Gay Jewellery – Collars, Pendants, Hanky Codes and Party Accessories
Gay jewellery ranges from discreet pendants to statement collars for the party. At Tom Rocket's you'll find necklaces, hanky code accessories, bracelets and piercing jewellery that works at Pride, in the club or in everyday life. Jewellery that says more than a thousand words.
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BDSM Jewellery in Steel
The BDSM Magnetic Steel Barbell Collar is a stainless steel collar with a magnetic closure – two balls (3 cm diameter) at each end, available in two sizes. Rust-proof, quick to put on and take off, visually dominant. Clean with isopropyl alcohol only. The Circular Barbell Bracelet (L 68 mm) is a wrist cuff in piercing style – looks like an oversized barbell ring, wearable as an everyday accessory or as a fetish statement.
Pendants and Chains
The Master of the House Pendants come in three variants: Kinkster, Queer and They/Them – bar pendants in stainless steel (4 cm), some polished, some brushed, each delivered in a faux leather pouch. Subtle enough for everyday wear, unmistakable to those who know. The Puppy Gold Chain has a gold-plated stainless steel pendant with a puppy paw motif (1.2 x 1.4 cm) on an approximately 40 cm chain with a lobster clasp – wearable by puppy play fans outside of sessions too.
Leather Accessories
The Leather Arm Cuffs (with and without studs) are made from genuine leather, adjustable in size via two rows of press studs. The Leather Shirt Collar Classic is a detachable leather collar – wearable as a fetish accessory over bare skin or over a shirt. Both pieces are timeless classics of the leather scene.
Hanky Code Bandanas
The Hanky Code Bandanas (55 x 55 cm) come in 5 colours – each colour represents a different preference in the hanky code system: Black for SM/hard, Red for fisting, Blue for oral sex, Grey for bondage, Yellow for watersports. Worn on the left means active, worn on the right means passive. The bandanas are a communication tool – at fetish parties, in clubs and at events they say without words what you are looking for.
LED Glow Straps and Cyber Harnesses
The Glow Straps are illuminated genuine leather bands with LED and lettering: Daddy, Dirty, Pride, Top and Vers. They attach to harnesses (interchangeable centre section), have 7 colour modes and a rechargeable battery. The Cyber Harnesses in neon (Green, Orange, Unicorn Cum) glow under black light – Breedwell products, elastic, multiple wearing options. Both are party accessories that deliver visibility on dark dance floors.
Party Tattoos and Stickers
The Party Tattoos come in 6 motifs: Cock Sucker, Fist my Hole, Pig, Pride Flag, Slut and Bitch. Temporary tattoos (9.5 x 6.5 cm) that last roughly a week – removal with acetone, oil or tape. Pride Bodyjewels Stickers are adhesive glitter gems in a Pride design – for CSD parades and events.
Knee Pads and Holsters
The Fetish Knee Pads, Tactical Knee Pads and Leather Knee Pads protect the knees during longer sessions – padded, adjustable, comfortable even when worn for extended periods. The Leather Party Pocket Holster (large and medium) is a leather pouch for belt or waistband – keeps poppers, lube sachets and condoms within reach on your person.
Ordering and Shipping
Tom Rocket's ships free within Germany from EUR 49, EU-wide from EUR 99. Orders placed before 1 PM are dispatched the same day. Discreet delivery in plain packaging. Customer service via chat, email or WhatsApp.
Frequently Asked Questions
What do the hanky code colours mean?
Each colour represents a preference: Black = SM/Hard, Red = Fisting, Blue = Oral, Grey = Bondage, Yellow = Watersports. Worn left = active, worn right = passive.
Are the Glow Straps rechargeable?
Yes, the LED Glow Straps have a rechargeable battery and 7 colour modes. They attach to harnesses or can be worn on their own.
How long do the Party Tattoos last?
About a week. Remove with acetone, oil or tape. The tattoos measure 9.5 x 6.5 cm and can be worn on the chest, arm or buttocks.
Is the Steel Collar suitable for everyday wear?
With reservations. The BDSM Magnetic Steel Barbell Collar is a statement piece – wearable under clothing, but noticeable. The magnetic closure allows quick fastening and removal.