Sex is a huge field to let off steam and try things out. You have your favourites and routines, but what to do when things get a bit lukewarm?! Here are a few ideas and suggestions for your sex enhancer, and everything that goes with it, even more awesome!
Shaving as sex enhancer
May sound silly if you haven’t tried it yet, but shaving is not only sexy in consequence (bare skin, better and neater look, greater effect), but has a certain appeal in itself. Don’t believe it? Try it out! Wet your cock and balls (warm water is nicer), put some shaving foam on them and massage them in. Ah, now you’re starting to understand, huh? Now slowly scrape the ball sack and cock free with a common wet razor (a movable blade is better than a stiff disposable razor). Yummy, huh? And when he stretches his head, you know what he wants. Beard trimmers and dry shavers are less tasty. The vibration may be erotic, but the skin down there is too sensitive for the sharp scissors. The risk of injury is high, and if you’re not into blood, undoubtedly you won’t get much pleasure out of it.
Creams & Gels
For some time now, lubricants have been on the market that induce special sensations on the tail by adding active ingredients. Particular attention is paid to pre-timed temperature sensations, so-called warming effects (which some cocks, however, also like to perceive as cooling…). This surprising temperature sensation leads to your attention being focused on your cock. Especially gels and creams with mint (for example Max Size Cream by Swiss Navy) are very tasty.
Keep your cucumber warm for hours afterwards, and make it smell like a peppermint stick when you pee. There are also lubricants that contain muscle-relaxing additives so that getting fucked works better (pain-free), while that is of little help when wanking, unless you need to quickly hide your secretly bought dildo. Different delay sprays, such as the S8 Delay Penis Gel or our XXX Longer, can have pleasant and surprising sex enhancer and give you a whole new wanking experience.
If you want to try it out without investing, you can go to your esoteric sister and “borrow” some essential oils: Cinnamon = hot;, camphor = icy, clove, numb… But please always mix only one or very few drops in your hand with lubricant, never directly on the cock – at least you can’t claim later that we didn’t warn you. If need be, just chew up a Fischermans and spit on the cock. Yeepeeh! The best thing is to aim directly into the piss eye – if it burns too much, you are clearly too weak.
Vacuumpump
Enlarge your cock? A dream that many men dream have. With vacuum pumps, this is possible, at least to a certain extent. But they do even more: they make you horny. And that is what this is all about. The tissue fluid that is sucked into the cock and balls also makes the genitals heavy and spongy, therefore increasing their sensitivity. Shave around the base of the suction cylinder to ensure better tightness. It is best to warm the entire abdomen, but at least the tail and balls, to increase blood flow, then lubricate the entire tail and the edge of the cylinder with plenty of lubricant (it rubs against the cylinder when it expands), attach it and suck out the air.
First, the cock inflates to the size it usually reaches just before orgasm. Then the piss hole opens, and the cock begins to tingle. The foreskin swells (if you have one), as does the tissue at the base of the dick, which presses on the prostate (G-spot), expelling pre-cum and releasing the lubricated pumpers high. Further negative pressure causes the flesh around the piss hole to bulge, pushing lymphatic fluid into the foreskin and making it extremely thick. It is important to stay in a state of 50% – 70% arousal all the time to ensure the necessary blood flow. Porn magazines or videos help with this. Horny guys do too, of course.
Whoever demands too much from his noodle will provoke unpleasant swellings and bruises. In the beginning, you should not pump it for longer than 30 minutes and take long breaks between uses.
Jerking off after pumping up is insanely cool, but it can damage the ultra-dense blood vessels of the erectile tissue. Therefore, if at all, you should noodle carefully with skin-soothing lotion (calendula, arnica ointment).
Purchasing advice for pumps
- Buy a pump that is appropriate for your tail size. Swellers are not balloons! And don’t forget: The bigger the cylinder, the more vacuum must be built up.
- Budget devices have a simpler construction, which means: lower vacuum, sweat, unhandiness, lack of durability.
- One-handed operation is easier than two-handed operation.
