top you have a good grip on your partner. If you fuck him from behind, you can not only ram your hard cock (or a dildo or other anal toys) deep into his hole, but also grab him with your hands, put him in a headlock or make him happy in any other way.
Also in the missionary position you only have to push your partner’s legs wide apart, then fuck him especially deep and at the same time jerk off his cock until he cums under your violent thrusts and loud moans. In this position, you can easily get to his neck to make him even hornier by gently wringing it.
But please always be careful when you play with your partner in this way, so that the so-called breath control doesn’t go wrong. Here it can be useful to agree on a sign to indicate that enough is enough. Mutual trust is essential here to enjoy hot hardcore sex without ending up in hospital.
Deepthroat and facesitting as horny hardcore sex fantasies
A blowjob is a real dream for many men. Just the thought of their sex partner taking their hard cock in their mouth makes the best cock bulge. One step up is deep throat, where you ram your horny cock all the way down your partner’s throat, preferably until he starts to moan. To sink your cock even deeper into his throat, there are exciting aids such as deep throat sprays. Their slightly numbing effect allows you to fuck him deep down the throat. The perfect end to such a hardcore blowjob is when you cum deep down his throat – a truly awesome feeling.
An often practised method of humiliation in hardcore sex is facesitting. Apart from the fact that you demonstrate your superiority to your sex partner and take his breath away, he can also lick your hole underneath and make you horny.
Urin games during hardcore sex
Nothing is better at humiliating someone than pissing on them. If you’re into hard sex, you’ve probably experienced what’s called a “golden shower”. Many men like to urinate on someone’s body, face or mouth. Some even pee in their buttocks. Another form is scat, which is the enjoyment of faeces during sex play. Playing with “golden shower”, as urine is also often called, has its charms. Just give it a try. However, don’t forget to get some waterproof pads to protect the bed and other furnishings (e.g. the couch).
Boundaries in hardcoresex – First clarify, then fuck
Even if you get in touch with someone via chat, and you arrange to meet in real life to have hardcore sex with each other, it makes sense to clarify beforehand what each of you defines as hardcore and where you draw the boundaries. Everyone has different red lines, and you don’t want to have any unpleasant or even painful surprises.
Just tell your date beforehand quite openly what you like in the context of hardcore sex and what doesn’t work for you at all. It must be very clear to both of you where the limits of anal play, cock play or electro play are for the other. Once you have found the rules, there is nothing standing in the way of a hard assfuck with or without a rubber, a proper spanking or a deepthroat with plenty of cum deep in the throat of the blowjob.
If you haven’t experienced hardcore sex before, but would like to try it, it’s a good idea to slowly test your limits, try out many things and see which hardcore games turn you on most.
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