BDSM Collars and Leads – Leather, Silicone and Neoprene
In BDSM a collar is more than an accessory – it marks belonging, hierarchy and trust. At Tom Rocket's you'll find collars in leather, silicone and neoprene in various colours and widths, plus matching leads and carabiners. From a discreet everyday choker to a wide statement collar for the session.
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Leather Collars – 6 Colours
The Leather Collars are cut from genuine leather (total length 55 cm, width 6 cm, adjustable diameter 10–15 cm) with 3 O-rings – for attaching leads, chains or carabiners. Available in 6 colours: Black for the classic BDSM look, Brown for a vintage aesthetic, plus Red, Blue, White and Yellow for colour coordination with the rest of your kit. The three O-rings allow multiple attachment points – front, side or rear. Leather sits firm, has weight to it and softens with wear, gradually conforming to the wearer's neck.
Silicone Collars with a Statement
The Silicone Collar BITCH and the Silicone Collar SLUT wear their label in white silicone lettering – 2 cm wide, total length approximately 45 cm, adjustable, rear fastening. Silicone is lightweight, waterproof, skin-friendly and simple to clean. These collars sit somewhere between bondage tool and statement accessory – wearable at parties, in clubs and at events without looking out of place. The material is soft enough to avoid pressure marks even with extended wear.
Tom of Finland – Neoprene and Chain
The Tom of Finland Neoprene Collar with Lock (total length 47 cm, width 6 cm) is padded, fitted with one O-ring and a lock – the dom holds the key, the sub wears the collar. Neoprene is water-resistant, soft and comfortable against the skin, making it suitable even for multi-hour sessions. The Tom of Finland Chain Lead is dark metal with a carabiner clip and faux leather handle – compatible with any collar or harness that has an O-ring.
Specialist: SM Penis Restraint Lead
The SM Penis Wuergeleine mit Spikes is a set comprising a cock chain and a chain lead with a leather handle – vegetable-tanned leather, adjustable sizing, chain length 55 cm plus a 9 cm leather grip. The chain wraps around the shaft; the lead hands control of the sub's most sensitive body part to the dom. A specialised tool for experienced BDSM players who know exactly what they are doing.
Materials and Care
Treat leather collars with leather cleaner after wear – sweat breaks down the material over time. Rinse silicone collars under running water. Neoprene is water-resistant and low-maintenance. Check the Tom of Finland Chain Lead periodically for rust – the dark metal is coated, but regular skin contact can wear the finish over time. Wipe down all hardware with a dry cloth after sessions in wet environments.
Collars for Different Occasions
- BDSM scene: Leather Collar (with O-rings for lead attachment) + Tom of Finland Chain Lead
- Puppy play: Tom of Finland Neoprene Collar – padded, lockable, comfortable for longer sessions
- Party or club: Silicone BITCH or SLUT – lightweight, eye-catching, statement piece
- Colour match: Leather Collar in the colour of your harness or handcuffs
Shipping and Orders
Tom Rocket's ships free within Germany from EUR 49, EU-wide from EUR 99. Orders placed before 1 PM are dispatched the same day. Discreet delivery in plain packaging. Customer service via chat, email or WhatsApp.
Frequently Asked Questions
Which collar is best for beginners?
The Silicone Collars (BITCH or SLUT) – lightweight, soft and pressure-free. Alternatively, the Tom of Finland Neoprene collar is padded and comfortable for longer wear.
Do the leads fit all collars?
The Tom of Finland Chain Lead has a carabiner clip – it fits any collar or harness with an O-ring.
Can leather collars be worn outside of BDSM contexts?
Possibly. Narrower models (Black or Brown in particular) can sit under a shirt collar. The 6 cm width is noticeable, though – these are not designed for daily inconspicuous wear.
What is the SM Penis Restraint Lead?
A set of cock chain and chain lead. The chain wraps around the shaft; the lead gives the dom control. Designed for experienced BDSM players.