- A detachable pump makes it easier to carry the cylinder.
- Costs from 25 euros, elaborate machines are also available for 200 euros. Computer-assisted devices with penis extenders cost many times that amount.
- Sets with dildo and cock ring etc. are considerably cheaper than each part separately.
- If you need it for enlargement purposes because you suffer from a too small dick, talk to a good urologist. Sometimes even the health insurance will pay for it.
Nippleplay
In other articles, we’ve already talked about how nipples are wonderful pleasure buttons because they release oxytocin when stimulated. And that makes you happy, as you can see from the faces of the men who are sucking right now. The harder the game, the more hormones. So here goes the sex enhancer. For one thing, you can also pump up your nipples wonderfully. Easiest and cheapest with disposable syringes. No, you can leave the smelling salts in, we only need the plastic part of the syringes and not the cannulas.
You can get them from your good nurse friend or over the internet. Provide them in the diameter of your areola (transition from red to white skin). Cut off the front part and file it round. Then lubricate your tits with lube (for a better seal), attach the syringe and pull out the plunger until the desired stretch is achieved. This way you can comfortably walk around the flat for a long time. Afterwards, they are not only a good bit bigger, but also more sensitive.
New sensation with clips and piercings
While nipple clamps can be used here, the bite is difficult to regulate, so it’s best to buy professional nipple clips. It’s best to buy a pair that is (or can be) connected to a chain so that you can stimulate both nipples at the same time during solo play, because simply pinching them shut is not very promising.
Piercings are for many only initially a pleasure. Later, they serve at best to hang weights on them or to provide connection points for electric toys (see article). Why some people pour wax over themselves is explained below. And if you don’t like being stroked enough, but don’t have any teeth available, you can rummage in your toolbox for a pair of pliers – *yelp!* Extremists put on castration rings (from the veterinary trade).
Unusual sex enhancer
If you are aroused by things that at first sight have little to do with sex, for example materials like shower curtains or velvet (shoes, manhole covers, exhaust pipes), don’t let it bother you. This is called »having a fetish«, and it is only difficult if others or yourself are harmed by it or if you can no longer get horny without these things. The same applies if you feel the need to do unusual things while wanking, such as dressing up as a nurse or wearing nappies. It’s called kinky. Don’t be ashamed of yourself, there’s no need to feel weird about it, just enjoy your charms, but remember that when you have sex with others, some people might get upset. You shouldn’t surprise anyone with extreme preferences, and you certainly shouldn’t expect others to be as aroused by them.
Auto-erotic air strangulation
What has gained dubious notoriety at the latest since Six feet under is the practice of cutting off one’s air while wanking, because a lack of oxygen supply intensifies the feeling of orgasm. Some achieve mastery by hanging themselves from bedposts or fitness equipment and jerking off in the process. Critical sex enhancer intensifier and disastrous in the truest sense of the word is the aftermath. You have to develop a technique so that the suspension releases automatically after orgasm. This has not only led to the premature demise of Six feet under, but also famous musicians and a whole host of other people have died in this way (allegedly 100 deaths a year). And just think how stupid you’ll look when you’re found!
So no instructions here, just a recommendation: if you want to try it, get someone who has experience and whom you can trust to choke you. Otherwise: FORGET IT!!!
CBT as sex enhancer
CBT (Cock Torture & Ball Torture) is the generic term for a range of cock and ball games, which we will refer to here as CBP (Cock & Ball Play). CBP is high on the list. What, you don’t believe that? Well, you don’t always have to imagine the things being grilled. Although…
Foreskin
For many, it gets in the way. In other countries, the foreskin ca be labelled as ugly and therefore wished away. The circumcised Americans, on the other hand, think foreskins are great, even fetishise them, as a sex enhancer. Anyway, if you still have yours, consider yourself lucky, because many people who have had their foreskin completely cut off can no longer wank without lubricant.
