Holidays should actually help you relax and not cause stress. But if family or friends have announced themselves, and you have to go shopping, cook or prepare something else, pressure can build up and get you blue balls. So you have to relieve them. What about a little or a lot of sex? This article will give you a few ideas on how you can relieve your pressure and stress with sex!
Try something new
Whoever is excited by the hustle and bustle of the holidays. But feels in his pants that the best part of his man is crying out for lust. Blue balls say hello. For relieve, you could for example try something new during sex. Because every man has unlived fantasies. And living them out after a stressful visit to the in-laws can take a lot of sexual pressure off.
Ideally, your partner will also feel the need to relax. Get rid of his own blue balls too. Try something new in the way of sex with a pleasurable, bubbly experience. Then, as a couple, you can think about what new practices you’d both like to try. This could be hot fucking with a dildo, wearing fetish clothing for the first time. Or hot men’s sex in public places.
The added excitement will initially increase your stress levels. But you will soon enough realise how deeply relaxed you are when you have actually acted out the fantasies you previously only had in your head.
Dominance during sex – Subjugate sexual partner as an object of pleasure
Whoever wants to relieve blue balls through sex could, if he has a rather dominant personality, look for a sexual partner whom he playfully subjugates by fixing him through tie-up games and then pleasurably using fetish equipment such as stick, whip or paddle chips and disciplines.
If you like it, you can just imagine that your counterpart is your father-in-law. He has once again made a visit to your parents a rather unpleasant event and caused you stress. So this type of play can be combined with a hot roleplay a la father & son.
Submission & Surrender of Power
Maybe it’s also a good idea to step out of the role you normally play. And instead of being the dominant part in sex, jump into the role of someone who enjoys submission to their partner. After all the responsibility you may have had in planning a successful holiday, you can now let go of all responsibility. Trust your partner and surrender to their will.
Such a role change may seem unusual to you as the dominant person, but in the end it is about trust. Letting go of cherished practices, including sexual ones, and accepting your new role as the one who obeys you. Of course, such a redistribution of roles only works if the partner is also interested in changing the status quo and plays along, so to speak. In this case, it can be a completely new experience for both of you. And you can also relieve pressure sexually by letting go.
Gay massage for deep relaxation
An absolutely pleasant way to shake off the stress of the holidays is to get a massage specially designed for gays. During such a massage appointment, you can breathe deeply in a very intimate atmosphere. Enjoy the warm hands of the masseur, the pleasantly scented massage oil and in most cases the planned “Happy Ending”. Depending on the masseur, there may be more sexual activity, and you may get to fuck him. Or he may give it to you good while bend over on the massage table.
A special kind of relaxation is Tantra sex. In this variation, after a hectic and stressful holiday, you will experience the zest of the Tantra teacher. He will show you how to activate the sexual energy in your pelvis in a particularly pleasurable and intense way. If you can’t release pressure during Tantra, it’s your own fault.
“Rent a Callboy”
For all those who find it too exhausting after the hustle and bustle of a holiday to search for a short-term available sex partner on the internet on the relevant gay chats, they can also simply make use of the services of a callboy. This service, often referred to as the “the oldest profession in the world”, is also available for gays.
Of course, it is a matter of paid affection. But if it is not about deep feelings, but mainly about a sexual adventure to relieve the pressure, you can be sexually treated by a gay of your choice very uncomplicated and also at short notice and thus relieve your holiday stress.
Visit a fetish club
What the swingers club or the brothel are for heterosexuals, the BDSM or fetish club is for the fetish-loving gay. Here, alone or with your partner, you can not only live out your soft spot for fetish clothing (e.g. underwear, leather, rubber or lycra), but also let friends or strangers bring you to orgasm.
In these clubs there are always different theme parties. And you have the possibility to get fucked in different playrooms as a passive person or as an active person with your hard cock. To experience an even more intense orgasm and cum properly, many gays use poppers. A scent that relaxes, increases pleasure and stimulates blood flow. The results are an extremely hard cock, uninhibited sex and a good, far-flying load of sperm at climax.
Host a sex party with friends
What not only brings a lot of sexual fun and relieves blue balls, but also excites your friends? That is to invite them to a sex party, perhaps with a gangbang. There is a lot to prepare for such a party. And the fun and the horniness that will come later will compensate for the effort.
For such a sex event to succeed, all that is needed is enough space for different kinds of sex. A possibility for anal hygiene (i.e. also anal showers, wet towels etc.), plenty of condoms, lots of lubes and of course the nice little bottles with PP in them. However, these are usually brought by the horny girls themselves. What you should look out for in the guest list is a balanced ratio of tops and bottoms. So that no one is short-changed and no one is overstrained.
Cruising to anonymously relieve pressure
An equally exciting and appealing method of relieving pressure with sex is so-called cruising. In almost every large city there are these meeting places for gays with a preference for anonymous and fast, but still infinitely horny sex. All you have to do is type in “Cruising in XY” on the internet and pages will open up describing these places of pleasure. These can be parks, public toilets or rest areas as well as quarry lakes, changing rooms in swimming pools or other, usually very public locations.
Since you will probably have sex with strangers, you would be well advised to take care of your health and always have condoms with you. If you are not explicitly into sperm and prefer cumshots down the throat, put a condom on your partner’s cock. No matter how tasty he presents himself. The rubbers are already available in all possible variations and sizes. Even with different flavours for a hot blowjob, the manufacturers can serve. So you can relieve your holiday stress and enjoy hot sex without a guilty conscience.
Watching porn & enjoying yourself
Well, not every gay has the self-confidence or the time for big sexual experiments. In this case, watching some hot porn and playing with yourself intensely can help to release pent-up stress and relieve the pressure on your balls. There are nice toys you can use for this. There are many toys for a stimulating Anal Play, lustful Cock Play or a literally electrifying Electro Play.
So you can get rid of stress and relieve pressure on your balls.
So you have the opportunity, for example with Fleshlight, to deal with yourself extensively, to enjoy a maximum of horniness and at the same time to relieve stress in an absolutely pleasant way. The positive thing about this kind of sexual activity is that you can practise it completely undisturbed, experiment and perhaps discover one or two new preferences. The play with oneself also needs to be learned and reinvented, to prevent blue balls.
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