Are you interested in fisting and find it highly erotic to feel not just a cock inside you, but a whole fist? Fisting is an erotic art that needs to be learnt, because ultimately it’s about sexual arousal, but also about the health of the recipient when fisting. You can find out how to use your fist properly when fisting by simply reading on.
Fisting requires mutual desire
The most important information first, because otherwise you’ll wonder why your fist doesn’t give the person you’re fisting any pleasure. An essential prerequisite for fisting is that both parties really want it. It is often the case that the active partner struggles to give the recipient a lot of fun with their fingers and fist and then fails.
Despite their best efforts, the fist doesn’t want to go where it belongs when fisting. For this to work, both partners need to be willing and have a great deal of trust, because after all, as an active fister, you are penetrating deep into your partner’s body with your hand or even part of your arm. He has to be completely relaxed and let himself go, which he can only do if he has a lot of trust in you and can assume that you will proceed carefully and not hurt him.
The fist when fisting
If you want to fist your partner, you should never try to push your fist into his anus as such; this can only go wrong and is probably extremely painful for him. When fisting, you should work your way in with your fingers and insert them slowly and, above all, one after the other. This will allow his sphincter to stretch and get used to what’s to come later. Insert your fingers outstretched and slowly one after the other.
At some point, you will probably succeed in inserting the ball of your hand so that your whole hand is now inside your partner. Only now should you try to clench your hand into a fist. As it is now behind the sphincter, this should actually work. Always pay attention to your partner in everything you do.
Fisting should cause as little pain as possible. The moment the ball and knuckles pass the sphincter, it may feel uncomfortable for a moment, but afterwards it should be more pleasurable than painful for the recipient. Fisting is therefore initially more finger work and not immediately hot hand work. Especially as a beginner when it comes to fisting, you’ll need a lot of practice, but that shouldn’t be a problem if your partner is just as keen on fisting. It’s best to explore the world of fisting together, it’s really fun.
Preparation is everything!
Of course, when it comes to fisting, good preparation also goes a long way towards ensuring that both of you are completely relaxed about the whole thing. If you are the active part, you should get suitable gloves for fisting. These can be disposable PVC gloves, fisting latex gloves or even stimulator silicone gloves with differently profiled surfaces – there’s nothing that doesn’t exist.
To ensure that the gloves remain intact during fisting and that you don’t injure your partner, it’s important to keep your fingernails trimmed short. Long claws can tear the gloves or cause injuries to the intestinal mucosa. Go for a manicure before fisting, or simply trim your nails yourself. However, don’t cut your nails directly on the day of the session, as freshly cut nails can be very sharp. It’s better to cut your nails one or two days before your fisting appointment.
Although it is not absolutely necessary, it can be useful if you regularly moisturise your hands and keep them nice and smooth. This is especially true if you don’t want to wear gloves when fisting in order to enjoy direct skin contact. In this case, soft, delicate skin is much more pleasant than rough and cracked hands. You may use a lot of lubricants suitable for fisting, some of which can even have a slightly anaesthetic effect, but well-groomed, soft hands and forearms never hurt.
It can also be helpful to shave your arms if they are very hairy. This makes insertion easier if you are not using gloves. Incidentally, wearing gloves creates stronger frictional forces, which makes it more difficult for you to insert your hand or fist. You can compensate for this with a good amount of lubricant.
Health tip: You should wash your hands and forearms thoroughly with a pH-neutral soap immediately before fisting. This will reduce the risk of any bacteria or germs ending up in your partner when fisting (especially without gloves). Health should always be the top priority when fisting.
By the way, the passive part of fisting should shave their buttocks clean because hair on the anus is extremely annoying during fisting as it causes an unpleasant pulling sensation. It is also advisable to have as deep an enema as possible before fisting, because faeces on the fist are not so nice. Some bottoms also take laxatives before a fisting session to thoroughly cleanse the bowels and prepare themselves well for the hot and deep fun.
It can also be helpful to avoid greasy meals the days before the event and eat lots of vegetables. If something does end up on your gloves or bare fist, don’t worry, it’s all natural and easy to wash off. There is no one hundred per cent guarantee that everything will always be spotless and without ‘accidents’ when fisting.
Which lubricant for fisting with a fist?
The hand or fist is a decent size, which raises the question of which lubricant is best suited to making it slippery enough to penetrate your partner without causing them pain. You need a lot of lube for fisting. For this reason, many fans of this type of play resort to lubricants that come in powder form and that you have to mix with water. The big advantage of such lubricants is that you can determine the result yourself. You can make it more watery or more solid, just as it seems best for your fist and your partner’s anus. Lubricants in powder form are often more slippery and also cheaper than classic lubricants.
Wondering how to store your homemade personal lubricant? As you usually need a lot of lubricant when fisting, you should store your lubricant in a bottle that is not too small, otherwise it will run out too quickly. You should also pour it into a bottle that is easy to fill, easy to close and easy to replace. This way, the homemade lubricant remains hygienically packaged and is quickly to hand.
Poppers for even more fisting pleasure
Poppers are not only known to have a relaxing effect, which can help you to feel less pain when penetrating with your fist and stay as relaxed as possible. Poppers also increase the sensation of pleasure, which can also be helpful when fisting. It’s a good thing that there are now special fist poppers that have a particularly strong effect and promise a particularly hot experience.
So that everything stays (as) clean as possible
If your fist, your hand or huge fist toys end up in your partner’s bum while fisting, there are often minor ‘messes’ to deal with. Lube, sperm and other bodily fluids simply leave their mark. To protect the bed, couch or floor, there are large, usually waterproof or at least water-repellent underlays made of PVC. Thanks to these aids, fisting with a fist or toy is a clean affair, and you don’t have to clean the whole room afterwards.
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