They even run around in the sauna with a tube. You can also pull your foreskin back a bit more when you jerk off, so that it hurts a bit, or pull it apart. Some tie it so that it inflates when you cum (provided you manage to cum without jerking off, see Persian-Indian technique). And if you’re one of the lucky pre-juice producers, you can slide a finger under your foreskin and smear on the hot goo to stimulate the glans. Dry cocks can, of course, use lubricants to help.
Spanking
To warm up, you can give your quivering cock a few side strokes and see how it feels. Or does it prefer to be pulled or twisted? If he likes burning strokes, you should follow up with mini-paddles (a kind of leather flyswatter).
Urethral fuck
Contrary to persistent prejudice, the urethra is by no means a one-way street, because insertion is also one of the great pleasures at the front. But please be careful. No wood (splinters)! No plastic (can break)! Surgical dilators – rounded, slightly curved rods made of steel – are available in various diameters and are ideal for sounding. Start with a maximum of five millimetres, clean well, apply lubricant and holla … slowly insert. Don’t forget to add lubricant! A “dry” urethra can cause irritation, bleeding, pain and scarring (which can also be cool, but not if you need to open it up surgically).
You should take particular care when pushing through to the bladder (sphincter) – if you get that far at all. Of course, you can also use a catheter: Rubber is warmer, more flexible, the things are longer, and you can follow up with piss control games. There’s also this little bellows for anchoring the catheter, which you can of course inflate before it… ouch! Oh yes, after the urethral fuck the pee usually stings quite a bit. Also cool.
Urethral vibrator as sex enhancer
A nice enhancement to this game is a urethral vibrator (diameter six millimetres); this little metal piece will not only make your cock quiver, but your whole body. Guaranteed!
Diabolo
Metal tube anchored through the hole of a Prince Albert piercing in the urinary tube. A closed lid ensures urinary retention, oh how painful. And of course you can attach an electrode (see electro).
Pulling
Testis aren’t actually all that sensitive. They register pressure and traction – which can be felt deep into the abdominal region – and the rest of the gallery of sensations is taken over by the scrotum. A positive side effect of ball play with testicle weights: attention is drawn to the centre of the body. Stroke your hand gently but firmly along the sac. Gently squeeze the balls and, depending on the position, pull them backwards between the legs. You may even find it pleasurable to twist the sack. But be careful, a testicular torsion (abnormal twisting of an testi) is extremely painful, even life-threatening.
Hitting
Eggs can be beaten gently, for example with a pen or with leather paddles, which are now available as key attachments. Of course, a quick hand can also do the trick as a sex enhancer. A fly swatter is suitable for larger cases. A fly swatter is suitable for larger cases.
Baseball bat
Ribbing creates warmth: Hold the bag like the knob of a baseball bat, then rub it with the tip of your shirt or, if available, with the soft side of a Velcro fastener. Tickling (with feathers and the like) provides variety, and that’s what counts.
Harness
You can also strap on a harness, which can be a cock ring and egg clamp at the same time. Weights can be attached to it very easily. If you don’t have any at hand, a boot will do. You can also lace your sack with clothes pegs until it looks like a hedgehog. We will talk about wax, acupuncture needles and electric games in later articles.
Trouser suspenders
Extreme pinching is achieved with a trouser tensioner: either just the foreskin or the cock, or cock and balls together – that’s pretty damn tight. This device has the advantage that it can be found in almost every male household, and that you can also attach all kinds of things to it, such as weights or a fancy Christmas bauble (we joke). Always make sure that you don’t completely disconnect important things. If your genitals have already turned black or dropped to the floor with a loud plop, you’ve waited too long.
Bondage as a sex enhancer
The art of wrapping individual body parts with ropes is called »bondätsch«. As a soloist, you can enjoy the aesthetics and sensations (pressure, tightness, throbbing veins, plump skin) of a bound cock or tied balls or nipples. It’s not just the result that’s horny, but the act of being tied up. Beginners should not play alone, but ask an experienced practitioner to supervise. In the beginning, use only soft material that is at least five millimetres in diameter, because thicker material can damage blood vessels and nerves.
