BDSM Collars and Leads – Leather, Silicone and Neoprene
In BDSM a collar is more than an accessory – it marks belonging, hierarchy and trust. At Tom Rocket's you'll find collars in leather, silicone and neoprene in various colours and widths, plus the Avanza Beast Collar & Leash set with collar and lead. Collars for your BDSM sessions. The other kinds of restraints sit one level up.

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Leather Collars: 6 Colours
The Leather Collars Black, Red, Blue, White and Yellow are cut from genuine leather (total length 55 cm, width 6 cm, adjustable diameter 10 to 15 cm) with 3 O-rings, for attaching leads, chains or carabiners. These specifications do not apply to the Leather Collar brown. Available in Black for the classic BDSM look, plus Red, Blue, White and Yellow for colour coordination with the rest of your kit; the Leather Collar brown comes separately with a circumference of 34 to 46 cm. The three O-rings allow multiple attachment points: front, side or rear. Leather sits firm, has weight to it and softens with wear, gradually conforming to the wearer's neck.
Silicone Collars with a Statement
The Silicone Collar BITCH and the Silicone Collar SLUT wear their label in white silicone lettering: 2 cm wide, total length approximately 45 cm, adjustable, rear fastening. The silicone collars are pleasantly narrow and adjustable for a snug fit. These collars sit somewhere between bondage tool and statement accessory, wearable at parties, in clubs and at events without looking out of place.
Tom of Finland: Neoprene
The Tom of Finland Neoprene Collar with Lock (total length 47 cm, width 6 cm) is padded, fitted with one O-ring and a lock. The dom holds the key, the sub wears the collar. Neoprene is water-resistant, soft and comfortable against the skin, making it suitable even for multi-hour sessions.
Specialist: SM Penis Restraint Lead
The SM Penis Choke Leash with Spikes is a set comprising a cock chain and a chain lead with a leather handle: vegetable-tanned leather, adjustable sizing, chain length 55 cm plus a 9 cm leather grip. The chain wraps around the shaft; the lead hands control of the sub's most sensitive body part to the dom. Do not pull the lead tight, release it immediately for pain, numbness, cold or discolouration, and treat an unremovable constriction as an emergency. A specialised tool for experienced BDSM players who know exactly what they are doing.
Materials and Care
Treat leather collars with leather cleaner after wear. Sweat breaks down the material over time. Rinse silicone collars under running water. Neoprene is water-resistant and low-maintenance. Wipe down all hardware with a dry cloth after sessions in wet environments.
Collars for Different Occasions
- BDSM scene: Leather Collar (with O-rings for lead attachment)
- Puppy play: Tom of Finland Neoprene Collar: padded, lockable, comfortable for longer sessions
- Party or club: Silicone BITCH or SLUT: narrow, eye-catching, statement piece
- Colour match: Leather Collar in the colour of your harness or handcuffs
Shipping and Orders
Tom Rocket's ships free within Germany from EUR 49, EU-wide from EUR 99. Orders placed before 1 PM are dispatched the same day. Discreet delivery in plain packaging. Customer service via chat, email or WhatsApp.
Frequently Asked Questions
Which collar is best for beginners?
The Silicone Collars (BITCH or SLUT): narrow and adjustable. Alternatively, the Tom of Finland Neoprene collar is padded and comfortable for longer wear.
What are the measurements of the Leather Collars Black and Brown?
The Leather Collar Black is 6 cm wide. The Leather Collar Brown has a circumference of 34 to 46 cm, with no documented width.
What is the SM Penis Restraint Lead?
A set of cock chain and chain lead. The chain wraps around the shaft; the lead gives the dom control. Designed for experienced BDSM players.























