The term fisting – or fisting, from the English term “Fist” – is probably known to everyone by now (source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisting). Fisting is widespread among gays, and the feeling of a fist in the ass makes many a guy squirt. But what if you don’t have a lover right now and don’t want to get it on with your closest party friend? With solo fisting, you not only have a trusted person by your side (yourself), but you can get to grips with the best technique at your leisure. But can it work? Are your arms really long enough to shove your fist up your ass? We’ll tell you some cool tips and tricks.
Find the right position – so you can get your fist in without any problems
Your arms are too short to really get your fist up your ass? Not if your arms are at least proportionate to your body. All you need is the right position. Here’s a small selection of how it can work:
- Lying on your side: A comfortable position for fisting is lying on your side. See if you can get your hands close to the back of your buttocks and bring your fist in.
- In the prone position: An alternative is the prone position with the legs stretched upwards. If you put a pillow under your back, your back will be raised and the distance will be bridged.
- In doggy position: With long arms, the doggy position could be an option for you. It is important that you do not stretch your bottom upwards, but keep it relatively flat. However, this position requires a lot of flexibility and does not work for everyone.
If your arms are too short – the right sex toys for fisting yourself
You need a certain amount of flexibility to push an entire hand into your rectum. Depending on the length of the session, this can quickly put a strain on your wrist and become uncomfortable. The much easier alternative is solo fisting with the help of a fisting dildo. These hot toys are available in different sizes, from small to XXL. If you want authentic sensations, choose a dildo in the shape of a fist or hand. This way, it feels like your lover is pushing his fist into your rosette.
A little tip: Free fisting is also possible if you choose a dildo with a suction cup. It sticks optimally to smooth surfaces, and you can practically sit on your fist when squatting.
You are just starting out and monster fists scare you? To prepare your asshole for the next fist fuck from your lover, a fisting plug is an awesome tool. Wear it comfortably in everyday life or give yourself that extra kick while jerking off. Plugs like this will slowly get your anus used to the big stretch, and you’ll have even more fun fisting.
Preparation – what you need for solo fisting
Whether with your own fist or a dildo, preparation is the be-all and end-all for the soloist. Get the right equipment beforehand, because improvising will only spoil your fun. Here is a short list of the things you need for a great evening.
- Be relaxed: With a relax spray, you can help yourself relax and make your sphincter easier to penetrate. For some gays, solo fisting is even more difficult, as you have to struggle to push your fist further. If you are not in pain and are relaxed, it is easier.
- Be slippery: Never fist without slippery gel is the rule of thumb that you can’t ignore when fisting. Use a special fisting gel because it lasts longer and gives you the smoothness you need. If you combine it with a dildo, make sure it’s compatible.
- Please wear gloves: Safety first, that also applies to fisting. Although you cannot infect yourself with STIs, it is still possible to transmit germs. Gloves protect your hands (possibly open wounds) and the sensitive anal mucosa. They are also easy to rub in and increase lubrication.
- Relaxation poppers: Special fist poppers are a popular way to help you relax. Only use them if you can ask someone else for help at any time. Poppers can cause dizziness and blood pressure drops under certain circumstances, so you should not be alone in the house.
Why should I do it at all? What makes gays so horny about self-fisting?
You are jealous of fisting experiences you have heard about? Or maybe you’re wondering what the point of the whole thing is. After all, fisting is a deep and intense experience in partnerships, as it requires a lot of trust. Fisting yourself has a few advantages that are popular with many gays.
One of them, for example, is that you can try fisting on your own. If you have never done it with someone else, you can find out if you really like it. With hot fisting toys, you can even recreate the later number with the lover quite accurately.
Self-fisting can also make sense for anatomical reasons. The sphincter muscle can be prepared to take on larger volumes without difficulty. By stretching regularly (for example with plugs or solo fisting), you can make sure you’re in good shape back there when your next fuck wants to take your ass for a ride.
In the end, for most gay men, it is simply a very intense experience to feel your whole fist up your own ass. You alone decide how far you go, whether you use a masturbator on the side or simply jerk off your cock. If pure masturbation is too boring for you, self-fisting can contribute to more variety in bed.
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