Proceed slowly and, above all, carefully. Make sure you can remove the knots quickly, because: After orgasm, many things that were super-horny before are no longer possible. Blood flow also decreases rapidly. When you have tied yourself up, play with the bound genitals. The protruding eggs are more sensitive to stroking, rubbing, hitting; they like to be splashed with alcohol or peed on. Only when you have developed a feel for this practice and gained experience, venture into thinner material, silver wire (very chic!) and weave tight harnesses around your genitals.
Enemas
From a medical point of view, liquids are put into the intestine to cleanse it or to utilise its ability for rapid absorption so that medication can be absorbed more quickly by the body. Small quantities (suppositories) are hardly noticeable, but larger quantities (500 ml or more) are, usually rather unpleasant. And that can be the thrill of it. The bowel contracts in order to expel the “foreign body” and you have to “fight” against it. Some people feel very comfortable in this tension; it gives the wanking a special flavour.
There’s no harm in trying it out. At the latest when you want to “delve” into anal pleasures, you should learn how a colonic irrigation with an enema works anyway. Devices as sex enhancer are available in sex shops or specialised sanitary shops. Experienced users simply unscrew the shower head. The danger here is that a sharp thread will make a mess of your rosette, and if you don’t have the water temperature under control – the funny cold/hot game of gas boilers in old buildings is suitable for stimulating massage showers, but not for sensitive rectums – you will suffer nasty discomfort. Well, then all you need is a free loo nearby.
Very clever people enrich the flushing liquids to produce certain effects. But don’t forget the quick absorption! Even a little vodka will get you drunk in no time. Aspirin tingles, but dulls the sensation of pain. It’s better to take mineral water (but not from the fridge!). And poppers don’t belong in there at all, because they burn the mucous membranes – hallelujah!
Waxing as a sex enhancer
As children, we loved dipping our finger in liquid wax and waiting for it to form a thick shell on the tip of our finger. The excitement was in overcoming it. “Do you dare?” Then you should consider the following: As fun as the moderate heat stimulus is, it’s not fun if you walk away with burn blisters. So stay away from beeswax, as it burns hotter than the usual stearin candles. It is also important to consider the diameter: Thick candles quickly produce a lot of liquid wax, thin ones only drip. Getting rid of tealight residue in this way will result in burnt fins (even the best nail varnish will go to hell). And you might want to pay attention to the colour – of course the candle should match your bed linen.
It’s best to place the candle within easy reach of the play area. At least the first time, we strongly advise you to oil your skin beforehand; this protects you from burns and helps to peel the stuff off more easily afterwards. Hairy people have to be prepared for a lot of tugging.
We would recommend using the tops of your forearms to feel it out. The chest will then be exciting, as will the warts. We would only include the genitals once you have enjoyed the “foreplay”, as they are naturally much more sensitive. By the way, you should never just cover yourself with wax according to the motto “now or never”. Waxing is a stimulation game, “Dröpje for dröpje” is the motto. The distance from which you drip is also important. The greater the distance, the more it is a mind game (fear of pain), the smaller the distance, the more it is a sensory stimulus (actual pain).
Water sports
Golden Shower in personals does not stand for expensive bathroom equipment. And NS has nothing to do with national socialism. It is about pinks. For some, playing with one’s own piss increases pleasure, for others the very idea is disgusting. You should give it a try, if only to overcome false shame and the fear of urine (which is hygienically pure as long as you don’t suffer from kidney dysfunction or urinary tract infections). The shower is a good place to break down threshold fears. Aim for your feet, legs or hands first. When you lie down, you can easily hit the belly, and with a little pressure even the face. If you find it fun, ask your partner to piss on you.
NaCL-solution
Many men, oddly enough, want to know what you can inject into your sack to make it as plump as it is in some pictures. NaCl is physiological saline solution, i.e. it corresponds approximately to the osmolarity of blood plasma and can therefore be very well absorbed by the body. Injected into the scrotum, it creates a bulging, heavy feeling that temporarily makes you feel like you have more between your legs than there really is. And who ever has too much? By temporary, we mean that the solution is gradually absorbed by the body, and the bag shrinks back to its normal size after a few hours, about one to two hours per 100 ml.
