As they say, preparation for anal sex is everything! What is true in many other areas is also important when it comes to planning for anal sex. Because only with the right preparation will you have a lot of fun during anal sex. Regardless of whether you are the passive part or the active partner. Here, you can find out how to prepare for anal sex and what to look out for.
Hygiene before anal sex: so that everything is clean
Probably, only very few men want to be confronted with dirty facts during sex. Especially gay anal sex should be clean. Just as cleanliness is one of the prerequisites for a hot sexual adventure, it is especially essential when it comes to ass fucking. After all, anal sex is about penetrating the anus of the passive partner with a cock. Or even an anal plug or dildo to stimulate and satisfy him.
However, the anus and everything that comes after it is not originally intended to ingest anything. But to dispose of the remains of food. Therefore, before anal intercourse, it is essential to clean yourself externally as well as internally. To clean the outside of the buttocks, damp sanitary towels for the intimate area are sufficient. For proper cleaning on the inside, a little more effort is needed. So-called anal showers are helpful, as they allow you to spotless the area directly behind the shoots.
Such anal showers can be used to cleanse the area directly behind the shoots.
Anal douches can be used with a shower head or with a reservoir that can be filled with water. Simply apply lubricant to the flexible device and gently insert it into the anus. The water is then introduced either through the shower or by squeezing the reservoir until slight pressure is created. After a few repetitions on the toilet, the water is expelled again to remove all impurities.
Shaving the buttocks can also be part of the preparation for anal intercourse. A smooth anus is easier to clean and avoids unpleasant hairs in the mouth of the active partner during licking. It is advisable to shave carefully, as the skin in the anal area is particularly sensitive and has wrinkles that should be pulled apart before shaving.
Expanding the anus before anal sex: well stretched is half fucked
The most thorough cleaning is in vain if the passive partner is so tense at the crucial point during anal sex that the active partner can’t manage to penetrate him with finger, cock or dildo. To ensure that the fun doesn’t end before it even begins, an extensive sphincter stretch is necessary as a preparatory measure. This anal sex preparation doesn’t have to be unpleasant at all. But can even be an extremely horny prelude to the actual intended fucking.
You can enjoy it together after the “cleansing ritual”. First, your partner can rim you extensively, i.e. caress and moisten your anus with his tongue. Then he gently penetrates you with his finger (or later with several) and makes sure that your sphincter muscles get used to the resistance and relax. You can also use muscle-relaxing anal sprays to make penetration even easier.
An equally hot and helpful method is for your active partner to start penetrating you with small dildos, stretching the sphincter muscles more and more. It’s best to start with smaller sizes. After relaxing to that, work your way up to giant dildos if that’s what you like as the passive part. If you want more, get ready for anal sex with fisting dildos.
How does the active partner prepare for anal sex?
The active partner has a little less work than you in the passive role. But he can also contribute something to the success. Like the passive part, the top should also clean his best piece properly before anal sex. To make sure that he does not smell unpleasant around the bottom. Because sex always involves a great deal of physical nudity, it’s a good idea to at least take a shower before making love.
As we all know that the eye eats with the body, it might be a good idea to get the best piece of ass in shape. For many men, shaving the balls and the entire intimate area makes the cock much more attractive. Compared to a thickly growing jungle of hair. You don’t have to remove the hair completely. Just trimming it ensures that the passive partner doesn’t always have hair in his mouth during an extensive blowjob as fuck preparation of the best part.
What do you wear during anal sex?
You can make wonderful, very horny anal intercourse even more stimulating by “covering up” in advance according to the occasion, at least more or less. To prepare for an unforgettable anal sex session, you can buy appropriate sexy wear. If you are the passive part, so-called jockstraps with an unobstructed view of your willing buttocks are a suitable and practical choice. For the particularly brave, there are even straps with LED lighting. If you want to signal your readiness for sexual adventures at a gay rave party, for example.
The active person can also show off their best assets with sexy underwear. Tight-fitting briefs, which nevertheless cover everything, whet the appetite for more and are the eye-catcher when the opponent starts to remove all hindering hulls. Even beyond the underwear, a nice outfit is always suitable for increasing the other person’s desire in advance. And making someone change out of fashionable clothes is more fun for most people than ridding the other person of any old clothes. Depending on your interest, fetish clothes can also help to heighten the anticipation.
Anal sex location-preparation can increase pleasure
When it comes to your first planned anal sex, you should not only think about who you want to have it with, but also where you want to get fucked. For beginners, it might make sense to choose a quiet and comfortable place and prepare it as well as possible. This does not only mean suitable lighting and music. Providing lube, condoms, tissues, poppers or sex toys can also make for a much more relaxed environment. Because you won’t have to keep looking for anything later on during your sex play.
Later, when you have more experience, you can also have anal sex in different locations. Some people find it very stimulating to have anal sex in places where they can be observed. Such as motorway service areas or car parks, or in parks or swimming pool changing rooms. But even here, anal sex needs preparation, because you should always be on the lookout for unpleasant surprises. For example, in the form of overly intrusive onlookers or sudden police checks.
Health as an important aspect of anal sex preparation
In the preparation for anal intercourse, it is always important to consider the health aspect. After all, this type of play involves inserting a foreign body, be it a cock or a sex toy, into a body cavity that is not intended for this purpose. Ultimately, anal sex can lead to the exchange of body fluids such as saliva or semen. In rare cases, blood can also flow if the active partner has injured his or her cock while shaving before sex.
Whenever there is contact between body fluids and mucous membranes, sexually transmitted diseases can be passed on. Besides HIV, syphilis or hepatitis, these can also be gonorrhoea, genital warts or similar. In order to protect yourself as best as possible during anal sex with strangers, getting condoms should definitely be on your to-do list before a date with planning an Ass fuck. If you want to have anal sex with your steady partner, you can decide together if you want to use condoms or if it’s okay for both of you if the anal sex is bareback and the passive partner wants to take in their partner’s sperm.
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