You can make good sex resolutions for the next year, not only for work or dealing with your family. That goes also for sex. If you look back at the past year, you will quickly notice where things may have gone wrong in terms of sex and where things may not have gone as you had imagined. To have even more fun next year and to get your money’s worth, just make a few good sex plans. Make a list of things about sex that you would like to do differently or try out. Here are a few “stimulating” ideas.
8 good sex resolutions
Always with the right partner
In order to not only create a list of horny ideas for the next year, but also to work through them, it is of course necessary to have the right partner. If you are in a relationship, of course you have to talk to your loved one. Because he may not like everything on your list. This requires openness from both of you. Only then can you try out new sex games as a couple and hopefully enjoy them. It’s a little easier if you’re single. In this case, you can actively search for the right partner(s) with the same intentions on their list.
Role play wanted
We humans always and everywhere have a role to play. Or see ourselves in such a role and feel comfortable with it. This is also true when it comes to sex. Who doesn’t know the division into top or bottom, master and slave, dominance and submissiveness? Maybe you’ve been dreaming about slipping into one or the other role for a long time and seeing how it feels.
Roleplay means a temporary change of perspective, often in connection with sexual experiences. Have you ever dreamt as a teenager that the German teacher on the teacher’s desk would give you a good spanking? Just give it a try. However, your partner has to play along too. Or you have to find someone who likes this kind of roleplay as well.
With the right ambience and clothing, you’ll be sitting in the classroom in a school uniform in no time at all. And because you haven’t been good, it’s detention with a special kind of punishment. Get a good spanking before the teacher gives you a good spanking with his best piece of equipment.
Roleplay comes in as many varieties as there are men. The famous doctor games or puppy play, which often goes beyond sex, are also popular. Just think about what role you have always wanted to play.
Sex in unusual places
When taking a break in a motorway car park or rest area, have you ever had the pleasurable thought of having sex there. Perhaps even having others watch you? Or maybe you had the idea of doing it with your partner in a changing room in a department store or in a public park? Then write on your list of things you would like to try in the next year that you would like to have sex in unusual places.
For many, the thought of having sex in busy, publicly accessible places is extremely appealing. Because in addition to the pleasure, there is also a huge thrill that whips adrenaline through your willing body. Ultimately, there is always the risk that you will be rudely disturbed during the most beautiful pastime in the world. You have to plan such an action well, because sex is of course not allowed everywhere. Quickly put on clothes or easily stowable sex toys make things much easier.
It’s also always a matter of making sure that you don’t enjoy yourself in front of children or underage youngsters, of all people, and potentially make yourself liable to prosecution. Just start with more secluded places like a nudist beach, a quarry pond or a less frequented park. It doesn’t have to be wild fucking right away. Just start with a blowjob for your lover or for your best playmate and work your way up to even hornier types of play. Later, you can also use more appealing places like public toilets, indoor swimming pool changing rooms or even the fitting room in the department stores’ for a horny session with lots of poppers.
More or less sex
Have you felt your cock or bum being used too much in the last few months? Do you feel sexually exhausted from the regular sex parties, gangbangs or other activities? Then just make a resolution to take it easier sexually in the next year. And give your butt and cock a break more often. In this way, body and head can rest and also develop new fantasies.
Do you feel sexually underchallenged and would like to have more sex? Then more sex must be on your list of good sex resolutions. Make a resolution to go out more often, get to know the LGBTQI community even better. For example, in chic, occasion-related fashion, make contacts and meet horny men. This will (hopefully) almost automatically result in new sex contacts. And finally, there is nothing like a stimulating one-night stand where you can live out your imagination and get what you need, namely more sex.
A nice threesome
What is always on the sexual wish list of many couples is a “threesome” with a known, friend or stranger. Talk to your partner and if you notice that he is also interested in such an experience, you can look for suitable candidates on dating portals such as Grindr, Gayromeo, Hornet and others that you both like.
Before you start such an adventure in the new year, clarify for yourselves what is possible and what is undesirable. Who should/can fuck whom, are nice toys like dildos or butt plugs for deep anal play desired during sex, and what about kissing or condoms? The clearer you are about these things, the easier it will be to communicate them to the third party later on.
Sex resolutions: 4 at once
You are single and would like to play the fifth wheel, maybe get used by two couples at the same time? Then put this wish on the to-do list for next year. For such a group session to really be a horny experience, it needs a homogeneous group of people who maybe even know each other and know what each other likes during sex.
One possibility for such experiences are swingers’ clubs that are open to homosexuals or especially geared towards them. Also, in BDSM clubs, there is a great chance that you as an individual can be integrated into a group. Let yourself go and be fucked from the front and/or the back. In clubs, you will often find playrooms with appropriate equipment such as slings, rodeo fuck machines, rim or kink seats or St. Andrew’s cross. Friends of BDSM always get their money’s worth here during group sessions.
Sex in front of a cam
You like to present yourself in front of others? Then your list for the next year should definitely include sex in front of a cam. If you have a partner, you can do it together in front of the cam. And show the viewers what hot sex looks like. If you are single, you can of course also enjoy yourself alone in front of your hopefully numerous viewers.
Make the cam show a real event with sexy clothes and a nice place. It doesn’t always have to be the bedroom, e.g. in the bathtub or on the big couch. Use yourself extensively, using good lube when playing with your best rod or fingering your freshly shaved hole. Put on a real show for those watching you have sex with yourself or with your partner.
If you want to, you can even make money having sex in front of a cam. Various platforms offer ways to earn money. Turn sex in front of others into a nice extra income. If you want to remain unrecognised for fear of reprisals, work with masks, you never know who is watching.
Electrifying sex
You’d like to have the tingling experience people talk about who are into electro play? Then put the theme of electro play on your wish list and get yourself some toys like electric butt plugs, electronic penis rings or masturbators. There are also electric scrotum stimulators that make you tingle and give you an even better orgasm.
Turning on Electro Play takes a little practice, and you should always start slowly at the lower end of the intensity scale. Over time, you can increase the intensity according to your mood and well-being. You can start to realise your desire by, for example, giving yourself a first of these sex toys for Christmas. The question is, however, whether you should check off this item on your list in the new year.
Spanking
The line between pleasure and pain is notoriously fluid. Maybe you’ve already experienced someone slapping your butt, which left you with a stitch in your pants. Then put Spanking on your wish list of things to try next year.
Originally, spanking is a form of punishment in the context of child-rearing and is therefore actually corporal punishment. In sexual spanking, the stimulus is to sexually arouse someone with slaps on the clothed or naked buttocks, thighs, thighs or the so-called external sexual organs (i.e. cock and balls). The strokes can be performed with special spanking sex toys.
The trick with this type of play is to find the exact line between pleasure and pain as the active part. Many report that spanking stimulates them so much that they cum without having sex and experience a mega orgasm. The most important prerequisite for experiencing spanking as a sexual stimulus is consent between the one who is spanking and the one who is being spanked. If the active part knows what is allowed and what is not wanted, nothing stands in the way of a hot spanking.
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