BDSM Accessories – Toy Cleaner, Hanky Code Bandanas and Gear Care
BDSM doesn't work without aftercare and the right accessories. At Tom Rocket's you'll find toy cleaners for post-play hygiene, hanky code bandanas for the dress code and leather care that keeps your gear supple. Small things that make the difference between a good session and a great one.
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Toy Cleaner and Hygiene
Sex toys go near the body's most sensitive areas – thorough cleaning before and after every use is not optional. The Eros Intimate & Toy Cleaner cleans and disinfects in a single step, safe for all toy materials including silicone, TPE, metal and glass. The Eros Universal Toy Cleaner is the broader-use version. The Bathmate Anal Toy Cleaner Spray is practical for quick between-use sanitation – spray on, leave briefly, wipe off. Mister B Care Toy Wash is the premium option from the established European fetish brand. For douches and toys with hard-to-reach interior surfaces, a liquid cleaner works better than a spray – more thorough contact across the full surface.
Hanky Code Bandanas
The hanky code has been part of gay cruising culture since the 1970s. Colour signals preference and role at a glance – left pocket means active or top, right pocket means passive or bottom. Tom Rocket's carries five colours: Black for SM and heavy play, Blue (dark blue) for anal sex, Grey for bondage, Red for fisting, Yellow for watersports. Beyond the back pocket, bandanas work around the wrist, the neck or as playroom decoration. The code conventions vary slightly by city and scene, but the core colour associations have been stable for decades.
Leather Care
Leather gear – slings, harnesses, masks, floggers, restraints – needs regular maintenance to stay functional and safe. Leather Cleaner Mr. Sling removes surface dirt and sweat build-up without damaging the fibres. Follow with Mister B Leather Conditioner to restore moisture and suppleness. Untreated leather dries out, cracks along stress points and eventually fails – on a harness or a sling that is a safety issue, not just an aesthetic one. A maintenance cycle of cleaning after use and conditioning every two to four weeks extends the life of the gear considerably and keeps it looking right.
Latex and Rubber Care
Mister B Rubber & Latex Shine gives latex that distinctive high-gloss finish – the mirror-like surface that makes latex so visually striking. Applied after wearing, it also protects the material from environmental degradation. Mister B Rubber & Latex Dressing Aid is applied before putting latex clothing on – the material glides over the skin instead of dragging and stretching. Both products extend the life of latex significantly. Without them, latex becomes dull, brittle and prone to tearing, particularly at seams and tight spots.
Protective Sheets
The Fist Club FFuck Sheets (60 x 90 cm) protect beds, slings and furniture from lube, oil and other fluids. Disposable after use – no cleaning required, no staining. Useful for any wet session or wherever you want to avoid a mess on the surface beneath. The Gas Mask Bong is a novelty party piece combining a gas mask with a bong attachment – a conversation-starting prop for events where the mood calls for it.
Which Products Do You Actually Need?
A baseline kit for anyone with a toy collection: one toy cleaner – Eros or Mister B, whichever you prefer – kept within reach of wherever you play. That habit alone removes the main hygiene risk. If you own leather gear, add Leather Cleaner Mr. Sling for post-session cleaning plus Mister B Leather Conditioner for monthly treatment. If you wear latex, Rubber & Latex Shine after each session and Dressing Aid before you put it on. The hanky code bandanas need no special care – machine wash and done. FFuck Sheets are single-use. Keep a roll under the bed or beside the sling. One practical note: toy cleaner stored at a distance tends to get skipped. Put it on the bedside table or at the playroom door and it becomes a habit rather than a chore.
Ordering and Delivery
Tom Rocket's offers free shipping within Germany and across the EU on qualifying orders. Orders placed before 1 pm are dispatched the same day. All packages are plain, unmarked and discreet. Customer support via live chat, email or WhatsApp.
Frequently Asked Questions
Which toy cleaner works with which material?
Eros Intimate & Toy Cleaner and Mister B Toy Wash are safe for all materials – silicone, TPE, metal and glass. The Bathmate Spray is convenient for quick cleaning between sessions when a full wash is not practical.
What do the hanky code colours mean?
Black = SM/heavy play, Blue = anal sex, Grey = bondage, Red = fisting, Yellow = watersports. Worn left = active/top, worn right = passive/bottom. Regional variations exist but these core associations are widely understood.
How often should leather gear be maintained?
Clean after each use with Leather Cleaner Mr. Sling. Condition with Mister B Leather Conditioner every two to four weeks. Never store leather damp. Consistent maintenance prevents cracking and keeps the gear safe under load.
Is special care really necessary for latex?
Yes. Without treatment, latex dries out and becomes brittle. Apply Mister B Rubber & Latex Shine after wearing to protect and restore the finish. Use Dressing Aid before putting it on to protect seams and make the process easier on both the material and you.