Gay Dildos: From Realistic to Fantasy
Gay dildos are the most versatile anal toy: for active thrusting, solo with a suction cup on the wall, or together. Tom Rocket's carries over 100 models, from realistic replicas like Prince Charming to fantasy designs like Cockzilla, plus double dildos and hollow strap-ons. This page covers the classic dildo range: which types exist, which material suits you, and how to pick the right size. XXL models and fisting toys have their own categories, which we link to. All toys for anal play sit together under anal play.
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Table of Contents
- Gay dildos at a glance
- Realistic dildos
- Fantasy dildos
- Double dildos and hollow strap-ons
- Vibrating dildos
- Material and safety
- Choosing the right size
- Care and hygiene
- XXL and fisting: where to go next
- Ordering and shipping
- FAQs about gay dildos
Gay dildos at a glance
Gay dildos at Tom Rocket's split into four types: realistic dildos, fantasy dildos, double dildos and strap-on models. Each type serves a different need, from the lifelike replica to the size fantasy. The table sorts the types by look and use.
| Type | Recognisable by | Who it's for |
|---|---|---|
| Realistic dildos | Veins, glans, sometimes balls, flesh-coloured or black | Anyone after the real look |
| Fantasy dildos | Shapes beyond anatomy, large girths | The experienced and size lovers |
| Double dildos | Two ends, extra long and flexible | Couples who both want to be active |
| Strap-on and hollow | Dildo with harness or hollow shaft | Anyone who wants to give |
This category also sells masturbators like the Reach Around Stroker, because many customers look for a stroker and a dildo in the same order. If you specifically want a masturbator, the dedicated category sits under anal play.
Realistic dildos
Realistic dildos replicate an actual penis: with veins, glans and sometimes balls, in flesh colours or black. They are the best-selling dildo group in the shop and the typical starting point.
The bestsellers show the bandwidth. Prince Charming is the classic model, and The Porn Prince's Cock brings 20 cm of length. The Prince of Namibia and the Black Beauty Cock come in black, while the Lifelike Fuck Dildo XL addresses those who like it bigger. If you want a cast of an actual gay porn star, the moulds of real performers sit in their own category, porn star dildos.
Fantasy dildos
Fantasy dildos leave anatomy behind: exaggerated shapes, unusual textures and sizes beyond nature. They address experienced players looking for a thrill beyond the realistic.
The best-known piece is Cockzilla, a dong that makes a statement by looks alone. A class of its own is the aluminium baseball bat dildo. It is smooth, heavy and cool to the touch, and it comes in two lengths. The extra-short aluminium bat is the more controlled way in. Aluminium conducts temperature, which makes the material interesting for warm and cold play.
Double dildos and hollow strap-ons
Double dildos are extra long and flexible, with one end for each partner. Hollow strap-ons have a hollow shaft that fits over your own penis: they playfully extend and stiffen your own erection.
The OUCH Strap On Dildo with harness shows the second variant. The dildo sits in an adjustable harness and makes the wearer the active partner, independent of their own erection. The full selection of models for two sits under double dildos.
Vibrating dildos
A vibrating dildo is a dildo with a built-in motor. The vibration stimulates on top of the fullness and can usually be adjusted in several levels, which suits anyone who wants more than pressure and movement.
Most vibrating dildos are rechargeable and waterproof, two features that simplify cleaning. Waterproof means the toy is safe for the shower and the tub.
Material and safety
Dildos at Tom Rocket's come in silicone, PVC and TPE. Silicone is the highest-quality material: non-porous, hypoallergenic, sterilisable and long-lasting. PVC and TPE are softer and cheaper, but porous and in need of more careful cleaning. Glass and stainless steel add firmness and temperature play.
The rule for lube is fixed: silicone dildos take water-based lube, because silicone lube attacks the surface. Water-based lube is the safe choice on PVC and TPE as well. A dildo for anal play also needs a flared base or suction cup so it sits securely and can always be fully retrieved.
Choosing the right size
The right dildo size is the diameter you already take with ease. A dildo that reads as harmless on paper can feel noticeably bigger in use, which is why diameter matters more than length.
The pragmatic approach: start smaller than you think and use a model whose size you know as your reference. From there you size up in small steps. With plenty of lube and patience, almost everything can be worked up to, just over several sessions.
Care and hygiene
Cleaning dildos is the simplest part of owning them: warm water and mild soap do the job, and silicone models can even be sterilised. A toy cleaner from the shop complements the routine for PVC and TPE.
Air-dry the toys and store them separated by material: silicone, PVC and TPE can react with each other on direct contact. A fabric bag per toy keeps dust off and surfaces clean.
XXL and fisting: where to go next
XXL dildos and fisting toys are the next step up from the classic dildo. Giant dildos with large girths, and hands or fists for fisting training, sit in dedicated categories.
If you take your current dildo with ease and want more, the big calibres sit under giant dildos. The specialised equipment for the fist lives under fisting toys. Both categories assume experience and plenty of lube.
Ordering and shipping
Tom Rocket's ships within Germany free of charge on orders over €49, and EU-wide over €99. Orders placed by 1 p.m. on working days go out the same day. Delivery is discreet, in a neutral parcel with no hint at the contents. Customer service via chat, email or WhatsApp.
FAQs about gay dildos
Which material is safest for dildos?
Silicone counts as the safest dildo material: it is non-porous, odourless and can be boiled. PVC and TPE are softer and cheaper, but need more careful cleaning and gentler storage.
Can I use silicone lube on a silicone dildo?
Silicone lube attacks the surface of silicone toys and makes it porous. A silicone dildo therefore takes water-based lube.
How do I choose the right size?
The right dildo size is defined by diameter, and smaller than you think is the right start. Use a model you already know as your reference and size up in small steps from there.
What's the difference between realistic and fantasy dildos?
Realistic dildos are replicas of an actual penis, with veins and glans. Fantasy dildos use shapes and sizes beyond anatomy and address experienced players.
What is a hollow strap-on good for?
A hollow strap-on is a strap-on dildo with a hollow shaft that fits over your own penis. It extends and stiffens your erection and makes the wearer the active partner, independent of it.
Do I need a suction cup?
A suction cup holds the dildo on smooth surfaces like tiles and frees your hands. For solo play on a wall or the floor it is practical; for partner play it is secondary.
Is delivery discreet?
Yes. Shipping is in a neutral parcel with no indication of the contents. Orders placed by 1 p.m. on working days go out the same day.