Proceed with caution
Not really proud of the pain that an infection causes – if you have not worked sterilely. So: If you don’t know how to do it, leave it alone. If you find a professional or are a doctor or nurse yourself, you should not overdo it the first few times. 500 ml is more than enough. Remember, it will take hours to fit back into your tight 501. It’s a very bad idea to inject yourself with silicone from the DIY store, because you think it’s the same thing women use to enlarge their breasts.
We don’t need to say any more about that. But we are still happy to answer the question whether you can blow air into your breasts instead of NaCl. Technically, this is very easy, but the problem is that air is not absorbed by the body like NaCl, but rises through the pelvic floor into the abdominal cavity. The feeling of having a fart across the abdomen may be funny, but it is really unpleasant when the air hits the lungs and the heart because it causes anxiety and shortness of breath. There is then no way around an operation.
Electro Play as a sex enhancer
There are stories going around about people using model railway transformers for such things. This is not a good idea because it can have serious consequences: Burns, nerve damage, cardiac arrhythmia, death. From a medical point of view, it is questionable to place electrodes above the heart. This includes the head, but also the nipples. It should be clear that you don’t do this in the bathtub, and people with pacemakers don’t enjoy it either. If you still want to enjoy the tingling, tickling and extreme pain, turn to professional electro play equipment. You’ll also learn how to do it properly without causing any damage. You can also buy nice accessories that are difficult to make yourself. Such as butt plugs with electrodes or the little wheels your mum used to use to mark fabric cuttings. Clamps with which you can electrify piercings…
Viagra, Cialis & Co. as sex enhancer
All »erection enhancers« block the enzyme PDE-5. Consequently prevent the swelling of your hard-on for several hours (Viagra 4, Cialis 72). However, they do not take away your arousal, which is why they should not be confused with aphrodisiacs. The side effects are not insignificant: Headaches, facial flushing, irritation of the mucous membranes, stomach problems … In rare cases, priapism, the painful permanent erection that can result in permanent damage to the erectile tissue, can occur.
Together with the scene drug poppers, blood pressure can drop dangerously and cardiac arrest can occur. The long-term effects are not yet known. As we said, no one knows yet whether after years of regular use your dick will fall off. That may be of much less interest to a 60-year-old than to someone who starts taking it at 25. But what’s really stupid is that most people still have a hard-on after the first orgasm, but they don’t feel like having sex any more.
Apropos, the new hammer is called PT-141. The Canadian sex psychologist James G. Pfaus says about it: »Our drug imitates and strengthens a natural hormone that is also activated in the brain during normal sex. It increases desire and sexual desire for a partner very quickly and immediately. Viagra, Cialis and Levitra are only available on prescription in Germany, Austria and Switzerland. But you don’t buy them in pharmacies anyway, because they are much cheaper over the internet. A Cialis can be bought over the counter for as little as 10 euros.
Dead Man, take two
You need this technique if you want to have a sex enhancer in moments when you are not alone. For example when your lover does not want to have sex with you, but has the opinion: playing with yourself alone = cheating = bad = break-up = throwing clothes out of the window.
In addition to the invisible jerk-off movements, you have to learn to breathe calmly and serenely while rocking up and to keep your mouth shut while cumming. A look in the mirror will tell you if you roll your eyes, squint and blink. Üben, üben, üben. To hide your orgasm from others, all you have to do now is learn how to come without squirting. This is also a good idea if you find yourself in situations where sperm wouldn’t really contribute to everyone’s well-being.
Let’s say under a desk in the office (cleaners are supposed to report this!), in changing rooms (simply because it’s a mess to be so selfish) or in the swimming pool (sure, there are people who go into the pool with an unwashed ass or who just roll in it, but that doesn’t mean you have to jerk off in it. Read more about cum-free cumming in the next article).
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